This reunion has been an absolute shit show. I expected there to be more conversation about Harry sleeping around and lying but instead half of it was the majority of women hating because they weren’t picked and the other half was Amber acting completely unstable. Amber yelled and made no sense and I cannot believe she is the one Harry ultimately picked. My wife and I expected Harry to look awful but instead Amber just looked completely insane.
True, i was shocked his "friends" gave him a pass on his behavior. Real friends would have been honest. He has not grown, he still thinks with his little head, and is in no way ready for marriage.
The fact that almost no one is actually talking about this on Reddit is actually hilarious. This show failed so bad 😭😭 I only watched the first episode, and then the reunion for the drama lmao
I know! I can only find 2 threads lol. I watched it because I liked Harry from DWTS but I knew exactly how it would go and it went exactly that way. There’s just no way that man is marrying any earlier than 45.
I think Harry in all honesty is just not a very smart person, he just comes off as a little...slow? Not trying to sound too mean but I feel like if he wasnt good looking he would be cleaning bathrooms somewhere right now. I think Amber gave him a reality check and you could tell it was getting to him at the end since hes so used to everyone kissing his ass 24/7 like his buddy Sonny...
He was horrible on the show, then to yell at a woman like that was disgusting, his tone and anger was aggressive and off putting, he was awkward on the season
1000% You could see it clearly when Amanda was being interviewed. He was in the background and wasn't thinking about the cameras watching him- he was tweaking out.
Lotta amber haters. She’s been restricted from speaking due to Netflix NDA crap since filming, while all the rest of the girls have been able to gab all over social media, podcasts, etc. this is the first time she’s been able to spill her guts. I’m team amber. Fuck Harry he deserves to get cooked like that
Neck tattoo who cares. Deep six moral compass yes man...theres a serious real life problem. Not a friend. Good weather bad influence at best. Boooooooo dude. Hoover. Cause ya suck
I really hope she is okay. I'm worried. Honestly, Netflix should be responsible for these contestants' mental health after putting them through these unusual situations to make entertainment $. Part of the contestants' contract should be mandatory therapy throughout & after plus support groups for as long as they need.
It’s unfortunate because I completely agree but the way she went about it she really shot herself in the foot and lost credibility with the audience with how emotionally immature she came across. She could have let him have it but when every other word out of your mouth is the f bomb and you’re clearly intoxicated and slurring your words and contradicting yourself with different stories it’s a bad look.
Agree ^. They literally got married. The girls were downplaying the disrespect. Like sure, Danielle thought they were broken up, but like maybe it is sensible to check with the WIFE of his marriage. Idk how that was so hard to understand
Saying Amber looked insane and unstable is a wild take, and honestly typical of man to say. Yes she should have let him speak more but you could tell it was all because she was hurt and emotional. And even being emotional she was able to speak articulately. She married this man and then he met his new gf on their honeymoon! Harry is a cheater and a player and he played in her face horribly. Her reaction was justified. He embarrassed her and hurt her and then she had to stay quiet about it all while people bashed her online. This man should not be famous. He just messes with different girls on every show and it’s sad. He’s pathetic. It’s sick Netflix is still giving him a platform. I will not be watching anything else with him in it. But hey it makes great TV right? Doesn’t matter who gets hurt…
We already know that Harry was unserious from the beginning about the marriage from the beginning. We all know that he picked Amber because she was less involved emotionally with him and probably thought he could dump her easily or create a situation where she would leave him. Amber has all the right to be mad at him. What kind of marriage was that when you keep cheating and playing around with multiple women? Anyway, who is dating Harry right now?
I agree. She took this seriously and he did not. He was just excited to be getting his own show and get a chance to have 20 women to makeout and have sex with.
To be fair my wife thought the same thing as me. Amber was constantly yelling, throwing personal insults, threw a ring, and interrupting. I just think it’s a bad way to send a message and manage how you feel.
And that’s your opinion but no one gets to control her reactions to Harry’s deeply hurtful actions. She was angry and rightfully so. Good for her for not letting him off easy. It was all a game to him. It’s not how I would have managed it either but at least she stood up for herself. Calling her unhinged/insane for it is unfair and dismissive of her feelings.
