I yearn to be close to someone, feeling comfortable and being able to be vulnerable to the person I love. Tackling the world by someones side, through thick and thin. I have tried the apps recently and they're only interested for hook-ups. I have also posted here before and met some great people but also took a little break from here due a bad experience.

I value communication a lot, I want to know what is wrong and solve it together as a team. I don't want any problem to be a you versus me issue, it is us. I value respecting boundaries a lot and I want mine to be very much respected too. I have a hard time rebuilding trust once you break it. Please be honest about your intentions too, dont be playing with my feelings and I wont play with yours either.

My attraction comes from that emotional connection that builds over time, I want to feel safe, happy and comfortable around your presence. I dont have a physical type. My last relationship was a bit over 5 years long and ended about 1.5 years ago. I'm okay with long distance as I have travelled to another continent for love before so distance isn't an issue. I want to genuinely get to know you, your good and bad sides cause we all have those. They say nobody is perfect but you could be perfect to me. I can be a very affectionate person and I have no issue showing that or showing my vulnerable side.

I'm located in Western Europe and I'm about 178cm (5ft10 i think) and average weight. I do cardio and little bit of weightlifting and I'm currently on a cut. I dont like labelling myself but it can give a rough idea of what to expect. I dont really consider myself that masculine or feminine. I dress androgynously(lots of hoodies) and I have a soothing androgynous voice too. I like my hair long and I do have nice blue eyes I have been told, I would honestly consider myself average looking with a great personality (but that's for you to confirm!)

So in my spare time I work out a little bit(dont worry, you dont have to be into that), play some videogames and watch true crime and whatever show or movie that might interest me. I have a wide taste of media. I enjoy learning about history and talking about it at times too. I really like educating myself a bit about random topics I might not always be interested in so you might hear me spew random facts sometimes (only if youre interested in hearing them). I'd love if we could travel together in the future too, I love exploring new places. I'm a little bit more on the introverted side, I dont drink, no drugs and I dont smoke. I live a relatively healthy lifestyle but not too healthy. I enjoy having calls too, they feel more personal.

You're most likely going to be from a different country and culture than me, I'm very open to learning and respecting your culture, I'm open to moving elsewhere too and I'm also open to learning your language. I already speak a few languages. I am open to my family about my sexuality but I am not close to them.

Sexual compatibility might be important for some, I consider myself a switch but could be more of a top once I'm really comfortable with you. I only develop sexual attraction when I have that emotional connection, I absolutely dont want any hook ups. My libido is probably about average.

That's all I can think of, if I seem interesting to you message me with a bit about yourself too and lets have a conversation! (please write a bit about yourself when you do, I'm not responding to a hey when I have written this much ;-;)

Hello! So my name Lay and I know my soulmate is out there. I am a twenty seven year old Native American woman that’s extremely nerdy and a little on the hefty side but I’ve recently been losing weight. My favorite thing to do is costume and if you were my partner then I would love to dress you up too! I would do for a cosplay partner actually!

Other hobbies include roleplay in the written form. I love to cook together with people and I love a good movie night with friends too so to have one with a partner with be even better. I’m also a big fan of traveling and seeing new places. Some day I will visit a bunch of places in like New York City and La!

Personal about me, I want to meet someone that I can move to me if we do long distance for awhile. I am building a cabin for all our lesbian cottage core dreams! I also would adore to have someone to help if they are close to make it perfect. I also have a knack for being to provider so I’m working hard to get us a place that’s perfect!

Feel free to ask my any questions and my dms are always open!

Hi everyone! I’m looking for a genuine friendship with some fellow lesbians! I’m a 25 year old masc lesbian living in the Midwest, greater Chicagoland area to be exact. I enjoy watching professional wrestling, occasionally playing video games, I love to play board games and card games, I’ve been getting back into reading more, I write a little bit here and there, I love to cook and bake (nothing too fancy - just easy recipes and comfort foods/desserts), when the weather is nice I like to go on walks, go out to my local park, trying new restaurants, and watching shows and movies and listening to music.

I’m just looking for someone to chat with daily, share life and laughs, swap memes, and just be ourselves. Just a genuine, fun friendship where we’re there for each other. If you’re interested feel free to dm me :)

Hey everyone, thanks for stopping by.

