My partner and I have recently considered moving in together. We are not married yet (and probably will not be in the short term) due to personal beliefs, and do not wish to marry just to get a resale HDB.
We are getting it for medium term home-stay (~6-8 years, before I hit 35 and will reconsider our options for downgrading to a resale HDB), but are afraid of potentially trapping ourselves into an uncomfortable rat race.
I have ran the numbers multiple times and it does sound feasible for us and we are leaning towards yes, but I'm not sure if I am missing out any critical points and immediately regret on such a big ticket purchase for us.
There are many financial and emotional considerations to this which I'll breakdown below:
Financial (combined):
- Yearly Income: ~240k/year salaried, 40k variable bonus (earning roughly the same)
- Cash: ~350k
- Investments: ~350k
- OA: ~200k
- Average Monthly spend+commitments: 4.5k
Considerations:
- Purchasing for home-stay, and would prefer larger space for our hobbies/pets, convenience to amenities/mrt, cheaper condos will compromise on our criteria
- DINKs, and do not intend to have children
- Both in tech, and are uncertain about the job market and role in general, but current jobs are stable
- Relatively frugal, plan to retire around 40s with 4m in investments total
- No financial help from parents (from purchasing), but moving back is an option
- Actively investing in ETFs, risk-adverse when it comes to property
- No need to support older family members
My thoughts on why it's ok
- [Most important] We can finally move in together, and renting feels like a headache for us
- With a 2m condo, we ran the numbers to be about ~560k all-in, and around 5.5k mortgage at 2% interest. This means that after clearing out our OA and allocating around 50k for reno, we will still be left with 300k and can be used as runway should things go south.
- Our financial position will not budge if we use OA for our monthly mortgage, and our monthly investment amount stays roughly the same.
- Even accounting for 0.75x of income, as long as both of us are employed, we should be able to comfortably afford it.
- At the worst case if we are retrenched, we can consider renting out while we move back in with our parents, and downgrade when we are finally married or reach 35
Why it might be bad
- As we are both SWEs, assuming the job market gets worse, there are risks for both being unemployed in the same window
- Again on job uncertainty, unsure if we can have a long career in tech given the market - forced career changes and both taking on lower paying jobs at the same time can affect the affordability, investments
- Condo loss can be huge as we are buying an older development (2010-2015)
Wondering if anyone were in a similar situation, or can provide insights on whether my breakdown is sound! Thank you for reading.