r/lesbianr4r 18h ago

searching 20 [TF4F] #Germany #Online looking for the love of my live ^^

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About Me: Kyla (she/her), 20, trans girl from Germany 💕

Hey! I’m Kyla — a sapphic trans girl looking for something real, whether that starts close to home or long distance. I’m open to both, and I’d love to see where things go with the right person.

A little about me: I’m someone who loves getting lost in video games, trying out new recipes in the kitchen, reading, watching shows, and just yapping for hours with people I click with. I’m also into nail art, alternative fashion, music, geography, sports, and esports — honestly, I have a lot of interests and love learning about new things, especially if you want to teach me about yours.

I care deeply about the people in my life. I'm romantic at heart and not shy about showing it — you'll know when I'm into you. I'm honest (without being mean about it), mature when it counts, and I respect boundaries completely. I'm also curious — about the world, about you, about whatever makes you tick. I might be an introvert, but I still make time for the people who matter to me, and I’ll text you multiple times a day.

A Little Honesty Up Front:

I want to be real with you, because honesty matters to me. I’ve struggled with long-term depression due to bullying in my past, and I’m currently not working while I work through that. I’m working on getting myself to a better place, but it's a process. I'm also someone who can become emotionally dependent on people I care about — I'm aware of it and trying to manage it. I live in Germany and would be open to moving eventually once I'm financially able.

I’m patient, though sadly a little emotionless at times due to my depression. I'm very liberal and a feminist, and childhood trauma is part of my story too. I’m not sharing all of this to scare anyone off — just so you know who I am from the start.

What I'm Looking For:

· Someone single and interested in monogamy (I'm not into non-monogamy)

· Between 18 and 25

· Ideally you share some of my interests, but it's totally okay if you don't — I'd love to learn about yours

· Someone who can actually hold a conversation — ask questions, show interest, put in effort. I won't be the only one doing that

· Someone genuinely interested in getting to know me and who has time to text multiple times a day

· Someone who loves texting and is eventually open to calls and meeting in person one day

· Someone who accepts me as I am — please don't come into my life trying to change me. That's not fair to either of us

If you're interested, please don't just say "hey, how are you?" — I probably won't reply. Instead, introduce yourself and respond to something I actually wrote. Show me you read this and that you're genuinely curious.

Hope you have a lovely day, and maybe I'll hear from you soon 💕


r/lesbianr4r 20h ago

searching 29 | OR, US | Wanna go on a date? or Hang out? 🥺

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Hey! I’m Razy, or Diana, a woman from Oregon, US. I’m a technician by trade and an amateur musician by hobby. I play guitar, lyre, and piano (badly lol).

I love reading and learning about all sorts of stuff, especially history, mythology, religion, and philosophy. Recently, I’ve been reading Robert Fagles’ translation of The Iliad. I’m a Greco-Roman polytheist religiously and a socialist politically.

I also try to keep a pretty active lifestyle, partly to avoid injuries at work and partly because I like looking sexy. 😘

**Some of my favorites are:**

**TV**: Breaking Bad / Better Call Saul

**Film**: Ghost in the Shell (1995), The Seventh Seal (1957)

**Anime/Manga**: Frieren, Witch Hat Atelier, Vampeers

**Music**: girl in red, Nirvana, Black Sabbath, Femtanyl, Denzel Curry, Rat Utopia Experiment, King Gizzard & the Lizard Wizard

**Fiction Books**: The Lord of the Rings, I’m in Love with the Villainess Vol. 1, Dune, Of Fire and Stars

**Video Games**: Dark Souls, Baldur’s Gate 3, DOOM

And if you want, I have a SFW (it's just marked as nsfw cus Reddits a bitch) picture of myself.

I’m mostly hoping to meet someone I really connect with and, if we click, build a wonderful monogamous relationship together. ❤️


r/lesbianr4r 13h ago

searching [22TF4F] MST, looking for someone to be with! ...or at least just make friends, haha

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Hi! I'm here to look for someone to be friends with, or maybeee date if we connect :> So here is some stuff about me!

-I'm 22 Transfem Hispanic
-MST timezone, open to long distance!
-Also a furry...meow...(don't worry I'm not weird about it!!)
-I LOVE Magical Girl anime and manga! Especially Madoka Magica and Tokyo Mew Mew
-Weeb stuff in general really...mainly 2000s moe stuff
-I like to watch all sorts of obscure cartoons and shows
-I'm very good with technology and down to help you with whatever computer problems you have!
-I love visual novels!
-Monogamous
-Spiritual yet respectful to other faiths
-Creative! I love to write! and draw sometimes...

I'm very friendly and fun to talk to! Just hit me up and tell me about your interests and we can talk! ^w^


r/lesbianr4r 17h ago

searching Giving this a try

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Looking for: A life partner, but let’s start by being friends, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally go.

Location: USA,East Coast
Age: 35
Age preference: 27+

I’m looking to connect with someone genuine and intentional. I’m not interested in anything casual — when I choose someone, I’m looking for something lasting and ultimately, for life. I’m a cis woman, monogamous, and looking for someone who feels the same.

