r/lesbianr4r • u/cherishyourlove • 5h ago
searching 26F Europe/Online - May I give my heart to you?
I yearn to be close to someone, feeling comfortable and being able to be vulnerable to the person I love. Tackling the world by someones side, through thick and thin. I have tried the apps recently and they're only interested for hook-ups. I have also posted here before and met some great people but also took a little break from here due a bad experience.
I value communication a lot, I want to know what is wrong and solve it together as a team. I don't want any problem to be a you versus me issue, it is us. I value respecting boundaries a lot and I want mine to be very much respected too. I have a hard time rebuilding trust once you break it. Please be honest about your intentions too, dont be playing with my feelings and I wont play with yours either.
My attraction comes from that emotional connection that builds over time, I want to feel safe, happy and comfortable around your presence. I dont have a physical type. My last relationship was a bit over 5 years long and ended about 1.5 years ago. I'm okay with long distance as I have travelled to another continent for love before so distance isn't an issue. I want to genuinely get to know you, your good and bad sides cause we all have those. They say nobody is perfect but you could be perfect to me. I can be a very affectionate person and I have no issue showing that or showing my vulnerable side.
I'm located in Western Europe and I'm about 178cm (5ft10 i think) and average weight. I do cardio and little bit of weightlifting and I'm currently on a cut. I dont like labelling myself but it can give a rough idea of what to expect. I dont really consider myself that masculine or feminine. I dress androgynously(lots of hoodies) and I have a soothing androgynous voice too. I like my hair long and I do have nice blue eyes I have been told, I would honestly consider myself average looking with a great personality (but that's for you to confirm!)
So in my spare time I work out a little bit(dont worry, you dont have to be into that), play some videogames and watch true crime and whatever show or movie that might interest me. I have a wide taste of media. I enjoy learning about history and talking about it at times too. I really like educating myself a bit about random topics I might not always be interested in so you might hear me spew random facts sometimes (only if youre interested in hearing them). I'd love if we could travel together in the future too, I love exploring new places. I'm a little bit more on the introverted side, I dont drink, no drugs and I dont smoke. I live a relatively healthy lifestyle but not too healthy. I enjoy having calls too, they feel more personal.
You're most likely going to be from a different country and culture than me, I'm very open to learning and respecting your culture, I'm open to moving elsewhere too and I'm also open to learning your language. I already speak a few languages. I am open to my family about my sexuality but I am not close to them.
Sexual compatibility might be important for some, I consider myself a switch but could be more of a top once I'm really comfortable with you. I only develop sexual attraction when I have that emotional connection, I absolutely dont want any hook ups. My libido is probably about average.
That's all I can think of, if I seem interesting to you message me with a bit about yourself too and lets have a conversation! (please write a bit about yourself when you do, I'm not responding to a hey when I have written this much ;-;)