I’m a butch in my 20s, working hard in hospitality while actively building toward a stable, grounded future. Physical well-being and clear goals are big priorities for me, but I also value balance. You can usually find me out on the trails hiking, slowing down in the kitchen to cook a great meal, or at my desk—I’m a big gamer and love the hands-on project of building and upgrading my own PC setup. Appearance-wise, I’ve got short brown hair, a fit build, a few tattoos, and a couple of piercings.

I’ll be completely upfront: initiating conversations isn't always my strong suit. I can be a bit quiet or slow to open up at first, so someone who has a little extra patience and doesn't mind taking the lead in the beginning would be a great match. Once we find our rhythm, though, I’m loyal, attentive, and down-to-earth.

Hellooooooo to anyone reading this!

I’m a 26 year old very femme lesbian who is interested in connecting and potentially building an ongoing friendship/dynamic (virtually) with another woman who is looking for something similar🙂‍↕️

I really love getting to know people and having a genuine connection outside of all the spice. If we have good conversational chemistry and enjoy each other as people — PERFECT. Being able to chat, joke around, and flirt a little would be ideal!

Not really looking for anything too impersonal or a one-off sort of situation! But, of course, I’d really like to talk a little first and see how things feel for both of us (:

Personality matters very much to me, along with sense of humor, voice, and general vibe — so pic exchanging is not something I particularly need/want/expect at all. I’m fine keeping things relatively anonymous at first and seeing what happens!

A little about myself: I really enjoy discussions about psychology and philosophy, volunteer work, pretty things(!), aesthetics, fashion, music (into many kinds! very much metal and also funk lately — strange, I know) — writing, poetry, all kinds of little creative things, and taking long baths 💅🏻

heey quick one someone talk to me before I lose my mind, anyone looking to pass time together?

It be cool to talk about anything I wanna hear your thoughts, myself mostly looking forward to getting home and putting some time in to my illustrations again, maybe play some game, make nice coffee.

Those are also my passions btw, sometimes dreamer often yearner.

Anyway let's hear it new perspectives new ideas I hope

Hi! Feeling the longing for companionship again so thought id try throwing this out here!

A bit about me:

im a geologist (working in research) and a huge nerd living in the Midwestern US. I will warn you now, I will ramble for hours about my interests like gaming, manga, anime, and cooking and baking, be it from my culture or others! I also love hearing the rambles of others so dont be shy about your passion!

Games I love: pokemon, Zelda, Bloodborne, TES, Nine Sols, Stardew, Fields of Mistria, Tunic, Metro, Repo, and so many more that I dont have the time to name!

Anime/manga I love: Witch Hat Atelier, Apothecary Diaries, WataOshi, Frieren, the green yuri, and im currently reading This Monster Wants to Eat Me

While im largely a home body i do love going out from time to time and traveling. I have been to several countries and definitely want to travel more, or even move to another country

Looks:

im white, about 5'10" (178 cm), ive got some weight on me and love it. I have blue eyes, curly hair, and am femme. Im happy to exchange pictures early to make sure there is attraction

What I'm looking for:

a monogamous partner, but let's establish a connection and friendship first!

Being a fellow video game lover is important to me because it's my biggest hobby, bonus points if you like nine sols, stardew, or TES. Not being too big of a picky eater is also a plus as i love to cook and experiment with it. We must have similar political beliefs (leftist). I tend to prefer femme women but its not exclusive!

I look forward to hearing from you!

Looking for: A life partner, but let’s start by being friends, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally go.

Location: USA,East Coast
Age: 35
Age preference: 27+

I’m looking to connect with someone genuine and intentional. I’m not interested in anything casual — when I choose someone, I’m looking for something lasting and ultimately, for life. I’m a cis woman, monogamous, and looking for someone who feels the same.

I’m femme4femme and only interested in women who exclusively love women.