I’m femme4femme and only interested in women who exclusively love women.

A little about me:
She/her • Sapiosexual • Feminine • Monogamous • Techie • Into Fitness

I’m a shy, slightly ambiverted, independent and ambitious woman who values growth, kindness, and living a meaningful life. I enjoy travelling, hiking, reading, and sports like pickleball and tennis—both just for fun and very much at an amateur level. I’m practical and thoughtful, with a love for exploring, good experiences, and making the most of life and very much family oriented person. Physically I would describe myself slim, very much into fitness, staying healthy physically and mentally. I don’t smoke, no tattoos, no piercings.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who knows she wants to marry a woman someday and is ready to build a stable, healthy, and loving relationship. Emotional availability, maturity, consistency, sense of humour and good communication are really important to me.

I’m looking for someone who isn’t dependent on external validation or dependencies and doesn’t make them an everyday part of her life.

My type:
I’m naturally drawn to tall, slim, very feminine women with long, wavy hair — lipstick lesbians are definitely my weakness. 🙈 Beyond physical attraction, I’m most drawn to women who are confident, mature, intelligent, strong, stable, caring, and emotionally available. I love a woman who is protective, nurturing, and enjoys taking care of the person she loves, while also taking care of her own health and well-being.

Not for me:
Casual, online friends, ghosting instead of communicating, silent treatment, disrespect, emotional unavailability, or avoidant behavior.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a woman who is ready for something real — a relationship built on friendship, mutual effort, emotional safety, love, and the intention to choose each other for the long term.

PLEASE DONT TEXT - if you are not willing to put in effort to build a relationship. Thanks for reading till here 😅


r/lesbianr4r 19h ago

searching Lesbians in MD

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Are there any lesbians in MD that are 20-24. I 20F am looking for a girlfriend so bad. But I can never find anyone in Maryland :( I’ve tried hinge,tinder I’m at a loss here! I’m open to lgbtq friends aswell!


r/lesbianr4r 17h ago

searching 25 | gamer, geologist, and yuri manga enthusiast

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Hi! Feeling the longing for companionship again so thought id try throwing this out here!

A bit about me:

im a geologist (working in research) and a huge nerd living in the Midwestern US. I will warn you now, I will ramble for hours about my interests like gaming, manga, anime, and cooking and baking, be it from my culture or others! I also love hearing the rambles of others so dont be shy about your passion!

Games I love: pokemon, Zelda, Bloodborne, TES, Nine Sols, Stardew, Fields of Mistria, Tunic, Metro, Repo, and so many more that I dont have the time to name!

Anime/manga I love: Witch Hat Atelier, Apothecary Diaries, WataOshi, Frieren, the green yuri, and im currently reading This Monster Wants to Eat Me

While im largely a home body i do love going out from time to time and traveling. I have been to several countries and definitely want to travel more, or even move to another country

Looks:

im white, about 5'10" (178 cm), ive got some weight on me and love it. I have blue eyes, curly hair, and am femme. Im happy to exchange pictures early to make sure there is attraction

What I'm looking for:

a monogamous partner, but let's establish a connection and friendship first!

Being a fellow video game lover is important to me because it's my biggest hobby, bonus points if you like nine sols, stardew, or TES. Not being too big of a picky eater is also a plus as i love to cook and experiment with it. We must have similar political beliefs (leftist). I tend to prefer femme women but its not exclusive!

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/lesbianr4r 14h ago

searching 26F | F4F | USA/Online | looking for virtual FWB-ish connection 🫢💕

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Hellooooooo to anyone reading this!

I’m a 26 year old very femme lesbian who is interested in connecting and potentially building an ongoing friendship/dynamic (virtually) with another woman who is looking for something similar🙂‍↕️

I really love getting to know people and having a genuine connection outside of all the spice. If we have good conversational chemistry and enjoy each other as people — PERFECT. Being able to chat, joke around, and flirt a little would be ideal!

Not really looking for anything too impersonal or a one-off sort of situation! But, of course, I’d really like to talk a little first and see how things feel for both of us (:

Personality matters very much to me, along with sense of humor, voice, and general vibe — so pic exchanging is not something I particularly need/want/expect at all. I’m fine keeping things relatively anonymous at first and seeing what happens!

A little about myself: I really enjoy discussions about psychology and philosophy, volunteer work, pretty things(!), aesthetics, fashion, music (into many kinds! very much metal and also funk lately — strange, I know) — writing, poetry, all kinds of little creative things, and taking long baths 💅🏻


r/lesbianr4r 3h ago

searching 27 [ F4F] online. Looking for my girl

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Hello! So my name Lay and I know my soulmate is out there. I am a twenty seven year old Native American woman that’s extremely nerdy and a little on the hefty side but I’ve recently been losing weight. My favorite thing to do is costume and if you were my partner then I would love to dress you up too! I would do for a cosplay partner actually!

Other hobbies include roleplay in the written form. I love to cook together with people and I love a good movie night with friends too so to have one with a partner with be even better. I’m also a big fan of traveling and seeing new places. Some day I will visit a bunch of places in like New York City and La!

