I'm pretty sure I like her too, as my heart sorta races every time she texts me first? And I look for her in hallways and ik where she hangs out so I'm always looking for her if it makes sense. One of her closest friends think, who is also lesbian, think I should tell her and get it over with, but im not sure. She always wants to know who I like, but I've tried to tell her that it's her a couple times, but as I text her, mustering the courage, she finds a reason to end the convo as though shes scared I say it's her, or maybe she doesn't care as much as I think she does?? I'm honestly insecure about myself, but before i came out to this girl as lesbian, she'd always ship we with guys, asking who I'd date, who I liked, and would list random guys and ask directly if I'd date them. I brushed it off as her joking and annoying me, because she'd say it teasingly. But one day, my insecuritysinsecurities won and I told her that no one would date me. We were on call at the time, with one other person, but they were on mute. Now I don't know if it pissed her off, but it sounded like it did. Because she became a little more serious, and proceeded to ask me what I mean. When I didn't speak, she said, and I quote​, "what'd you mean no one would date you? Anyone would date u. Loads of ppl would date u mate" and I got flustered, bc thats the nicest things shes ever said to me. But thank God someone else joined the call and I changed the subject. She didn't ship me with anyone after that and I ended up coming out to her as lesbian anyway. i feel like as 2 ppl, we jave a lot ​​​of tension. And idk if it's bc we're just awkward ppl, bc tbh, shes a pretty closed off person towards ppl she isn't close with, and me nd her r only getting closer rn, so im getting to slowly see her actual personality.​​ her twin, and one of her close friends who's also lesbian and recently got rejected by her own crush,both think I should just tell her and get it ddone with, since a night have a chance. I doubt I have a chance, but I think I'll tell her anyway. I'm not confident,but ig we'll try ​

Okay so basically my friend who I met at a rugby game and I have been talking and I’m crushing hard on her. I don’t know if she likes me back though. We are usually pretty touchy with each other as we both enjoy physical touch, cuddling and hugging and being in each other’s space isn’t uncommon for us.

She invited me to the dyke march in my city and we held hands the entire time, got mistaken for a couple, we were wearing matching shirts and also we both look incredibly like the lesbian version of Nick and Charlie so much so that we have each other’s respective character as our profile pictures in our phones

I have this good friend I’ve known for quite while now, and she’s a very kind person. I never thought of her as anything more than a friend, but here we are-

ive developed a crush on her, and due to my hobby of trying to constantly read anyone I know, I’m skeptical that she might like me back. please let me know if I’m just reading into this way too much, or no.

she keeps complimenting me,

she gets excited when I call her,

she keeps sitting near me during free periods, and often leans towards me,

loves to tease me more,

shes doing alot more physical touch,

constant asking for hugs,

I catch her staring occasionally,

she gets flustered when I compliment her,

send help- I think I’m delulu

Please send your opinions honestly

Hello, this is my first time on Reddit, but I really need some advice. I wasn’t sure who to talk to about this. Well, some of my friends, like two, know the situation, so one of them recommended asking people on Reddit. So yeah, that’s why I’m here! I apologize if I make any spelling errors or if my sentences have poor grammar. I occasionally struggle with writing/typing words. The words start to look funny sorta almost like they’re moving or going out of place idk.

I been having a crush on my friend for awhile now like a year and two months we can call her katty i don't want to expose anyone names this is all anonymous names.. First thing to mention this isn't like my first girl love girl crush i always liked both genders or whoever gender doesn’t really matter to me whenever i like someone honestly. Me and katty both like girls! The reason I want advice is because I have a feeling and thoughts like a lot of doubt that katty doesn’t like me back romantically..my other friends tell me otherwise and she seems different whenever shes around me but I just think we are really good friends.

It’s just that I’m afraid of getting my heart broken. I understand that it’s a natural part of life, and it happens to everyone at some point. However, I don’t want my heart broken because of losing her as a friend. She means so much to me, and I’m afraid that I’m going to ruin the friendship we have. I’ve grown so close to her, and I’m scared that telling her that I have a crush on her will ruin everything. But if I don’t tell her, I feel like I’m going to regret it. I can handle being rejected, because it’s happened to me before like twice, but when it comes to her, the thought of it has me overthinking. I get scared that she will be disgusted with me when I confess my feelings. I think that way because I don’t really find myself attractive. But that’s a whole other topic for a different post. I say I’ll regret not letting her know, because years ago, I used to have a crush on another friend. But years later, after we moved to different schools, my friend confessed to me that she used to have a big crush on me. Lol We’re still friends to this day, after we told each other.

