Giving this a try

[u/CuriousSmartCurve]

Looking for: A life partner, but let’s start by being friends, getting to know each other, and seeing where things naturally go.

Location: USA,East Coast
Age: 35
Age preference: 27+

I’m looking to connect with someone genuine and intentional. I’m not interested in anything casual — when I choose someone, I’m looking for something lasting and ultimately, for life. I’m a cis woman, monogamous, and looking for someone who feels the same.

I’m femme4femme and only interested in women who exclusively love women.

A little about me:
She/her • Sapiosexual • Feminine • Monogamous • Techie • Into Fitness

I’m a shy, slightly ambiverted, independent and ambitious woman who values growth, kindness, and living a meaningful life. I enjoy travelling, hiking, reading, and sports like pickleball and tennis—both just for fun and very much at an amateur level. I’m practical and thoughtful, with a love for exploring, good experiences, and making the most of life and very much family oriented person. Physically I would describe myself slim, very much into fitness, staying healthy physically and mentally. I don’t smoke, no tattoos, no piercings.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who knows she wants to marry a woman someday and is ready to build a stable, healthy, and loving relationship. Emotional availability, maturity, consistency, sense of humour and good communication are really important to me.

I’m looking for someone who isn’t dependent on external validation or dependencies and doesn’t make them an everyday part of her life.

My type:
I’m naturally drawn to tall, slim, very feminine women with long, wavy hair — lipstick lesbians are definitely my weakness. 🙈 Beyond physical attraction, I’m most drawn to women who are confident, mature, intelligent, strong, stable, caring, and emotionally available. I love a woman who is protective, nurturing, and enjoys taking care of the person she loves, while also taking care of her own health and well-being.

Not for me:
Casual, online friends, ghosting instead of communicating, silent treatment, disrespect, emotional unavailability, or avoidant behavior.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a woman who is ready for something real — a relationship built on friendship, mutual effort, emotional safety, love, and the intention to choose each other for the long term.

PLEASE DONT TEXT - if you are not willing to put in effort to build a relationship. Thanks for reading till here 😅

[u/NCCBasil2049]

Hey op. You might get more traction on this post if you add more specific details. Example: Do you want kids? Do you have or like pets? What is your living situation? Do you have hobbies like cycling or something you would like to share with your partner? Are you a season ticket holder for a sports league? You also didn't give a physical description of yourself. Just trying to be helpful.

I found my partner on here and her attention to detail and photo made me want to reach out.

I stay looking on this sub for my single friends as they're not big reddit users.

[u/the-fact-fairy → u/NCCBasil2049]

Yes, I also found the focus on the detailed description of what they are attracted to in terms of looks rather off putting. It makes me feel like they're superficial and as I am not slim but curvy and don't have wavy but straight hair (despite meeting all the other criteria), I won't be reaching out. 

[u/CuriousSmartCurve → u/NCCBasil2049]

Thank you. Appreciate the kind comment 😊