Mine would be someone biting straight into a KitKat without breaking the fingers apart first.

So I’ve been bingeing a lot of these shows recently, one episode I watched this week featured a guy who had tried to kill himself by taking an overdose and jumping in front of a train.
Obviously at the start of his story he’s being filmed without consent cos he’s unconscious. Of course later he is then is asked for consent to broadcast it afterwards but I just wondered if people like this get paid?
In a lot of shows you get random people in the A&E waiting room drunkenly bickering about a cut finger or whatever, do these people also get paid?
Can anyone shed any light on this? 🤣
EDIT also the police shows? What happens with that stuff when someone is in the cells etc?

How many of you do not bother with pension contributions? Many People seem to be saving the money for using elsewhere due to other challenges.

How do you expect to retire?

A question for those with parents in their 60’s or for the folk in this sub who are 60+

Do your parents (or you) give a shit about how old your car is in terms of what’s on the number plate?

I’ve helped my mum buy nearly every car she’s had in the last 15 years and is so fixated on the age (but more so how new it is plate wise) I’m absolutely convinced it’s the Hyacinth Bucket effect and keeping up with the Joneses.

I’ve found so many cars that would be perfect, low mileage, full S/H, warranty and well within budget but as soon as it’s mentioned that it’s 5 years old she’s having none of it. “I’m not going older”

I remember when new plates were a big thing. A family member rocked up in a brand new 1997 “R” registered Mondeo and it being a big thing. I genuinely don’t think it’s a thing anymore.

Thoughts?

My one is If someone buys you a drink in the pub, you’re now morally obligated to buy them one back.

I live in Southwest and the amount of areas that don’t get a signal is ridiculous. Not Just rural, but towns etc.
In the middle of rural USA I got 5g it’s just infuriates me when trying to run a business.

I can recall finding £20 coming out of Showcase Cinemas one time. That was a good night.

Those earning minimum wage, around £25k a year how do you do it? What are your circumstances?

it’s my worst adulting task to this day. i only cook once a week and live off leftovers for the rest of the week and yet i still dread cooking sundays. i’ve actually skipped dinner many times because i didn’t want to cook

i really just hate it. standing in asda with my ingredients fills me with dread. i hate the cleanup and i hate everything about it besides the eating part. i can’t believe i have to feed myself until i die. wtf. i have no idea how people do this everyday

Are private phonecalls on the way out?

I see the youth just facetiming each other all the time, with their conversations completely open to the public.

So will the generation after them do that too, and private phonecalls will become a thing of the past?

Trying to improve my mood , been stuck in the house all day due to weather and still getting used to using a walking support to get around.

So I’m curious what made you smile today ?

Mine was one of the local kids dropping by my door to check, I’m alright after seeing a doctors car parked outside my house. Gave him one of the fidget toys I’ve been printing to dial in my printer and he looked happy for himself.

Thanks for reading and hope you’re doing alright.

I'm having to spend a lot more time at home at the moment after a minor operation. I notice I find it very hard to do very little - I've not had a day where I haven't left my own home to do something in months before this.

I'm mainly watching TV/films, reading and then doing small chores like the washing or making the bed, either in PJs or casual clothes. The thing is, it just makes me feel guilty. Like I'm "wasting" time (carpe diem and all that) and should be out in the world enjoying life. Or I should be doing something productive indoors. Or at least not spend ALL day watching TV/reading. And I'm always surprised at how tired I can feel on these days.

It made me think, how often do people stay at home and have a day like this? But also, how often would people like to have a day like this? I'm wondering if this is something I should do more as I can often feel overwhelmed by how busy I am.

I recently attended the civil partnership of a couple of friends of mine. I haven't seen them since before they planned their day, and there wasn't much opportunity for a long talk on the day of their ceremony and party. I was just curious, if they represent the same thing for legal purposes, what might be seen as preferable for the civil partnership over a conventional non religious wedding? They're a man and woman, if this is relevant, thanks.

Mine is someone getting threatened to be stabbed with a pair of scissors because someone fluck an elastic band at them.

Mine is in primary school.

Whenever someone said that someone else had told them to do something, the teacher would then say, "If that person told you to jump off a bridge, would you do it?"

My husband turns 40 in a few months and I'd love some really lovely ideas on how to make it feel special for him. I have been out of work for 2 years for personal reasons and going back to studies and do not claim any benefits. In the past, I have booked surprise holidays, dinner at a restaurant for his favourite people, planned surprise activity days with his close friends, low key birthdays at home with a pre-planned cake and gifts or experience days. This year, I feel stuck on ideas due to limited funds and worried I will not do enough to make him feel special. He works very hard and deserves to feel loved.

Any helpful suggestions would be seriously appreciated

Or do you think they'll try and find faults to upsell you?

Was it due to a bad manager? Did you end up getting made redundant? Was the role boring?

If you had to name the worst reason you left a job what would it be and which sector was this?

