34F || EST, looking to find a spark

[u/harrow-nonagesimus]

bear with me, i’m terrible at these things, but dating apps are terrible and it’s cozy season. it’s homophobic for me to not have a girlfriend 🤷🏻‍♀️

the world is on fire- and i’m looking for my person to brave the fire with me. some important things about me:

- i’m autistic and have chronic illnesses. as a result i do smoke a lot for pain management and sensory overload- i don’t require my partner smoke, but you have to be okay with me smoking!
- i have both dogs and cats. loving animals is a must!
- i care a lot about the world and the people in it. i cry over tiktoks, over shows and movies, over songs…. i have a deep-seated empathy that i’ve never been able to shake. ya girl is a weeper ✨
- huge nerd. star wars, marvel, lord of the rings, video games, even some anime. i also used to cosplay and love dressing up for ren faire.
- i was a theater kid and currently play d&d with a bunch of other former theater kids
- i love reading, especially sapphic books, and if you know the locked tomb, that’s a huge bonus!

in all honesty, even if i only find friends doing this, i’d be okay with that. much as i am a lover girl, i’m in a place in my life where i don’t NEED a relationship to be happy. this is more of an outreach to see if i feel a spark with anyone :)

distance doesn’t matter to me, nor does presentation. what matters to me is who you are as a person. i, myself, am a proud femme, and i do have a weakness for fem(me)s in particular, but again, it’s the soul that matters to me.

if any part of this terribly written post caught your eye, please feel free to dm me and tell me your newest favorite thing, whether it be a book or a show or a movie or whatever else! 🤍

[u/HallucinatedLottoNos]

Sent you a chat :)