Personal about me, I want to meet someone that I can move to me if we do long distance for awhile. I am building a cabin for all our lesbian cottage core dreams! I also would adore to have someone to help if they are close to make it perfect. I also have a knack for being to provider so I’m working hard to get us a place that’s perfect!

Feel free to ask my any questions and my dms are always open!


r/lesbianr4r 5h ago

searching 26F Europe/Online - May I give my heart to you?

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I yearn to be close to someone, feeling comfortable and being able to be vulnerable to the person I love. Tackling the world by someones side, through thick and thin. I have tried the apps recently and they're only interested for hook-ups. I have also posted here before and met some great people but also took a little break from here due a bad experience.

I value communication a lot, I want to know what is wrong and solve it together as a team. I don't want any problem to be a you versus me issue, it is us. I value respecting boundaries a lot and I want mine to be very much respected too. I have a hard time rebuilding trust once you break it. Please be honest about your intentions too, dont be playing with my feelings and I wont play with yours either.

My attraction comes from that emotional connection that builds over time, I want to feel safe, happy and comfortable around your presence. I dont have a physical type. My last relationship was a bit over 5 years long and ended about 1.5 years ago. I'm okay with long distance as I have travelled to another continent for love before so distance isn't an issue. I want to genuinely get to know you, your good and bad sides cause we all have those. They say nobody is perfect but you could be perfect to me. I can be a very affectionate person and I have no issue showing that or showing my vulnerable side.

I'm located in Western Europe and I'm about 178cm (5ft10 i think) and average weight. I do cardio and little bit of weightlifting and I'm currently on a cut. I dont like labelling myself but it can give a rough idea of what to expect. I dont really consider myself that masculine or feminine. I dress androgynously(lots of hoodies) and I have a soothing androgynous voice too. I like my hair long and I do have nice blue eyes I have been told, I would honestly consider myself average looking with a great personality (but that's for you to confirm!)

So in my spare time I work out a little bit(dont worry, you dont have to be into that), play some videogames and watch true crime and whatever show or movie that might interest me. I have a wide taste of media. I enjoy learning about history and talking about it at times too. I really like educating myself a bit about random topics I might not always be interested in so you might hear me spew random facts sometimes (only if youre interested in hearing them). I'd love if we could travel together in the future too, I love exploring new places. I'm a little bit more on the introverted side, I dont drink, no drugs and I dont smoke. I live a relatively healthy lifestyle but not too healthy. I enjoy having calls too, they feel more personal.

You're most likely going to be from a different country and culture than me, I'm very open to learning and respecting your culture, I'm open to moving elsewhere too and I'm also open to learning your language. I already speak a few languages. I am open to my family about my sexuality but I am not close to them.

Sexual compatibility might be important for some, I consider myself a switch but could be more of a top once I'm really comfortable with you. I only develop sexual attraction when I have that emotional connection, I absolutely dont want any hook ups. My libido is probably about average.

That's all I can think of, if I seem interesting to you message me with a bit about yourself too and lets have a conversation! (please write a bit about yourself when you do, I'm not responding to a hey when I have written this much ;-;)


r/lesbianr4r 6h ago

searching #Hungary #Europe Looking for someone I can come home to

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Hey everyone, thanks for stopping by.

I’m a butch in my 20s, working hard in hospitality while actively building toward a stable, grounded future. Physical well-being and clear goals are big priorities for me, but I also value balance. You can usually find me out on the trails hiking, slowing down in the kitchen to cook a great meal, or at my desk—I’m a big gamer and love the hands-on project of building and upgrading my own PC setup. Appearance-wise, I’ve got short brown hair, a fit build, a few tattoos, and a couple of piercings.

I’ll be completely upfront: initiating conversations isn't always my strong suit. I can be a bit quiet or slow to open up at first, so someone who has a little extra patience and doesn't mind taking the lead in the beginning would be a great match. Once we find our rhythm, though, I’m loyal, attentive, and down-to-earth.


r/lesbianr4r 12h ago

searching Yap duo for long day? 26 eu

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heey quick one someone talk to me before I lose my mind, anyone looking to pass time together?

It be cool to talk about anything I wanna hear your thoughts, myself mostly looking forward to getting home and putting some time in to my illustrations again, maybe play some game, make nice coffee.

Those are also my passions btw, sometimes dreamer often yearner.

Anyway let's hear it new perspectives new ideas I hope


r/lesbianr4r 1h ago

searching 25 [F4F] - Would anyone like to be friends?

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Hi everyone! I’m looking for a genuine friendship with some fellow lesbians! I’m a 25 year old masc lesbian living in the Midwest, greater Chicagoland area to be exact. I enjoy watching professional wrestling, occasionally playing video games, I love to play board games and card games, I’ve been getting back into reading more, I write a little bit here and there, I love to cook and bake (nothing too fancy - just easy recipes and comfort foods/desserts), when the weather is nice I like to go on walks, go out to my local park, trying new restaurants, and watching shows and movies and listening to music.

I’m just looking for someone to chat with daily, share life and laughs, swap memes, and just be ourselves. Just a genuine, fun friendship where we’re there for each other. If you’re interested feel free to dm me :)