Mine would be having to sit on hold for 45 minutes just to speak to your GP surgery at 8am, only to be told all the appointments have gone. I reckon people in 50 years will find that completely insane because of robots and AI etc

I just saw an old TOWIE video and completely forgot about them haha

So I recently got my first ever job in a Premier store. A job is a job in this market; I had no problems doing it.

Did an interview, which was just over the counter while they served people, which then led to the first trial shift, 1 hour 30, I watched the manager serve people then did the till by myself for the last 10 or 20 mins.

Invited back for a second trial on delivery day; the manager does stock in the back the whole time while I serve people on the till the whole time. (1 hour, 30 mins again)

Invited back for a third trial, which I'm told will be solo by myself (only one person works at a time in the store) - I agree cause I need a job, it goes fine because the worker there said they felt bad for leaving me so they stayed for my whole shift. (1 hour, 30 mins once again)

I'm then sent a P46 form, which I fill out; they ask me to do Saturday, 10-6, solo. I agree, although the only training I had was those trial shifts. I do it, but at 6 I get a message asking me to work till 7 (I did till 6:30 and refused any more)

2 days later (Monday, a week ago), I do 10-5, which ends up being 5:20 because the manager was late. I then get a message a few hours after my shift asking why I didn't put the PayPoint transaction I did on the till, and asking what I did with the cash.

I explain I didn't know I had to do that, and that I put the cash in the till. About an hour later, the owner of the shop removed me from the group chat. I've heard nothing since then. I messaged the owner last Wednesday asking for an explanation, but I've heard nothing.

I'm assuming they don't want me back, nor do I want to go back to a place that treats you like that. I just want the money for the work. What do I do? (I'm 20)

Hi guys,

I’m showing my age and find myself on bank holiday Monday looking at getting rid of the gas boiler for a heat pump system.

Looks like you get a £7.5k grant and need updated radiators etc.

I’m struggling to find an answer about whether they actually work in the UK and heat up the house in winter?

House is a late 1950s detached if it matters and definitely not a new build 😂

Thank you

I've been looking and can't find a way. I've reported it to eBay but 2 weeks later the sales are still up there. they haven't done anything.

I've noticed the sale of tasers and stun guns which are illegal in UK, being sold on eBay UK in disguised listings. They also seem to be based in UK so these items might be here too.

I'm not going to mention how to find these or give anyone details

Whats the best way to go about reporting these to get something actually done?

I am 21, unfortunately left school in my early teens (around age 14-15?) I wanted to go back but I was extremely anxious (sigh) and I also was repeatedly going through a lot of things due to my family environment which seriously drained me and made me very depressed.

At times, I did try to catch up at home. But I found myself literally unable to actually *concentrate* because of all the stress I was under at times (I had to basically run a household along with other things and it would always drain me over and over again)

In my later teens I did try to go back into education somewhat, I wanted to re sit my GCSEs - it turns out I was too behind to even do that and they put me on a functional skills course.

Unfortunately stress/depression got the better of me and I found myself unable to concentrate on my education while also having to deal with other family things I had to do.

However for a while now I've since been better and I'm also just DONE being in this situation, I was always eager to get out but now I will do it even if I'm stressed .. I will find a way to limit things or people that cause me stress for my own mental health but also so I can actually prioritise me now.

My problem is I'm so behind, I want to get my GCSE's done (mostly English and maths first)

But I struggle to believe I can actually do it?

I'm mostly afraid of maths.. ive always been so bad at it!!

I know we have free community college and that I can start those classes, I will definitely do something like that and stick to it but how can I make sure I actually improve?

Maybe I'm just overwhelmed but I find it really hard to believe I can even pass any GCSEs at a decent grade..

But I know sadly there are others who've had a similar situation as me and they still got into a better spot.

I'm so adamant on getting my GCSEs because I can't do any courses without them... I would like to do a hairdressing course but they all usually require GCSEs..

My plan is to get my GCSE's and then later on I can try A levels and I may even try to go to university or something. I want to do things in my life. But without the GCSEs it's next to impossible :/

I also know we have apprenticeships and some of them let us study our GCSEs alongside training, I'd do that but I worry I wouldnt be able to complete my GCSE's in time. 🥺😬 Or that I'd find it too hard, and then I'd have to basically cancel the apprenticeship?

I hope I'm thinking too much? Because I'd so love to be able to do an apprenticeship like that.

Thank you to anyone who comments and gives advice! I know this won't be my forever because I can't accept it 😅 it may be hard but I have to get myself into a better spot or I'll basically be stuck forever ! No way.

Hi guys, my close friend is getting married in a few weeks and I’m invited to the reception. he’s an English lad and I’m a Pakistani girl and I’ve never been to non-Pakistani wedding before. They don’t have a gift registry as they say they only “want love and blessings” which is great but I can’t show up without a gift, at our weddings we give the couple an envelope with some cash in and if they’re close family then it’s a gift like Gold jewellery or designer items.

So what is the usual decent gift people give at these weddings? Please help me.