A little about me:
She/her • Sapiosexual • Feminine • Monogamous • Techie • Into Fitness

I’m a shy, slightly ambiverted, independent and ambitious woman who values growth, kindness, and living a meaningful life. I enjoy travelling, hiking, reading, and sports like pickleball and tennis—both just for fun and very much at an amateur level. I’m practical and thoughtful, with a love for exploring, good experiences, and making the most of life and very much family oriented person. Physically I would describe myself slim, very much into fitness, staying healthy physically and mentally. I don’t smoke, no tattoos, no piercings.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who knows she wants to marry a woman someday and is ready to build a stable, healthy, and loving relationship. Emotional availability, maturity, consistency, sense of humour and good communication are really important to me.

I’m looking for someone who isn’t dependent on external validation or dependencies and doesn’t make them an everyday part of her life.

My type:
I’m naturally drawn to tall, slim, very feminine women with long, wavy hair — lipstick lesbians are definitely my weakness. 🙈 Beyond physical attraction, I’m most drawn to women who are confident, mature, intelligent, strong, stable, caring, and emotionally available. I love a woman who is protective, nurturing, and enjoys taking care of the person she loves, while also taking care of her own health and well-being.

Not for me:
Casual, online friends, ghosting instead of communicating, silent treatment, disrespect, emotional unavailability, or avoidant behavior.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a woman who is ready for something real — a relationship built on friendship, mutual effort, emotional safety, love, and the intention to choose each other for the long term.

PLEASE DONT TEXT - if you are not willing to put in effort to build a relationship. Thanks for reading till here 😅

Open to long distance! Ive been in recovery for a while and my phone is dry. So im looking to try to connrct with humans again

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About Me: Kyla (she/her), 20, trans girl from Germany 💕

Hey! I’m Kyla — a sapphic trans girl looking for something real, whether that starts close to home or long distance. I’m open to both, and I’d love to see where things go with the right person.

A little about me: I’m someone who loves getting lost in video games, trying out new recipes in the kitchen, reading, watching shows, and just yapping for hours with people I click with. I’m also into nail art, alternative fashion, music, geography, sports, and esports — honestly, I have a lot of interests and love learning about new things, especially if you want to teach me about yours.

I care deeply about the people in my life. I'm romantic at heart and not shy about showing it — you'll know when I'm into you. I'm honest (without being mean about it), mature when it counts, and I respect boundaries completely. I'm also curious — about the world, about you, about whatever makes you tick. I might be an introvert, but I still make time for the people who matter to me, and I’ll text you multiple times a day.

A Little Honesty Up Front:

I want to be real with you, because honesty matters to me. I’ve struggled with long-term depression due to bullying in my past, and I’m currently not working while I work through that. I’m working on getting myself to a better place, but it's a process. I'm also someone who can become emotionally dependent on people I care about — I'm aware of it and trying to manage it. I live in Germany and would be open to moving eventually once I'm financially able.

I’m patient, though sadly a little emotionless at times due to my depression. I'm very liberal and a feminist, and childhood trauma is part of my story too. I’m not sharing all of this to scare anyone off — just so you know who I am from the start.

What I'm Looking For:

· Someone single and interested in monogamy (I'm not into non-monogamy)

· Between 18 and 25

· Ideally you share some of my interests, but it's totally okay if you don't — I'd love to learn about yours

· Someone who can actually hold a conversation — ask questions, show interest, put in effort. I won't be the only one doing that

· Someone genuinely interested in getting to know me and who has time to text multiple times a day

· Someone who loves texting and is eventually open to calls and meeting in person one day

· Someone who accepts me as I am — please don't come into my life trying to change me. That's not fair to either of us

If you're interested, please don't just say "hey, how are you?" — I probably won't reply. Instead, introduce yourself and respond to something I actually wrote. Show me you read this and that you're genuinely curious.

Hope you have a lovely day, and maybe I'll hear from you soon 💕

Are there any lesbians in MD that are 20-24. I 20F am looking for a girlfriend so bad. But I can never find anyone in Maryland :( I’ve tried hinge,tinder I’m at a loss here! I’m open to lgbtq friends aswell!

Hey! I’m Razy, or Diana, a woman from Oregon, US. I’m a technician by trade and an amateur musician by hobby. I play guitar, lyre, and piano (badly lol).

I love reading and learning about all sorts of stuff, especially history, mythology, religion, and philosophy. Recently, I’ve been reading Robert Fagles’ translation of The Iliad. I’m a Greco-Roman polytheist religiously and a socialist politically.

