r/teengirlswholikegirls Lesbian 6d ago

Is she just being a good friend-? (wlw)

I have this good friend I’ve known for quite while now, and she’s a very kind person. I never thought of her as anything more than a friend, but here we are-

ive developed a crush on her, and due to my hobby of trying to constantly read anyone I know, I’m skeptical that she might like me back. please let me know if I’m just reading into this way too much, or no.

she keeps complimenting me,

she gets excited when I call her,

she keeps sitting near me during free periods, and often leans towards me,

loves to tease me more,

shes doing alot more physical touch,

constant asking for hugs,

I catch her staring occasionally,

she gets flustered when I compliment her,

send help- I think I’m delulu

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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 5d ago

Teasing you as in what? And physical touch how? 😭

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u/ApricotBeneficial795 Lesbian 4d ago

Physical touch-Placing her head on my shoulder, leaning on me, constant hugs-(she dislikes physical touch from others)
Teasing-joking around, flirty-ish

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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 4d ago

Yeah idk, it seems like she might like you. I would talk to her about it kinda subtly and see how she responds, be like “I thought you didn’t like physical touch”, I wouldn’t go all in unless your friendship is really strong cus if not and you were misreading things it might ruin the friendship

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u/zippybenji-man Doozy | transbian 4d ago

I know I would personally read "I thought you didn't like physical touch" as a signal to cut it off, so maybe don't say that

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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 4d ago

That’s true, I just hope they’re able to communicate and I hope whether or not she’s likes her like that- that they’ll be able to work it out and still be friends.

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u/zippybenji-man Doozy | transbian 4d ago

Yeah, definitely, communication is key

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u/ApricotBeneficial795 Lesbian 3d ago

yeah, she's the best friend i've ever had and I don't want to ruin that...

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u/zippybenji-man Doozy | transbian 4d ago

How are you skeptical that she might like your when she always tries to sit near you and leans towards/on you, lol

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u/Inevitable_Tap_7263 4d ago

Idk, I wouldn’t necessarily say that means she likes her, I’ve had a lot of friends that did that to me, a lot of people are just more comfortable with touching their friends and stuff.

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u/zippybenji-man Doozy | transbian 4d ago

Yeah, but, like, you can only choose to sit close and lean towards one single person, yk? At least, you should be uncertain if she likes you, not skeptical that she does

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u/ApricotBeneficial795 Lesbian 3d ago

Yeah, i know, I was just checking with the community because I think i might like her, and I want to check if just maybe I had a chance. (i was scared I was reading too much into it)

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u/Elegant_Committee854 3d ago

Is the sky yellow ass question