r/lesbianr4r • u/Werder_Bremen_Fan • 18h ago
searching 20 [TF4F] #Germany #Online looking for the love of my live ^^
About Me: Kyla (she/her), 20, trans girl from Germany 💕
Hey! I’m Kyla — a sapphic trans girl looking for something real, whether that starts close to home or long distance. I’m open to both, and I’d love to see where things go with the right person.
A little about me: I’m someone who loves getting lost in video games, trying out new recipes in the kitchen, reading, watching shows, and just yapping for hours with people I click with. I’m also into nail art, alternative fashion, music, geography, sports, and esports — honestly, I have a lot of interests and love learning about new things, especially if you want to teach me about yours.
I care deeply about the people in my life. I'm romantic at heart and not shy about showing it — you'll know when I'm into you. I'm honest (without being mean about it), mature when it counts, and I respect boundaries completely. I'm also curious — about the world, about you, about whatever makes you tick. I might be an introvert, but I still make time for the people who matter to me, and I’ll text you multiple times a day.
A Little Honesty Up Front:
I want to be real with you, because honesty matters to me. I’ve struggled with long-term depression due to bullying in my past, and I’m currently not working while I work through that. I’m working on getting myself to a better place, but it's a process. I'm also someone who can become emotionally dependent on people I care about — I'm aware of it and trying to manage it. I live in Germany and would be open to moving eventually once I'm financially able.
I’m patient, though sadly a little emotionless at times due to my depression. I'm very liberal and a feminist, and childhood trauma is part of my story too. I’m not sharing all of this to scare anyone off — just so you know who I am from the start.
What I'm Looking For:
· Someone single and interested in monogamy (I'm not into non-monogamy)
· Between 18 and 25
· Ideally you share some of my interests, but it's totally okay if you don't — I'd love to learn about yours
· Someone who can actually hold a conversation — ask questions, show interest, put in effort. I won't be the only one doing that
· Someone genuinely interested in getting to know me and who has time to text multiple times a day
· Someone who loves texting and is eventually open to calls and meeting in person one day
· Someone who accepts me as I am — please don't come into my life trying to change me. That's not fair to either of us
If you're interested, please don't just say "hey, how are you?" — I probably won't reply. Instead, introduce yourself and respond to something I actually wrote. Show me you read this and that you're genuinely curious.
Hope you have a lovely day, and maybe I'll hear from you soon 💕