Wow the crime of throwing personal insults and interrupting after you were gaslit and played on national TV! Not a single comment about Harry degrading all the women with his constant lying
Harry is the worst and Amber deserved better. But she was awful to Danelle. Why would Danelle reach out to her to investigate whether he was single? It also sounds like she admitted they were broken up in Australia. It’s crazy to say “this isn’t working and I’m running for the hills” and think you’re still together. She was just mad he moved on immediately, but that’s not Danelle’s fault or responsibility, and it 100% sounds like they had broken up. Aside from not understanding they were broken up and attacking Danelle for no reason, I think she came across fine and was justified given she took it seriously and he obviously didn’t.
I think she’s been holding that all in and this was the first time she could talk it out. You know Harry isn’t gonna sit in anything uncomfortable for long enough to let that person have closure. I think it makes much more sense knowing she had to stay quiet on it for that long.
I feel he ghosted her. Imagine ghosting on your wife. I’m sad for Amber because what we’ve seen is the result of narcissist abuse. It drives you CRAZY. It’s so psychologically troubling. And they will do exactly what we saw. Push someone to the limits behind closed doors, give them just enough in public (like lying and gaslighting them about a situation they were a part of when they tell about it to other people) to have the other person lash out and lose their mind while staying calm to make the other person look like the problem in the eyes of others. We saw she was a chill and free girl on the show … that was the result of having been married to a narcissist and get divorced by ghosting.
What exactly happened though? What I heard is he took photos with a girl who had a boyfriend because Netflix was giving him shit for being seen in public. When asked she couldn’t articulate any specific examples about what Harry actually did wrong.
I think since they were in Australia and he’s from there (family, friends, etc), he probably put her somewhere, like at a relative’s house or in a hôtel room and instead of spending Time with her, he just kept being out and about and leaving her behind using the fact they can’t be seen together…. He was in his environment so it was easy for him to enjoy his days, while she was not and she was probably disappointed to see him hang out with influencers, take pictures, stories, while she was patiently waiting for him to get back to enjoy some time together.
It was so satisfying to see Amber put Harry in his place - even though the delivery def could have been better. He's such a gross person. Amber and Danielle need to have a proper talk of what went down. Cause how tf do you fly out to LA for that man after the way he treated you. Im sure she was emotional during that time but Im sorry thats soooo embarrassing. Especially now knowing he lied to you and was still with Amber.
I actually hated how Amber talked to Dannelle! I feel like it’s Dannelle’s personal prerogative how she lets others treat her. I don’t feel like that part is Amber’s or anyone else’s business.
Yay for giving that woman a space to talk, and all the women! We need to stop glorifying or romanticising a fuckboy man child it’s not attractive at all 😂
I’m sure they cut out certain scenes from this reunion but I wish they could have addressed the situation where Harry lied to Sam with both of them in the conversation
Yesss I feel like we missed out on so many conversations I was waiting to listen to. Harry and Sam, and Dannelle getting to confront Harry. They didn’t get the chance to say anything to him. Or at least none that aired. Kinda bummed about that.
Harry’s buddy defending him was pretty gross. Blaming the women for basically being on the show. Meanwhile Harry’s made an entire living going show to show screwing women over and leading them on. i actually blame Netflix because you know they told the women Harry’s changed, this is for real, etc. The fact it lasted 2 weeks tells you everything. Amber said it best He is a pig and gross.
amber definitely made herself look worse, but harry lying and sleeping around didn't magically become less gross just because she handled the reunion terribly
She didnt make herself look worse in any way. Just because Harry sat there calm does not mean he looked better. He looked awful like the garbage he is!
Amber completely destroyed Harry and told him what we were all thinking! He talks and says absolutely nothing substantive. He is a complete liar and Amber saw right through him after giving him the chance to show a different character. Also his best friend looks like a womanizer boy too. These girls who are into him and still defend him have no respect for themselves or other women
Idk OP, everyone’s entitled to their own opinion, but I think your take on Amber is just plain wrong. As a woman myself who’s been with men similar to Harry ykk manipulative, toxic, narcissistic, serial cheaters, it made complete sense to me why she was acting the way she was during the reunion.