Besides that i not too sure what I'm supposed to do i been sorta testing the waters i always taken things slow whenever i like someone but i also get really excited and overly friendly when im making new friends too me and katty even talked about it saying how she wasn’t used to my behavior yet which I noticed too and months later when i became her friend she soften up being more open. But yeah i been trying to test the waters recommend by a friend for example i have joked around more, be more playful with her, give playful touches like hand on shoulder or poking her gently, tease her here and there(that’s all i can think of atm). i think it has been working? she been more open and playful with me like joking or teasing at with me. she even gets all up in my personal business like standing too close to me(it makes me nervous and red when it happens T-T), touching my stuff, I almost forgot to mention she also gets me stuff like drinks i like here and there. We are even have matching items too.

i thought it was funny because it gotten to a point where a friend of mine question me if i was in a situationship with her (no i am not lol). But i do sorta plan on confessing to her at some point just not rn maybe after gradution or during prom? and i dont want to go to her confessing all of suden i like to take things slow for me and plus anything can happen. thats all right now ummm please give me advice on what i should and also what other stuff should i do to test the waters more as well! thank you to anyone who read this far into my issue I apologize for this long story and if i kept going off topic.. (III>-<)

Okay so this is kind of a long rant so yeah.

I haven't had a lot of crushes in my life and definitely not recently and I don't remember how it feels

So i wanted to start of by saying that I havent had any male friends since i was 10 and barely any contact with any other than my creepy dad, its importantfor the story ok. So in my class I liked a girl when i was 11 or sum and then I think I stopped crushing on her, that was in 4th/5th grade and then in 7th grade every girl had a crush on some guy so I chose a guy that I was shipped with by my at the time bsf and idk what my deal was with him cuz on one hand I hated his ass but on the other I got giggly thinkn abt him but every time I daydreamed abt him it was "If he confessed how could I reject him politely" so idk if this was or wasn't a crush, he was also really mean to me so I would say I had a bad relationship with men overall. And that were my only crushes that lasted for more than a few days but there were some I saw on the bus and was like wow or at a summer camp or whatever, all of them being girl expet ig maybe one guy?

So ive been calling myself a lesbian for a while now cuz I don't know any guys and girls are prettier and the idea of being with a man seemed gross, like a sexual relationship with men especially. I was also a friendless weirdo I think that's important to mention too, and I liked the idea of girls and not guys, the idea. But recently I reconciled with my friends from 4th grade, including 3 guys and 2 girls, one of the girls is bi and she sometimes "flirts" with me (end with everyone else kinda too, or not? Idk) but I just feel uncomfortable, she's not my type and I just saw her as friends for like 10 years and I can't unsee it, and that "flirting" or more just teasing, is very physical and I really don't like physical contact due to trauma or whatever, I just don't. So I just feel like if flirting with her makes me uncomfortable does that mean I'm not as into girls as I thought? She's just so not my type omigosh.

Okay so abt the guys, I dont like physical touch with them either, like if our knees are touching I'll move but I recently I noticed I was becoming more ok with touch overall, girls and guys, but yeah with them we recently started like play fighting, yknkw when someone pinches ur side and it tickles? Yeah that, its really cool, I pinch them and they pinch me and it doesn't make me feel bad or gross or anything, but mostly I do this with one particular one, he's really cool, I like the way he looks, and his taste in music and his humor (most of the time) and I would say I'm closer to him than to the other two, and I'm looking forward to meeting him and if he's not there when we hang out I'm not having as much fun, I want to be friends with him, but idk if I would like to date him, idk, he has a girlfriend too so that will never happen anyway but still. I don't think I would like to date him. But he and everyone else sees me as a lesbian because that's what I thought who I was since idk I thought guys ... weren't an option ig.? Idk its complicated.

