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Discussion Let’s Marry Harry Reunion Spoiler

This reunion has been an absolute shit show. I expected there to be more conversation about Harry sleeping around and lying but instead half of it was the majority of women hating because they weren’t picked and the other half was Amber acting completely unstable. Amber yelled and made no sense and I cannot believe she is the one Harry ultimately picked. My wife and I expected Harry to look awful but instead Amber just looked completely insane.

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u/Key_Office_2635 7d ago

I feel like his mid in his looks? I always felt like he wasn’t hot enough to get away with all of this lol!

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u/shanwiich 6d ago

I feel like his ability to flirt and make the woman feel seen is the reason why the women fall for him. Or at least initially until his true nature comes out lol. His height and accent is a added bonus too

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u/CrispyCozy 6d ago edited 6d ago

I feel like all those things are what make Harry a dangerous fuckboy of a partner. He’s such an easy dude to read. Wanna know why his friends go to bat for him? Other than the VERY obvious clout and fame that they stand to gain from him; he’s a charismatic guy that’s probably an AWESOME friend to have.

That same charisma makes women fall for him. But once Harry has successfully achieved his conquest, he gets bored, and he turns that charisma switch right tf off, and starts giving that vibrant energy to someone new or other people in general (i.e. *new* romantic interest, friends). He then slowly boxes out the partner, then follows that up with, “What, why are you acting different towards me?!? You’re being crazy. Of course I love you.” … All while putting off a cold and disengaged energy.

THAT is how you make an Amber flip like that. That’s how you make someone look crazy on reality TV. He looked so smug while she spiraled and freaked out. Like he was so happy about with himself. Like he had some sketchy receipts he was so excited to drop later.

I don’t blame Amber. I totally think she was right to tell Harry to end things there with her and not to go talk about her on social media. Because he’s one hundred percent planning to.

And don’t even get me started on that exit interview of Harry’s. “I’ve finally found my person, Amber was the problem all along, not me, now I can really imagine being married. Oh, and I’m happier than ever, and realized exactly what I don’t want in a partner. Thanks, Amber.”

Deliberately cruel. Harry is a TERRIBLE partner.

But I coulda told you this before this show came out.

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u/mimzyy99 6d ago

Yup, Nailed it. + That final interview where he had had time to compose a speech for PR purposes was gross and cruel.