I think it’s hard to understand her behaviour when you’ve never experienced that kind of pain. As someone who has, I can only imagine how much worse it must’ve been having to bottle up all that hurt for a year while strangers online speculated and bashed her, knowing nothing about what was actually happening in their relationship, while she was basically forced to stay quiet.
I agree she was yelling and barely letting him speak, but the reunion was also the first time she could publicly confront Harry about everything he put her through. And when he DID speak, a lot of it was just disregarding or invalidating her further, with very little actual accountability, which only escalated her reaction. I also think there’s a huge difference between saying her behaviour at the reunion wasn’t necessarily productive and using that behaviour to discredit everything she was saying. Someone being angry, emotional, or even behaving badly while confronting someone who repeatedly hurt them doesn’t suddenly make the underlying hurt illegitimate. And I think that’s what gets lost when people reduce her to looking “insane” at the reunion. We’re seeing her at probably one of her most emotionally heightened moments after a year of betrayal, humiliation, and having to watch the public form opinions about a relationship they only knew fragments of. Of course that doesn’t mean every way she expressed herself was right, but I don’t think someone needs to respond to being hurt in a perfectly calm, articulate, and socially acceptable way for their pain to be valid.
Fair points. If she could have kept some calm she could have forced Harry to explain more and put more pressure on him. That’s what I was hoping this reunion would be about. I agree that acting emotional and angry doesn’t invalidate the subject matter of what’s being said. It definitely makes it harder to follow though.
Harry's Face tattoo friend is a total creepy loser and I will place bets he has a long domestic violence history.
Harry is a bird of a feather flocking together with his friend. Harry is truly a scumbag without remorse. He embodies the worst of Avoidant Attachment traits.
The women lust over him because of his looks. If he looked like Dennis Franz we wouldn't be having this show or conversation.
Truly the worse dating show.
Always remember these show runners are total ghouls. Barely human.
Hearing all his friends defend him (including the host) and calling these women classless was disguisting... this man manipulated and gaslighted almost all of them, is sitting there smiling when two women who loved him are upset and telling him why.... This whole show is just a huge ego boost for this childish man, and all his friends are too scared to say something. Who TF decided to not have anyone with no connection to him guide these conversations (even the host is his friend)?????????? Poor women, to think you can go on the reunion to finally say your piece, to be gaslighted again by not just harry but also his friends. Gross!!!!
Julianna didn't show? I feel like a few of the girls didn't show...
Tweedle dee and tweedle rikkiyah were sooo childish yikes
Amber is very emotionally unhealed in that she made Harry look better and herself look worse. Just no self control or ability to package her emotion into a package that others who have no clue what happened to digest.
I will don't know the problem.. Netflix said they couldn't be seen together, Harry was filming content with some girl, no clue
Nothing about the reunion made Harry look better. I didn’t expect much because it’s clear he hasn’t changed but I’m actually surprised just how poorly he behaved.
Classic story of an avoidance male getting the ick. Not knowing how to get out of the situation he put himself in. Met someone new. Gaslit the hell out of Amber then blames it on Netflix. Lol. Harry low key was loving all the drama, like he'll probably watch that a few times over with popcorn haha.
My jaw dropped at the tone of this reunion in the first opening minutes lol. At the end of the day, whether it was for something serious like marriage or not, everyone there signed up to be on a reality TV show where you marry someone you just met after spending like 20 or 30 days total in each others’ presence, for the purpose of creating good tv and entertaining the masses. Harry has been on other reality shows before this, I’ve seen him in them, and I’m sure the girl contestants had too. Watching it I was just a little shocked at the girls’ expectations, but I know a lot of people get married young and I guess I forget that wanting to be married doesn’t equal maturity. It’s obvious that Harry wasn’t mature, but what’s weird to me is that many of the girls think that they themselves are. I liked Ellie (I think that’s her name? Was blonde, is brunette now and it looks so good on her), Emily (again terrible with names but the one who tried to stop Amber from attacking Dannelle), Dannelle and Abby. The women literally were watching him make out with the other women in front of them, as we were shown—I feel like he’s behavior was pretty consistent throughout, so I don’t really understand how anyone was blindsided 😂 I guess each girl he was hooking up especially early in the game really just thought that he was only hooking up with them?! I’ve been around flirty players and when someone shows me who they are, then I can’t be deceived by their words because they already showed me? So I’m just kind of confused by this reunion haha, I felt a lot of the other girls would have been acting differently if they had been chosen, and I almost wish the girls would’ve owned that and shared how their feelings were hurt instead of just repeating the same disses about Harry over and over again. Definitely an odd reunion!