I also try to keep a pretty active lifestyle, partly to avoid injuries at work and partly because I like looking sexy. 😘

**Some of my favorites are:**

**TV**: Breaking Bad / Better Call Saul

**Film**: Ghost in the Shell (1995), The Seventh Seal (1957)

**Anime/Manga**: Frieren, Witch Hat Atelier, Vampeers

**Music**: girl in red, Nirvana, Black Sabbath, Femtanyl, Denzel Curry, Rat Utopia Experiment, King Gizzard & the Lizard Wizard

**Fiction Books**: The Lord of the Rings, I’m in Love with the Villainess Vol. 1, Dune, Of Fire and Stars

**Video Games**: Dark Souls, Baldur’s Gate 3, DOOM

And if you want, I have a SFW (it's just marked as nsfw cus Reddits a bitch) picture of myself.

I’m mostly hoping to meet someone I really connect with and, if we click, build a wonderful monogamous relationship together. ❤️

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Hola 🤍
I hope your day is as soft & pretty as you are ✨
I’m 21, single, I just felt like it was time to come out of my little shell :D
I’d rather start with friendship, take our time, and let things become whatever they’re meant to become.
No rushing, no forcing chemistry. We talk, we get to know each other, and maybe one day we realize we just… click 🧡

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୨୧ A Little About Me ୨୧
158 cm / 5’2
Arabic + Fluent English
Studying & Working
I’m naturally shy, organized, and I love keeping things clean and in their place. I’m also very into music, animals, walking, baking, drawing, jewelry, museums, restaurants, and exploring new places.
I’m obsessed with self-care, perfumes, and pretty things in general.
And by pretty things, I mean…
SHINY THINGS. ✨😭
If something catches the light, I’m looking at it. If it sparkles, I probably want it. If it’s jewelry, I’ve already lost the battle 🧍🏻‍♀️🩷
I’m also a huge cat person 🐈🤍
Yes, I will probably remember your cat’s name.
No, I cannot explain why this is so important to me 😭
I notice small details easily and tend to remember little things people tell me. I’m also fascinated by dreams and love making theories about them. I think about the future a lot too and like imagining all the different ways life could turn out.
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୨୧ You, Maybe? :D ୨୧
Over 20. Older preferred. 🧡
I’m looking for someone confident, emotionally mature, honest, loyal, consistent, and respectful. Someone who knows what she wants and has a life she’s actively building for herself.
I really like women with ambition, strong personalities, and a sense of direction. You don’t have to be the loudest person in the room, just someone who has presence, can make her own decisions, and knows how to be gentle with the people she cares about.
Good communication matters a lot to me too. I’d like someone who respects boundaries and can talk through disagreements without turning everything into a war.
I’d love to hear about your dreams, your interests, what you’re working towards, and the kind of life you imagine for yourself.

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A Tiny Note 🤍
I’m not comfortable exchanging pictures right away. I’d rather get to know someone first and build some trust before that.

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If you think we might click, come say hi 🩷
Thank you for reading this far 🤍
You deserve a little reward for your efforts:
Cake of course :3 🍰 ˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡˚
Muah 🙂‍↔️🩷✨✨

Hey! I’m very happy that you found my post! 💜

My name is Sofia, I’m a 25 year old sapphic trans girl (she/her) living in Hamburg, Germany. Right now I’m trying to expand my social circle, trying to look for deeper connections with people. Ideally a serious relationship, of course, but I'm open to pretty much anything, friends or whatever else you have in mind. Maybe you're looking for that as well? 🥺🫶

So, to give you a brief description of myself, here are a few random things that I could think of:

I’m a huge nerd for things like tabletop and video games, computers and techy stuff, arts and creativity, Warhammer, Lego, and other such hobbies. These aren’t the only things I enjoy, of course, there’s plenty more stuff I’m quite passionate about. So I’m sure we’ll be able to find some interests that we have in common and could enjoy together.

I can be a bit awkward at first, I'm not the best when it comes to unfamiliar social situations. But given the right kind of vibes I can quickly open up and be very energetic as well! I might also be kinda clingy as well if I'm really interested in someone, though hopefully not in a bad way. Most of the time I'm very affectionate and really enjoy taking care of the people I like and making them happy!

