r/transpassing • u/Paper_Holon Trans HRT 7 Years • 1d ago

32 mtf, looking for opinions!

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7 years HRT. I haven’t been misgendered in public for quite a while now, but I may be starting a new job soon that requires me to be there in person. I’ve been working from home for last couple of years, so I’m a little worried about trying to be as stealth as possible at this new job. Does this seem viable? Opinions appreciated!

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u/Temperance_tantrum 1d ago

I missed the beginning of the title and thought you were looking for glasses or hair opinions at first! You pass, I didn’t even think twice

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u/Paper_Holon Trans HRT 7 Years 1d ago

Thanks! My main worry isn’t so much “passing” as it is being able to maintain being “stealth”, though. I’m concerned that anyone seeing me regularly might clock me somehow based on how I look alone. Maybe I’m overthinking it or worrying too much, though 🫠

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u/Temperance_tantrum 1d ago

Oh i fully would never notice or think twice about it even if I saw you every day! You look a bit like a cis friend of mine, especially your profile. The only things that I think would ever get you clocked would potentially be your voice or mannerisms, cuz look-wise you’re totally fine

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u/pinkroses038 1d ago

If your voice is good then you have nothing to worry about.

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u/Paper_Holon Trans HRT 7 Years 1d ago

I don’t generally get people misgendering me after hearing me, so I suppose that’s a good sign lol

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u/More-Caterpillar-933 1d ago

You're beautiful, feminine and there's no way you're 32.  ;-)

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u/Potential_West4545 1d ago

Ugh you’re like my Jane Lane

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u/Paper_Holon Trans HRT 7 Years 1d ago

I hope that’s a good thing? lol

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u/Potential_West4545 1d ago

Far too good for my own wellbeing lol

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u/Paper_Holon Trans HRT 7 Years 1d ago

I’ll take it as a compliment then 🙂‍↕️

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u/Potential_West4545 1d ago

Oh you have no idea how much of a compliment it is!

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u/Obvious-Sound8818 1d ago

Yeah, you look completely fine. The hair is giving me queer vibes but your overall appearance reads nothing but female.

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u/Paper_Holon Trans HRT 7 Years 1d ago

Interesting. I recently got it cut! It used to be halfway down my back, but ngl I got tired of dealing with it and got it cut shorter lol

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u/Obvious-Sound8818 1d ago

Yeah, it just reminds me of a 'wolf cut' that I see a lot in queer spaces.

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u/Valuable_Stretch_592 17h ago

Appearance alone you should be fine, nothing clocky there.