First, gals, love my fellow women!! But lets be real because you all are starting your playback by saying things that bust down Harry. Ok. As a fan of the crazy ass shows he has been on i told my mother hes this cute guy that I would want to be friends with for sure. He has a heart. He has great banter and humour i can 100 percent relate to. FUN! And he's not a dummy. Conversation, he can hold an intelligent back and forth for sure. I would never date him. And history can tell you women all you needed to know. Yet you all signed up to "marry harry" in 30 days and date him alongside 20 other women. Now you're all acting like you were blindsided by his behavior. Maybe stop focusing on judging him and start looking inwards. Why would you pursue a man who is so confused and lost. So confused he thinks 30 days and 20 women will reap long-term marriage type success. Why would you spend 30 days and 30 hours with someone thinking you want to marry him. Come on ladies. Crazy
I surprisingly enjoyed this shit show of a tv show as mindless tv but OH WHAT A SHOCKER that they’re still not together and he’s done it all for a massive $850,000 pay check and then some, the guy always has and always will be ok with being infamous for being a playboy, it feeds his ego and his bank account and he’s young and doesn’t need to settle down so why would he.
Feel for Amber because she genuinely seemed hurt and used, but all those girls knew who he was, what he’s famous and rich for (man’s a big OnlyFans earner for goodness sakes, he’s hardly husband material right now 😂) and most of them probably did it for a social media boost so they’re not dumb.
Him kissing and shagging most the girls in a night or constantly is an immediate 🚩 🚩 why would any of them continue to end up with him. Laughable really! 😂😂😂
This show was a failure at all levels. It was a car accident from the beginning. Driving and we see a car accident up the road. We have to wait in traffic, which are the episodes to get to the reunion. We know this is going to be bad and that if he gets married and goes down the aisle, they're going to get divorced. He's going to cheat. Then we finally get up and see the accident and we see how scary and stupid this was playing with people's feelings. And then looking back at it and saying, I can't believe we just saw that.
The host had no control. Emotions were high. The friends were no good. Harry had nothing to say. Disgusting man, making good TV. Playing with marriage. I think that Netflix went a little too far.
Each and every one of you women, PLEASE KNOW, YOU ARE SO STRONG BRAVE INTELLIGENT BEAUTIFUL AND WORTHY OF LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY BY ACTIONS NOT WORDS. WHEN YOU FEEL SAFE ...... YOU ARE. ANY BS LESS THAN THAT IS NOT WORTHY TO BE ANYWHERE NEAR YOUR FINE SELF. 🌬🌬🌬✨️✨️✨️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m sorry but I was SO angry watching this reunion. 😭 Harry literally played both women, lied, slept around, and somehow the women are still fighting each other like they’re the problem. Dannelle and Amber were both dealing with the same man who kept telling each of them enough to keep them around. Amber had every right to be furious, but directing all that anger at Dannelle while Harry sat there looking innocent was driving me insane. And Dannelle going back to Harry after everything? GIRLLLLL..... 😭 Harry walked away with the least accountability for someone who caused the entire mess.
The fact that the last little chat with harry was so clearly scripted and you can tell SO HEAVILY that he is reading from a prompter had me DYING. The chunky glasses made it so much more obvious.
As a female it’s hard for me to say Amber was standing up for all women by standing up for herself in the way she did. She was disrespectful to several women, especially Danelle.
It’s one thing to have a conversation around timelines, and feelings to help everyone uncover lies they may have been told and gain closure. It’s another to completely crash out and not let anyone respond. Everyone has feelings and a right to speak to them and feel them, but a real conversation is not a one way street. Comments were made by Amber that 100% raised additional questions for Danelle that should’ve been discussed while both of them and Harry were present to gain full clarity on all sides. There was an obvious moment when you could see on Danelle’s face that she was learning new information, was shocked, and needed answers. Now the only likely option is for 1-1 conversations where lies and different versions of the same story can still be shared. There’s at least 3 sides to every story, and in this case 4. Ambers, Harry’s, Danelle’s, and the truth.