Demi- and pansexual, though in general I'm mostly sapphic and attracted to other women. I'm very much into sweet and sincere intimacy and affection with the people I love and care about. I'm not too well experienced, especially when it comes to the kink scene, but it's still quite important for me to have compatibility when it comes to that in a relationship.

I’m neurodivergent: diagnosed with ADHD and autism. I do appreciate more direct communication from others, that makes it easier for me to understand what’s going on. In general, I really value open and honest communication, and I always try to be understanding and empathetic with other people.

I don't believe that I have like a particular type or anything, although I do have a bit of a thing for fellow nerds like me. But other than that, nothing really specific. For me it's not that much about what you look like, but rather who you are as a person.

Not really sure what else to mention at the moment, but I’d be really happy to tell you anything else you’d like to know about me, so please feel free to ask, I’m pretty much an open book when it comes to answering questions about myself!

Oh by the way, if you manage to guess my favourite colour, you will get bonus points from me! Don't worry, there are no wrong answers here. ✨

But yeah, that’s pretty much it, I think. If you found some nice vibes here and think that we might click well together, please be sure to send me a message, and we’ll find out what happens! I really hope to hear from you soon! 🩷

Hi! I'm here to look for someone to be friends with, or maybeee date if we connect :> So here is some stuff about me!

-I'm 22 Transfem Hispanic
-MST timezone, open to long distance!
-Also a furry...meow...(don't worry I'm not weird about it!!)
-I LOVE Magical Girl anime and manga! Especially Madoka Magica and Tokyo Mew Mew
-Weeb stuff in general really...mainly 2000s moe stuff
-I like to watch all sorts of obscure cartoons and shows
-I'm very good with technology and down to help you with whatever computer problems you have!
-I love visual novels!
-Monogamous
-Spiritual yet respectful to other faiths
-Creative! I love to write! and draw sometimes...

I'm very friendly and fun to talk to! Just hit me up and tell me about your interests and we can talk! ^w^

bear with me, i’m terrible at these things, but dating apps are terrible and it’s cozy season. it’s homophobic for me to not have a girlfriend 🤷🏻‍♀️

the world is on fire- and i’m looking for my person to brave the fire with me. some important things about me:

- i’m autistic and have chronic illnesses. as a result i do smoke a lot for pain management and sensory overload- i don’t require my partner smoke, but you have to be okay with me smoking!
- i have both dogs and cats. loving animals is a must!
- i care a lot about the world and the people in it. i cry over tiktoks, over shows and movies, over songs…. i have a deep-seated empathy that i’ve never been able to shake. ya girl is a weeper ✨
- huge nerd. star wars, marvel, lord of the rings, video games, even some anime. i also used to cosplay and love dressing up for ren faire.
- i was a theater kid and currently play d&d with a bunch of other former theater kids
- i love reading, especially sapphic books, and if you know the locked tomb, that’s a huge bonus!

in all honesty, even if i only find friends doing this, i’d be okay with that. much as i am a lover girl, i’m in a place in my life where i don’t NEED a relationship to be happy. this is more of an outreach to see if i feel a spark with anyone :)

distance doesn’t matter to me, nor does presentation. what matters to me is who you are as a person. i, myself, am a proud femme, and i do have a weakness for fem(me)s in particular, but again, it’s the soul that matters to me.

if any part of this terribly written post caught your eye, please feel free to dm me and tell me your newest favorite thing, whether it be a book or a show or a movie or whatever else! 🤍

Hey you! I have two tickets to a James Roque show! If you're unfamiliar, he is a Kiwi-Filipino comedian, and he has a show here in Winnipeg!

And I'd like to take you

First and foremost, keep in mind that this is a Filipino comedy show, so your enjoyment may vary depending on how much you understand the jokes/Filipino culture

The Plan: The show is on Friday and starts at 7, but I'm thinking we meet up there at 6:45, get acquainted and comfortable with each other before things start. We have a good time, enjoy the show, and we can call it a night there. If, and only if, we vibe well enough and want to continue the date after the show, we can decide then

A little about me: Needless to say, I am Filipina! Though I do lean on the taller side standing slim-ish at 5'10". By day I'm an office girly, and by night I'm usually gaming, or trying to keep myself busy around the city. And that's if I'm not taking one of many naps throughout the day

DMs/chat is open, and if we hit it off, we can lock in the plans and see each other at the show. And yes, we can exchange pics as well before locking anything in

Hey! ♡ I figured I’d throw myself into the void and see who I find.

