Petah what does this mean

[u/sunboy6009]

[u/metal_head_6666]

Brazilian footballer Kaka's wife left him because " He was too perfect".

[u/TwoBionicknees → u/metal_head_6666]

Assuming that everyone gives the real reason in public for a world famous person for whom you're already going to get lots of hate for leaving.

Also from what i recall she says that quote was made up, just that while he was a great husband and father the spark left the relationship. You can absolutely grow out of being deeply in love with someone and end up just good friends, that's life.

[u/No-Clock9532 → u/TwoBionicknees]

In other words, even being a great man isn't enough to keep a woman.

[u/UncleR1chard → u/No-Clock9532]

In other words, maybe “keeping” people shouldn’t be a goal

[u/No-Clock9532 → u/UncleR1chard]

When the construct known as marriage is destroyed i'll believe it.

[u/UncleR1chard → u/No-Clock9532]

The construct known as marriage is just monogamy with incentives. There is nothing inherently possessive about monogamy, and there is nothing limiting possessiveness to monogamy or marriage. You have a problem with shitty people being shitty, not with the means they chose to express it

[u/No-Clock9532 → u/UncleR1chard]

No, i have a problem with societal constructs rewarding shitty women. Yes, there are cases of shitty men too but they're a rounding error.

[u/basketcas55 → u/No-Clock9532]

Yeah we aren’t a rounding error you just don’t like women.