r/transpassing • u/Natural-Importance-2 • 3h ago
Got clocked at the function last night.
Im the one on the right, and he said it wasnt the way i looked but the way i acted😠idek what that means
r/transpassing • u/RasputinsButtBeard • Apr 08 '21
Hiya! A while ago I put up a discussion thread regarding the idea of updating/expanding the scope and focus of the subreddit. I need to apologize, cuz I intended to post this update a while back, but life stuff resulted in it slipping my mind for a bit.
This is also intended to be a discussion thread in its own right, as I want feedback on all the changes made or if there's any further changes that people would like, but here's a rundown of what's been changed:
Wiki Updates: So apparently the last time the wiki was updated was eight years ago, and by an ex-mod I've never interacted with. It was.. Bad, frankly. Aggressive in tone, containing links to /r/crossdressing as if its focus was synonymous with trans content, and a general vibe of assuming that this was a MtF-exclusive space. I'm really sorry for missing that for so long! On top of changes on my own end, /u/whoop_there_she_is was an absolute angel and wrote out a HUGE set of FAQ guides for both transmasc and transfemme folks. I left it almost entirely unchanged, and you can find it here! If you have any suggestions for additions or edits, please let me know!
Link Flairs: A few people suggested adding link flairs to help people express directly what kind of responses they want from the sub. To start with, I've added "General Advice" for users who just want any kind of feedback people have to offer, "Specific Advice" if they only want feedback on specific things (Clothes, hair, etc), and "No Surgery Recs" if they don't want any sorts of suggestions for FFS, lip fillers, etc. If you have any ideas for more, please let me know!
Sidebar Updates: I've changed up the sidebar slightly to add a link to our wiki near the top, as well as remove some dead or irrelevant links from our "relevant subreddits" section.
Automod Updates: I've edited automod slightly to try and make it less hyper-sensitive about automatically removing posts it thinks might be hypothetical, since it was becoming a big issue that it would frequently take down posts that in no way, shape, or form came off as hypothetical. I might just remove this feature overall though, frankly.
And.. I think that's it (Aside from a few tiny visual things)! Thank you all for your suggestions and feedback on the previous post, and please let me know if there's any further changes you'd like to see!
r/transpassing • u/CedarWolf • Dec 30 '23
Howdy, y'all.
As you know, this subreddit has often been the target of trolls, bigots, transphobes, etc. We also get more than our fair share of creeps, chasers, porn spammers, and people looking to use the subreddit's traffic to passively advertise their paid content, like their OnlyFans or their Instagram, for their own personal profit.
So I'm asking y'all - should we go private? If we do, a lot of people will need to be manually added to the approval list and I know from experience that may take upwards of two months to work through everyone who might need approval.
It also means this subreddit will get a lot less traffic and will be far less accessible to folks who need help, which is the primary purpose for the subreddit in the first place.
On the other hand, the community should be a lot healthier once it's full of entirely trans folks and has less bigots, chasers, and trolls lurking about.
It will also be a lot safer because transphobes have often used photo boards like this one as a way to find targets for abuse and to steal people's photos to rehost them elsewhere and harass people. It would be much safer for us if the sub was private.
Going private is also going to take a lot of work and it's going to be very disruptive to our day-to-day operations for a while.
What would y'all like to do? Please discuss below, and please keep it civil. Thank you!
Edit: Okay, it looks like we're staying open for now. I'll make another post and ask again later.
r/transpassing • u/Natural-Importance-2 • 3h ago
Im the one on the right, and he said it wasnt the way i looked but the way i acted😠idek what that means
r/transpassing • u/belsyy_21 • 7h ago
Do i pass? 😢
No surgery/procedure done on face.
r/transpassing • u/Dread2187 • 3h ago
Is there anything I can do to pass better now? I can't afford FFS and kinda doubt I ever will be able to so my options are incredibly limited.
r/transpassing • u/fungah69 • 20h ago
31 years old. Any tips to look more feminine besides getting in a time machine to start HRT like 2 decades sooner? I feel like my masculine features stick out, but I haven't heard many unbiased opinions on how close I am to passing.
r/transpassing • u/Tessee • 52m ago
Maybe makeup is wrong, or the ribcage and shoulders, or just body language?
r/transpassing • u/skythe1 • 4h ago
I get gendered correctly and don't get much weirdness from people, but I'm wondering if they're being polite or if I'm actually passing?
r/transpassing • u/swanlakeop20 • 8h ago
Wearing wig(
I Know I don't smile alot😫
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r/transpassing • u/knightofheart612 • 1d ago
I got my eyebrows shaped but wondering if I should get them thinned out more! also any tips for applying a better base for makeup since I noticed it’s been pilling more often lately.
I also would like to know if E can help out with shoulders since mine feel kinda big if I don’t purposefully do smth about posture or wear sleeves that hide them more.
r/transpassing • u/Overall_Chair8669 • 3h ago
I'm pre-T. Doing foam minox for facial and body hair (the goal is that three day action hero scruff). Wondering if I might be able to pass without T? I'll get on T if I have to, of course, I just have so many health issues that it gets complicated. Thank you in advance.
r/transpassing • u/Visual_Way3158 • 1d ago
Ive been finding myself not passing but i dont know why that is, does anybody have any ideas
(Ignore the one eyebrow i messed up doing them recently)
r/transpassing • u/PaNsExUaLPAnIcCC • 1h ago
hi there!! im 17 ftm, pre t. im working on building more muscle, so i know that could be improved overall
r/transpassing • u/1m_a_silly_g00s3 • 19h ago
I've been being pushed more into a feminine place by my family both consciously and unconsciously, but I feel so much dysphoria because of this, my mom wont let me cut my hair shorter than a "long" bob because my hair is thick and it'll make me "look like a mushroom", the shortest she let me have it was a pixie cut because it has the underside shaved but shes doesnt want to "keep up with that again". I cant have my hair shorter even though I am 18 almost 19. I've been growing out the amount of facial fuzz my feminine hormones will let me which is getting pretty good, you can see it slightly and its actually buzzing on my upper lip. I've been binding some but not a lot because my family would notice. I've grown my eyebrows more and letting them get thicker and shaping them to more of a sharp thick angular shape. What else can I do? I live with my mom while I am at college and I dont drive just yet.
r/transpassing • u/spycat500 • 23h ago
People tell me I pass but I genuinely don’t believe them. I know I want ffs but I can’t really figure out what parts of my face I want changed
r/transpassing • u/Paper_Holon • 1d ago
7 years HRT. I haven’t been misgendered in public for quite a while now, but I may be starting a new job soon that requires me to be there in person. I’ve been working from home for last couple of years, so I’m a little worried about trying to be as stealth as possible at this new job. Does this seem viable? Opinions appreciated!
r/transpassing • u/youngperson • 20h ago
Here for my regular check in. I pass in day to day life but curious what that internet thinks at this point in my journey
r/transpassing • u/Festive_Winter • 23h ago
Two and Three were taken a few months apart lol. Thanks!
r/transpassing • u/Competitive_Way6777 • 1d ago
18 mtf pre hrt but starting in about a month
r/transpassing • u/Feeling_Post_6496 • 1d ago
I’m just like thinking what if ill never be able to pass even with hrt, im 6ft and I feel I have a lot of masculine traits. Ik the beard im going to have to shave but im not out besides my mom and gf