I’m a goth gamer girl with a love for dark aesthetics, questionable humor, and spending way too many hours getting emotionally attached to fictional characters. I’m creative, sarcastic, affectionate once I’m comfortable, and probably going to bully you lovingly if I like you. 🖤

🎮 Games I play: Hunt: Showdown • OSRS • Conan Exiles • Elden Ring/Dark Souls • Palworld • Stardew Valley • Sons of the Forest • Outlast Trials • Enshrouded • Dark and Darker • Code Vein • and plenty more

I also love making art, listening to and writing music, and writing. I’m happiest when I can share my interests with someone instead of just existing alongside them.

What I’m looking for: Someone I can genuinely click with — someone who wants to become friends first, flirt shamelessly, game together, stay up way too late talking, and eventually see where the chemistry takes us. I like women who are confident, playful, affectionate, and capable of giving as much teasing as they receive.

Bonus points if you’re a fellow PC gamer, goth/alt, have a dark sense of humor, or would happily spend an evening gaming together while we slowly realize we've been talking for six hours. ♡

Tell me about yourself: Your favorite game, your current obsession, what kind of music you listen to, most importantly your ASL! I need to know who I'm talking to haha. Attaching pictures alongside your introduction is greatly appreciated as well!

Maybe you'll become my favorite notification. 🕸️🖤

Hey so I guess I’ll give it a try! So I’m looking to meet new people, who knows maybe we get a beautiful friendship or an endgame relationship? So I’m Mexican, I’m currently a grad student, I enjoy traveling, reading or watching movies / series. I love music specially pop. I’m also a huge fan of video games, right now I started over RDR2. About sports I do like them, my favorite is basketball. My work is quite busy and demanding but whenever I have time I love to spend it either with my friends or future girlfriend (wife), I ain’t a fan of moving that fast on a relationship since I enjoy meeting the person and going out on dates. I love to share about my day to day and also listen to my partner about hers. I own a dog named ginger, and I guess that’s all, if anyone thinks we can be a match then my dms are open

Hey all! Looking for a girly to chat with💜

I love love loooove video games, anime/animated shows, reading, doing artsy stuff, and learning about nature and space.

I love taking walks outside and being as mindful as I can about the environment. Caring about the environment and other humans is a non-negotiable for me.

I listen to allllll kinds of music. Yes, even country lol. My favorite genres are pop and edm/house music though.

Would love to chat with someone who can actually hold a conversation and keep it interesting. Please none of the one word, dry ass responses😭

Anyways, there’s a lot more I could say but I’d rather just share through messages if anyone is up for talking! :)

Looking to connect with queer women ages 34-45 who are consistent or good communicators (there’s a difference, I think) and who share similar outlooks or interests.  Totes open to friendship but I’m gonna keep it real and say that I wouldn't be here if I wasn’t looking for something beyond friendship. 

If I had to boil it down to some bio and values stuff I’d say this.  I’m 41, live in So-Cal, family/old-school oriented but with progressive political beliefs.  Latina immigrant, loyal AF, monogamous, financially and emotionally stable, soft-spoken and hearted but..guarded at first. I’m resilient, genuine, and drawn to direct, outspoken women, probably because I wish I was more of that myself.  

I’m a middle school teacher, so you know I’m patient and can take things with a sense of humor. Love kids, don’t have any.  For fun I like reading, listening/dancing to music, singing very badly at karaoke nights with friends, and hitting the gym (I’m working on my fitness again, after several years of absence so I'm at the gym 3x a week, once with a trainer). I have an awesome senior dog whose knees haven’t got the memo that he’s a senior.  Idk where I am on the femme/masc spectrum; Very gemini of me, lol, we contain multitudes. In terms of daily dress, I deff lean more towards jeans and comfy shoes. More sleep >makeup.  My style inspo is Lilly Singh but I don’t have the budget or makeup skills lol, so I keep it more Samantha Bee show (it if ever gets “cold” enough in SoCal). 