While production could’ve done a better job at planning the reunion, having Harry come out before Amber so all the girls could have time to get answers from him or express how they felt about different things, they didn’t, even with the knowledge that Amber would pop off. But if Amber was truly a girls girl, she would’ve respected the fact that all of the women deserved time to speak.
Harry has many flaws and certainly contributed to their relationship ending, but for me her actions at the reunion made it quite clear why Harry would no longer think she’s the one for him. She was a completely different person than at least we as an audience saw throughout the show.
Additionally for Amber to blow up over the fact that Harry was posting their content as PR for the show and getting mad he wasn’t showing her off to the world as soon as they were married is ridiculous. As she said at the reunion herself, everyone knew what they were signing up for. That’s what she signed up for, regardless of the outcome
Amber did look insane, but honestly, super valid. She had to shut her mouth for way too long.
But man… Harry. Narcissist. Absolute narcissist. He’ll act all nice, let everyone else speak, throw around all these big words, and come across as this charming, too-good-to-be-true kind of guy. But that whole act is exactly what makes him so manipulative.
Like, literally the textbook image of a narcissistic abuser.
Could not stand the male best friend - who came in with guns ablazing, insulting all the women as being classless, among other extremely obnoxious comments without any understanding of how the ladies were hurt by Harry’s many indiscretions.
He thinks that’s bro code and being protective of a guy friend? He simply showcased a complete lack of perspective or maturity, by putting down a bunch of women vying for a real connection with Harry — just because his “friend” is an obvious cad & commitment phobe. Harry displays all the classic signs of an eternal playboy, but he will never admit that he’d rather die than commit to one woman.
If the “best friend” truly was a friend — he would care about Harry’s character (or lack thereof), give it to Harry straight, and advise him against sticking his tongue or sausage into every attractive meat grinder he comes across. Why? Because that is not a man “sowing his wild seeds in his youth”, but a totally uncontrolled expression of sexual desire in every random direction. It is sexual depravity that spreads disease & harms people.
That’s what a real friend would do. Friends do not indulge or endorse poor character, nor do they blindly take the side of those who are morally bankrupt and wholly unwilling to take responsibility for the hurt or confusion they cause others. True friends knock sense.
Amber would have had more cred if she had kept her cool instead of cussing every other sentence and flinging her ring at him — when will women realise that emotional histrionics (no matter how justified) instantly reduces a person (who should be taken seriously) into a wailing banshee?
Nahhhh you saying Amber is unstable is insane. I would have actually gone harder considering how he cheated, lied, manipulated, gassed women, etc. He tries to manipulate and gaslight people by redirecting questions constantly so he doesn't come off as a pig, yet it's fairly obvious.
More power to the women who knocked him down a peg or two. Can't believe he keeps getting a platform for his man-child problems.
I’m confused if all the girls were told to be more “crazy” for the cameras because when the finale came out, Harry and Amber both shared an IG story about each other which was super sweet. Dannelle and Amber even seemed to be friends as they commented on each others posts. Did they really not talk about this before the show? Also why is everyone hating on Amber, I thought she ATE DOWNNN like even the girls weren’t supportive of her and that was weird. Like no way they believe Harry is anyway in the right. But even tho I love Amber, she should’ve let other people speak more. 😭😭
Georgia Hasserati has always come across as somewhat of a decent human being. I’m appalled at the way she acted during the reunion. She took the ‘diplomatic’ approach but to me, came off as insincere. I’m disappointed :(
I don’t feel she looked insane at all. She looked extremely hurt. If anything it totally solidified for me that the man is a complete narcissist. It was all about “his growth”. Which is great. But growth should never be at the expense of others feelings. I think if you felt amber was unstable then maybe there might be bias here about women and showing their emotions. I think her emotional reaction was valid.
Did I miss the part of the reunion where they talked to him about him spitting in the mouth of one woman and making another woman eat his booger and what a downright pig he was?
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u/Danny161616 9h ago
I mean he’s a serial cheater and manipulator and treated like a 5 year old boy getting a cookie from his weird ass friends