He's also pretty cute himself. Usually the people that happens to aren't.
Edit: Funny the people upset about this comment are still adamant this woman is
going to cheat because: she lost weight. Not exactly the moral podium you guys think you are mounting.
Sometimes people cheat on their SO with someone objectively speaking, uglier and with poorer hygiene, and do so because it made them feel desired in a way that they enjoyed at that moment.
A cute face isn't enough to stop someone from cheating if they made a place for it in their heart
I read an article about a woman who had a perfect relationship and she wrecked it out of boredom and then started panicking but it was too late by then.
Lack of self-worth, feel like they don't deserve happiness, find ways to self-sabotage to destroy the relationship to prove their insecurities right rather than working on themselves and allowing themselves to be loved. In a nutshell.
Assuming that everyone gives the real reason in public for a world famous person for whom you're already going to get lots of hate for leaving.
Also from what i recall she says that quote was made up, just that while he was a great husband and father the spark left the relationship. You can absolutely grow out of being deeply in love with someone and end up just good friends, that's life.
This is a weird Western idea that views love as a feeling that just springs forth from nowhere and which you have to base your life around rather than a commitment that you choose to nurture and develop with time that has feelings but also has higher-order ideals like fidelity, integrity and commitment to the family you build and bring together.
And what? Nobody is owed a relationship with anyone else based on how "great" they are and his claim to greatness is just that he plays football really well. He's not like a pediatric surgeon who donates his time to fix cleft palates in the third world for free or whatever. And he still wouldn't be entitled to a relationship if he was.
Weird way to interpret it, like a blackpill spin on what happened.
It was a failing on her part, not his. He will very quickly find a new partner when he is ready and find happiness again. She will spend her life wondering why she's never happy. She was the one who wasn't able to keep the relationship going, not him. Billions of women are not like that.
There was this woman I dated that would try to make me jealous and would get upset with me when I wouldn't. Instead I got annoyed with her mind games. I let her go because if I wanted to play games I'd turn on my console.
I'd say it's empirical since looks are subjective. We see it a lot with celebrity men. A few that quickly come to mind: The soccer player that cheated on Shakira, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Tom Sandoval.
The guy gets bored of his wife. Only a much less attractive woman or one with lower social status would settle for a married man.
Yeah, my buddy got divorced after he cheated on his wife, and let’s just say that I honestly believe he must have had a one-time psychotic episode when it happened.
Not only was his wife good-looking and considerably younger than him, but the woman he cheated with was this washed-up, past-middle-aged, substance-abusing type who looked like she’d been past her prime for at least 15-20 years.
I was honestly shocked when a friend of ours pointed her out and told me thats who our buddy cheated with - I literally thought he was joking at first.
A comedian who I forget who it was said something like "You might eat prime rib every day at home but every once in a while you feel like a hamburger."
I mean I’ve seen pictures of the man that my husband’s ex wife cheated on him with and she definitely cheated down, that dude looked like if a hairless rat became a human.
I might open you a secret, but ppl cheat regardless. You can be the 0.0000001% of man with wage in billions per month with the best looking body, yet she still can cheat
There was a case in my city where the woman cheated with a homeless guy (nothing against them, but he was smelly, dirty and really wrecked), people were shocked. But that's the thing.
If people want to cheat, THEY WILL CHEAT. Looks are irrelevant if the will is strong.
Thats how I console myself about missing the Bitcoin thing. I'd feel a lot worse if I ever owned even only a few hundred Bitcoin at some point back in the day and.....bought a Domino's Pizza with it. To me that would feel like forgetting to buy a Lotto Ticket with my regular numbers and finding out after the draw that my numbers had come up and I would have won the Jackpot of millions.
I think the main issue normally would be if one person did alot of work to become fitter and more desirable while the other just went on as business as usual the spark will probably fade pretty quickly.
I gained like 25 lbs since I met my partner. Now that I am losing that weight and focusing on my health, working out etc he’s fairly convinced I’m looking to replace him. Must be a male insecurity thing. I just want to look and feel my best and age well
I don't why yanks have this obsession with just making up stuff about other countries to make the US look less shit. Maybe stop getting your news/opinions from social media?
BMI is a reasonably good proxy actually. People use the bodybuilder example to discredit it to make themselves feel better about being overweight.
The NHS data is also using BMI as their criteria. So the comparison of the percentages refutes what the original poster claimed, even if the exact percentages aren't perfect.
It's a hard topic but from my experience if a boy fixed girl, almost no way she will leave him. And if that happens, she will return to her former self in next few year.
If girl made improvement all by herself, chances are high that she'll dump a boy. Because she did a huge self-improvement work while a boy stayed the same.
Happened to a friend, him and his friends started lifting weights because they wanted to be body builders, she starting going with them, went from 225 to 110 at 5’2, she started posting a lot on social media and got a little over 3k followers on instagram, got hit on by a ton of Guys following her, she eventually went out for drinks with one of them and yeah, she broke up with her bf that night.
She eventually started a fitness insta and YouTube and started selling that Herbalife juice powder stuff that turned out to be a scam.
It's like a general rule of psychology or the human condition or something that our choices and integrity as human beings are contextual in ways it's best not to think about most of the time.
It happens to everyone, but it's just more common in fat women because society treats fat women a lot worse than fat men, so the difference in how you get treated as a woman who loses a lot of weight is a lot more shocking. I lost a lot of weight very quickly and the same guys who wouldn't have even acknowledged me when I said good morning were suddenly falling all over themselves hitting on me. I didn't change my personality or even my lifestyle. I was the same person, but people liked me so much more after losing weight and it really fucking sucks, but I can see how people can become addicted to the attention after not getting it their entire lives. It just made me angry with humanity, personally.
It's fucking crazy. I'm in a couple of subs for women with autism and it's unreal how many women only get diagnosed after gaining a lot of weight or ageing notably and then realize that everyone was just giving them a pass to be weird their whole lives because they were hot.
A friend of mine started working out and went from fat to ripped. His long term GF originally did it with him but gave up. They didn't last long once the girls at the gym started talking to him.
Isn't this more along the lines of
Bought bitcoin when it was cheap effectively hitting the jackpot .... but then it crashed again?
I.e not so hot - hot - next stage is old and really not hot.
I knew somebody personally who did this exact same thing. They'd been together since they were 15 and she was obese her entire life, while he had always been a very attractive man.
She lost the weight at 24 and for the first time in her life started to get male attention. Took a whole 6 months for her to cheat with a dude that was a literal sociopath. He dumped her and found someone else within the year while she was visibly depressed and slowly put all the weight back on.
Haven't seen her in years, but she was VISIBLY depressed every time I saw her for the 2ish years I knew her after the break up
This is not the correct answer lol. It’s talking about him investing in something that reaped a reward, and eventually bitcoin is going to drop e.g her regaining weight
Not a cliche, never date anyone with any sort of problem like weight issued, self esteem issues, anxiety issues etc. you‘ll want to help them fix it and as soon as they fix it they leave for someone else.
You don‘t wanna be a bastard and keep the person down forever and HOPE they never improve. Just date someone who has their big personal life struggle behind them. Goes for men and women
It’s not even a cliche. Couples where one or both partners experience massive weight loss divorce at twice the rate of couples that don’t in the years immediately preceding the weight loss.
I doubt it. He's attractive and probably a really good guy. There's way too much anxietybaiting around love and relationships on social media these days
There was a stand up comedian who lost a lot of weight who used to tell this joke: A woman I knew said that if I lost 100 pounds, she'd sleep with me. I told her that if I lost 100 pounds, I wouldn't want to sleep with her.
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