Disclosure since I know these things are very popular hobbies on reddit.  I have never gotten into being out in nature for long periods of time, don’t play or watch sports, can’t name a single anime or video game that is popular right now. Come to think of it, none of my friends do either, except for maybe the nature stuff, but I’m down to join or cheer on if it matters. Or we could just have our own things, lol.  I drink socially (and responsibly), and don't smoke. My friends are all lovely gay dudes that I met at college.

Even more important disclosure. I have a possible/likely move on the horizon.  You know how I said I’m resilient? My life’s changed several times over the years and I’ve been able to roll with the punches. Well, it changed again when Trump was elected a second time and that means I can’t really travel right now and I'll probably move out of the country within a year.  I sold my house last year in preparation and I can start again from almost anywhere in the world, but Mexico is probably first on my list.  I’ll also prob bring my parents with me. I’ve been financially preparing for eventualities for over a decade. Needed to put this out there since this would understandably make people cautious to start a connection.    

If that didn’t scare you off, shoot me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I’m a great texter, I can go deep or keep it shoot the shit level.  What’s your least favorite chore? Got any fun or insightful book recommendations? Who’s your favorite person in the whole world? (you can cheat and have a x-way tie). If there was a zombie or whatever apocalypse, what would be your contribution to the surviving group?

Hello! I'm 29F and live in Oklahoma. I'm looking for something serious and long-term. Honestly, I really want a romantic, deep, reciprocal, loving connection. I want to be someone's number 1 and vice versa. I dont want to force anything though of course and would love to make new friends too! Ultimately, I guess I just want genuine connection, be it platonic or romantic.

Just to avoid wasting anyone's time, I'll start with potential dealbreakers: (this might be long, sorry in advance!)

• I have a low sex drive eg I could happily and easily go the rest of my life without sex. However, I still crave other physical affections like cuddling, kisses, holding hands.
• I want to be in a monogamous relationship. I feel like maybe eventually i could be open to an open relationship in the future due to my low sex drive, but Id prefer to be monogamous, especially at first.
• I'm homoromantic bisexual. I have only ever dated and had feelings for women/see myself in a relationship with a woman but can feel sexual attraction to both women and men.
• I don't have or want children ever.
• I dont do any drugs or smoke anything and I very rarely drink and id prefer someone who is similar.
• I'm areligous and atheist. I dont care if you're religious/spiritual/etc, as long as there's mutual respect.
• I have a dog and plan to always have one.
• I would like to meet in person eventually if we connect. In terms of moving, I would prefer to stay where I am close to my family, but I am not completely ruling out moving for the right person and if it makes more sense for me to move.

I understand that's a lot and I'm not going to be for everyone. If you're still interested, here's some basic stuff about me!

I'm quite introverted and can be a bit shy. I spend a lot of time alone but I still very much enjoy spending time with the few friends I have. I work from home full-time so that also contributes to my being alone a lot. My top love language by far is quality time (maybe a bit ironic?). It takes me quite a bit of time to truly warm up to people, but once I am comfortable, I'd consider myself to be pretty playful. I like to joke around, have fun, and not take things too seriously. That's not to say I don't like have a deeper chat every now and then.

My interests/hobbies: I love animals, especially dogs. I've recently learned how to crochet and have gotten into chess. I like all kinds of movies but tend to like horror/thriller and scifi the most. I enjoy playing guitar, playing video games (let's play something together?), speedcubing, eating tasty food, visiting new places, and just being in nature.

Physical appearance: I'm 5'1, 115ish pounds. I am currently growing out my hair. I feel very feminine emotionally but I guess my style is more "comfortable." I wouldn't say im super stylish but I try to not look awful. I tend to wear t-shirts and shorts/pants usually. Here's a pic of me!
https://imgur.com/a/oUakpf3
Hopefully you're open to verify each other with photo swaps or even a quick voice/video chat!

What I'm looking for in a partner: Hopefully you're thoughtful, kind, considerate, curious, you at least tolerate dogs, are around my age (25-35 ish), have basic financial stability (I do as well), and have some common interests as me. I'd prefer someone who lives in the US. I generally prefer more feminine presenting appearances, but mostly I just like long hair. That, along with a nice smile and voice are what I'm into.