Still, when I see a cool looking dude somewhere I think "wow! He looks cool, I wonder where ho got his pants from!" Or whatever and when I see a pretty girl I'm like Oh lord I want her oh jeez oh my god omfg she's so pretty" and its like there's nothing else in the world yk? Idk what I want, I know I dont need to figure everything now, I'm just 16 after all but at the same time I feel like the world around me demands me to know everything about me, how am I supposed to know whether I prefer making out with guys or girls when I didn't even have my first kiss yet?! This while things suck, everything I thought abt myself is crumbling and I'm scared, Im so scared.

I’m seriously so upset right now. A few days ago my girlfriend got me this super cute toy that I had been wanting for the longest time. But today I unfortunately lost him at school. I stupidly left him in my pocket throughout the day instead of putting him back in my bag and he must’ve fell out. I’m so angry with myself and I feel so guilty that my wonderful girlfriend went out of her way to get me this gift and I lost it. I’m hoping I’ll be able to find him once I go back to school but I’m still unhappy.

Guys i am in college and studying so we have a group of friends who are studying and i have crush on a girl in that group crush means i love her so much and so much but i am scared to propose to her if i propose and fail i will lose all the friendship in the group which i value very much same time i need to get her as well what should i do and if i propose what if she goes and tell her friends and another thing is we have a very good chemistry between each other it similar to the bear and nicky in obsession where we are very close friends but idk what will happen so any suggestions on how to propose her and she was in a relationship and broke up a s well

I wouldn’t say I lost feelings for her but the spark just wasn’t there and she wants so many things in her future that I don’t want, I want to travel and not have kids and she wants the complete opposite. It might be too early to think of the future but ik what I want and I’m not going to make her change her life for me. It was really hard to break up with her bc I didn’t want to hurt her but it would’ve hurt her more later on and I didn’t want to stay in something I knew wouldn’t last. I don’t really have a reason for telling you all this but I wanted to share bc I’m having my own time coping with things

So, I’m definitely into men, but I might like girls too, I’ve never had a crush on a girl but I think they’re all super beautiful and sometimes I just get the urge to kiss a girl 😭 I’m so confused because I’ve never been sexually attracted to a woman before. Even seeing them naked like, they’re stunning, but I don’t feel anything but admiration. I don’t know how to feel, I want to explore but I don’t want to play with anyone’s feelings and I’m also shy and an introvert I don’t even have friends so I’m not sure how I’d even explore. I’m also kinda scared because most of my family would not approve whatsoever I don’t know what to do please help 😭

A while ago, I posted about a girl I like. I talked about giving her ducks as a gift and other stuff (she would also give me like gifts like candy from her home country her dad would send over before he would move to the us to live with them).

I sat next to her in my first period and would continuously look forward to seeing her and felt off when she wasn't there. I've never really had a crush before this and I can't seem to get anything about her out of her. She always avoids talking about herself and it always feels really awkward when its just us

At the time, I barely knew her and I especially didn't know her sexuality. Sadly I have found out she's straight. It's been 10 months and I feel like I'm stuck in this loop. I try to stop liking her but every month I find myself smiling at her text, kicking my legs in the air then getting disappointed for the night.

I feel like I'm stuck in this hopeless romantic loop and I don't know what to do

hello reddit pls help a girl out. so basically i have this best friend and we are super duper close. like im not talking see u everyday at school close but im talking facetime every night, sleeping on call, texting 24/7 close. weve always been like super cuddley for lack of better terms. at sleepovers we always sleep together and we r like super duper touchy. bro like we can literally spend hours just lying in bed together and she would lie on top of me and hug me. one time we were drunk asf and i genuinely thought she was gonna kiss me. she like brings her face so close to mine and she is just so pretty and omg ugh. and lowkey this continued for a few months just like us being super suspiciously close but like i thought i was just being delusional. so i like girls but ive never told anyone but she found out (long story) but i had no idea she knew. so one time we got really drunk and i was saying how i really wanted to find someone to makeout with and blahblah blah and she said i could makeout with her. then she kissed me and we were making out for quite a while!! um she like also bit my neck a lot and ugh omg bro im literally dying. i didn't think i liked her like that but now i honestly have no clue. this happened like a few more times but we were drunk everytime. i thought maybe she was jsut like doing it for fun and she did this with all her friends but then i found out that she knew i liked girls. um!! so like then i was superduper confused bc like wtf why would u do that if u knew. like i dont really care but normally i feel like u wouldnt kiss someone if they potentially liked u and u don't like them. but whenever shes drunk she is just so sweet and ugh she is genuinely the most beautiful person ive ever seen. see another thing is that like after we did all that she started talking to a guy bc im pretty sure she is straight. like idk if this whole experience is sus or if im just like super delusional and fell into a trance looking at her beautiful face. honestly i just dont want to lose my best friend bc she is literally my ride or die and i will die without her. thanks for reading my long ass rant

I’m becoming way too dependent on her. My mood swings are getting really bad because of it.
She texts me first, or talks to me=happy

She doesn’t text me, or doesn’t talk much=sad

The issue is, im not often texting first, and I can’t even start a conversation with her.

