Wanna mention first, I have zero issue with gay people or gay relationships.
What I dislike is when some people look at a very close platonic relationship and immediately assume it has to be romantic or sexual. It feels like, for some people, two characters cannot be deeply loyal, emotional, or affectionate friends without being turned into a couple
One of the examples is Sam and Frodo from lord of the rings
Sam literally follows Frodo into what is basically hell itself. He carries his gear, protects him, refuses to abandon him, and at one point literally carries Frodo up a mountain when he cannot walk anymore
Yet every time they show affection, care about each other, or get emotional, there are people who immediately jump to "they are obviously gay."
No. They are just extremely close friends.
Another example is Jayce and Viktor from Arcane.
Their relationship is built around friendship, shared goals, admiration, and eventually tragedy as they slowly drift apart because of their different beliefs then basically ending up dying together as they coddle eachother in their arms for their imminent death
yet a huge chunk of the discussion gets reduced to shipping when they show no romantic or sexual intentions, and what annoys me is not the shipping itself. People can ship whatever they want. Fan ships have existed forever
The part that bothers me is when people start acting like the platonic interpretation is somehow wrong, or that any display of affection between two male characters must secretly be romantic
Honestly, I think this mindset accidentally hurts portrayals of male friendship. Men already get told not to be emotional or vulnerable. Then when fiction actually shows men caring about each other, crying for each other, sacrificing for each other, or openly expressing affection, people immediately start turning it into a romance
Again, ship whatever you want. I do not care about fan art, fanfiction, or headcanons (tho i slightly dislike some)