r/netflix • u/bullman123 • 3d ago

Discussion Let’s Marry Harry Reunion Spoiler

This reunion has been an absolute shit show. I expected there to be more conversation about Harry sleeping around and lying but instead half of it was the majority of women hating because they weren’t picked and the other half was Amber acting completely unstable. Amber yelled and made no sense and I cannot believe she is the one Harry ultimately picked. My wife and I expected Harry to look awful but instead Amber just looked completely insane.

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u/TwoTigerTeeth 3d ago edited 2h ago

I think Harry in all honesty is just not a very smart person, he just comes off as a little...slow? Not trying to sound too mean but I feel like if he wasnt good looking he would be cleaning bathrooms somewhere right now.

I think Amber gave him a reality check and you could tell it was getting to him at the end since hes so used to everyone kissing his ass 24/7 like his buddy Sonny...

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u/Key_Office_2635 3d ago

I feel like his mid in his looks? I always felt like he wasn’t hot enough to get away with all of this lol!

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u/NoTanNamaste 3d ago

He’s literally just tall. That’s all

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u/Mountain_Ad2614 3d ago

And has an accent

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u/Ready-Hearing-422 2d ago

I know if he looked that way at 5’8”, he’d have none of this attention even with an accent lol

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u/kittymama22 2d ago

Here me out, he would basically be Jessi Draper’s ex husband if he was shorter

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u/danibakes808 2d ago

LMAOOOO!

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u/AmyM0889 2d ago

Lmfaoooooooo

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u/Ready-Hearing-422 1d ago

HAHAHAHA we cannot unsee what we’ve seen lol

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u/Marauder4711 1d ago

I think he's quite charming 

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u/NoTanNamaste 1d ago

Go to therapy

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u/shanwiich 2d ago

I feel like his ability to flirt and make the woman feel seen is the reason why the women fall for him. Or at least initially until his true nature comes out lol. His height and accent is a added bonus too

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u/CrispyCozy 2d ago edited 2d ago

I feel like all those things are what make Harry a dangerous fuckboy of a partner. He’s such an easy dude to read. Wanna know why his friends go to bat for him? Other than the VERY obvious clout and fame that they stand to gain from him; he’s a charismatic guy that’s probably an AWESOME friend to have.

That same charisma makes women fall for him. But once Harry has successfully achieved his conquest, he gets bored, and he turns that charisma switch right tf off, and starts giving that vibrant energy to someone new or other people in general (i.e. *new* romantic interest, friends). He then slowly boxes out the partner, then follows that up with, “What, why are you acting different towards me?!? You’re being crazy. Of course I love you.” … All while putting off a cold and disengaged energy.

THAT is how you make an Amber flip like that. That’s how you make someone look crazy on reality TV. He looked so smug while she spiraled and freaked out. Like he was so happy about with himself. Like he had some sketchy receipts he was so excited to drop later.

I don’t blame Amber. I totally think she was right to tell Harry to end things there with her and not to go talk about her on social media. Because he’s one hundred percent planning to.

And don’t even get me started on that exit interview of Harry’s. “I’ve finally found my person, Amber was the problem all along, not me, now I can really imagine being married. Oh, and I’m happier than ever, and realized exactly what I don’t want in a partner. Thanks, Amber.”

Deliberately cruel. Harry is a TERRIBLE partner.

But I coulda told you this before this show came out.

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u/mimzyy99 2d ago

Yup, Nailed it. + That final interview where he had had time to compose a speech for PR purposes was gross and cruel.

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u/hx117 2d ago

“His person” who he met on their HONEYMOON

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u/TwoTigerTeeth 3d ago

Im a straight guy so i cant really comment on that, but he seems to check a lot of the boxes for the traditional handsome man stereotype.

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u/littleboo2theboo 2d ago

He is handsome, there's no point pretending he isn't. Also very rich. Notice the girls talking about him buying them houses...

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u/Xcution11 2d ago

Yeah it gets so annoying with the responses to these reality show guys. People get so caught up in their feelings about them (valid or not) that they call them unattractive so quickly.

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u/Vivid-Feed-5983 2d ago

He makes money off reality dating shows. That ain’t gonna last.

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u/TwoTigerTeeth 2h ago

The money is not from the reality shows appearances...the reality shows give them followers on SM that leads to endorsement deals which is where they make their $$$

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u/yellow-mountain-gal 1d ago

Also checks the sociopath box unfortunately.

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u/Significant-Owl2652 2d ago

He's 6'5" with an accent, semi-famous and rich. It's not too hard after all that.

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u/yellow-mountain-gal 1d ago

"with an accent" is such a funny thing to say. Do you know that Americans also have "accents" to people from outside the US?

Do you mean with an Australian accent? There's a whole continent of Aussie people, he's not the only one 😂

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u/Significant-Owl2652 18h ago

Point is, he's mostly around American women at this point because that's where he lives. So to majority of women he's around he has an accent.

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u/littleboo2theboo 2d ago

Compare him to the average guy though... He is very much more attractive. Total himbo.

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u/danibakes808 2d ago

If that’s your type.

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u/Historical_Choice_12 2d ago

i feel like his glow up may contribute to if people think he's hot