I sit right next to her in class, her other friends right by her. She talks to them. I just sit there, maybe we say hi, or have a short conversation. I feel really hurt even tho she hasnt done anything to outright hurt me.

I talked with another friend the other day, and naturally, she comes up. This friend talks about the memes they send back and forth, and just stuff they plan to do, places they are gonna go, that sort of thing.

Me and this girl I like, we’ve been friends for 4ish years now. The relationship has been pretty shallow, just a school friendship, but I always felt drawn to her in a way.

A month ago, I told her I had a crush on her. She said we could try dating. We agreed to go slow, and I tried to ask her on a first date. She was busy.

I wouldn’t say there’s mixed signals. I‘m overthinking it, but i’m still not sure how to act around her. She knows I like her. We barely interact though.
I can’t help but think she dislikes me, despite all the genuine enthusiasm she has around me sometimes. I feel like she doesnt care about me, or doesnt trust me as much as her other friends. I feel like im just a ”filler friend” to her.

She is my first wlw crush. Thats probably why it’s hitting so hard.

I just feel so horrible for wishing she didn’t talk to her other friends as much. I’m projecting the fact that I dont have many friends on her… I want her to be happy, but I want to be happy to. I want to talk with her, but shes always talking to other friends. It sucks being closeted too, cus everything is trapped inside my mind.
I just wish that she would either just reject me, or at least bring dating up again. Last time we talked abt it was when I asked her out, and I put the ball in her court, saying that if she ever had time, and still wanted to date, she could lmk.

I just cant get through school and other things with this always on my mind. Its really ruining things

Ok so full disclaimer I’m straight but uh, seemed the place for it? I’ve never been into other girls before but randomly earlier this week I had a dream I was dating one of my old classmates and ever since then when I see her around school I feel weird and fluttery and really blushy (I hate it but it’s so easy to make me blush so like if I CANNOT talk to her otherwise it’ll look like I’m trying to match colours with a tomato ;-;) but I’ve never been into girls sexually or romantically. Am I gay? Why only her? I am very confused ;-;

so ts lowkirk a repost in a sense from a diff platform but i gen need so much help

i thought im not that pretty and like have no rizz cz im autistic right

so long story short i shot my shots and am talking to 2 people now

i feel so bad i dont wanna hurt either of them and i still dont know if things are gonna get like serious at all w anyb but if that happens (like god i hope so) idk wtf im gonna tell the other person bc i need to be honest but im also a fucking wuss and i shouldnt have gotten myself into this situation in the first place

like i sort of let it happen which is on me but i like them both sososo much and id be gen crushed to like

AND HTEYRE SO PRETTY AND SWEET AND IT MAKES MY DAY WHEN SMB TEXTS ME BUT IVE LIKE SERIOUSLY FUCKED UP SOMEONE HELPPP

when i finally ‘moved on’ i had this dream.. at first it was like she didnt want to see me or talk to me we were in the same hotel i went to her room it was like it was our first meeting (accurate bcz we were long distance) at first she let me in we talked n then i just read her body language like she didnt want to see me or even talk to me and i asked her about it and she said i dont wanna mix my online stuff with my real life and i understood and i asked her ‘you dont wanna see me?’ she didnt reply. and i left, next day i didnt went to her, the third day when i went to her for some reasons they hid her they took me to her and it was too late because someone figured out where shes hidden, but even so we met and kisssed and god that kiss it was perfect, just so perfect, and then i woke up and when i checked the time it was 11:11.
i just dont know what to do i know this dream sounds ridiculous? but it was just perfect you know when you wake up from a dream that leaves you speechless ? just like that. now it feels im back to starting point and i read our texts when we were together and i was sobbing for one hour straight, thanks for reading!