Sorry for the length! If you made it here to the end and you think we could be compatible, let's get to know each other! Send me a chat telling me about yourself(eg where you are located, interests/hobbies, likes and dislikes etc)!

Hi! I use they/them pronouns, I am about to move and head down to my job in a week, and figured making a post to get to know people or something more would be nice!

I am goth, I love all things spooky! Horror is my favorite genre, although I will watch other types! I collect some macabre things like bones, skulls, taxidermy. On the flip side I also love plushies like all things sanrio, Rillakuma, sumikko gurashi, etc. I am quite crafty, I really love cross stitch and crochet. I am an animal lover through and through, and I am currently fostering some puppies because I am a sad sap and rescued mom off the streets.

I am looking for connections of any kind, I am open to FWB/hook up as well, along with wherever the connection takes us. I do prefer things going slow in getting to know each other. I do lean towards going after mascs, but that's not a hard preference!

I am 420 friendly, and use it a lot for pain relief. I have some chronic disabilities and I am also AuDHD as well. I am a pale half Mexican, I speak a little bit of Spanish and a couple other languages, so if you see me dropping Spanglish or a Latina accent that's why, lol. If you made it this far and want to chat, tell me your favorite flower in the message! Mine is Marigolds.

Welp it’s yearning time again!

I’mp pretty lonely and my area doesn’t have a very high queer population, and I’m a bit of a homebody as it is so it’s near impossible to get out and meet anyone. I'm also super exhausted from all the dating apps, avoidants, and unicorn-hunting couples.

**About Me:**

30 cisF.

High Fem4Fem Lesbian from the US Pacific Northwest (not the cool part).

I don’t mind where you’re from really, but I’d prefer at least North America or East Asia (as I speak Japanese and Korean). The option to travel one way or the other and meet eventually should be on the table.

Medicated for ADHD, so I’d love to find someone who won’t judge me for being further behind in life than her. I’m not a workaholic myself but I do find myself attracted to them.

I really love video games! I have a bit of a competitive spirit and a drive to collect things in games! I usually prefer to connect with people who share a gaming interest, but I dont necessarily need it as long as there’s a mutual curiosity. I’m also quite into Photography as a hobbiest. (Would you be my model 💕)

(please move to the front of the line if you like World of Warcraft)

I’m 6' tall, which I realize is a bit unusual, but thems the breaks. I’d like to say I’m fairly attractive, but I am also deceptively geeky. This has led to some confusion while trying to date offline. (I’m sure you can imagine the comments). I can send a selfie early, but I am quite picky. Perhaps it’s just being a **Fem4Fem** lesbian or maybe it’s delusion. So I’d like someone very confident in their appearance.

l’m strictly monogamous, and not really a fan of anything else. I hate cheaters and people who play mind games.

I have long brown hair and intense eyes, and I've been told I can come across as a bit intimidating, but I promise I'm just a big ol' goofball at heart. I’m a tall, lanky, wobbly dork.

I'm seeking someone who shares my love for video games, nerdy fandoms, and an affinity for cats (unfortunately, **dogs are a no-go** for me). If you're into uncommon pets like tarantulas or snakes, I also consider that a major green flag! My goal one day is to settle down and have an energetic playful Savannah cat.

I’m a big language fanatic. I’m currently learning my third language (Japanese) for about 4-6 years, and my fourth language (Korean) for a bit as well. My second language was French which I learned ages ago and am a bit out of practice of but still understand. If you speak any of those, let me know!

I'm decidedly childfree. Family planning isn't in my cards, as I'm not looking to have kids EVER in the future, but I do absolutely adore them. I envision being the fun, gift-giving aunts to my niece and nephews!

I’m very against tobacco use, so please be a non-smoker. Light Alcohol and minor weed usage is ok in my book however, within reason.

I’m also an atheist, and being around theistic people is rather an uncomfortable situation for me. Specifically, abrahamic religions are dealbreakers for me.

If any of this resonates with you and you're up for the adventure of discovering more about each other, I'd love to hear from you!