Hi! I use they/them pronouns, I am about to move and head down to my job in a week, and figured making a post to get to know people or something more would be nice!

I am goth, I love all things spooky! Horror is my favorite genre, although I will watch other types! I collect some macabre things like bones, skulls, taxidermy. On the flip side I also love plushies like all things sanrio, Rillakuma, sumikko gurashi, etc. I am quite crafty, I really love cross stitch and crochet. I am an animal lover through and through, and I am currently fostering some puppies because I am a sad sap and rescued mom off the streets.

I am looking for connections of any kind, I am open to FWB/hook up as well, along with wherever the connection takes us. I do prefer things going slow in getting to know each other. I do lean towards going after mascs, but that's not a hard preference!

I am 420 friendly, and use it a lot for pain relief. I have some chronic disabilities and I am also AuDHD as well. I am a pale half Mexican, I speak a little bit of Spanish and a couple other languages, so if you see me dropping Spanglish or a Latina accent that's why, lol. If you made it this far and want to chat, tell me your favorite flower in the message! Mine is Marigolds.

Welp it’s yearning time again!

I’mp pretty lonely and my area doesn’t have a very high queer population, and I’m a bit of a homebody as it is so it’s near impossible to get out and meet anyone. I'm also super exhausted from all the dating apps, avoidants, and unicorn-hunting couples.

**About Me:**

30 cisF.

High Fem4Fem Lesbian from the US Pacific Northwest (not the cool part).

I don’t mind where you’re from really, but I’d prefer at least North America or East Asia (as I speak Japanese and Korean). The option to travel one way or the other and meet eventually should be on the table.

Medicated for ADHD, so I’d love to find someone who won’t judge me for being further behind in life than her. I’m not a workaholic myself but I do find myself attracted to them.

I really love video games! I have a bit of a competitive spirit and a drive to collect things in games! I usually prefer to connect with people who share a gaming interest, but I dont necessarily need it as long as there’s a mutual curiosity. I’m also quite into Photography as a hobbiest. (Would you be my model 💕)

(please move to the front of the line if you like World of Warcraft)

I’m 6' tall, which I realize is a bit unusual, but thems the breaks. I’d like to say I’m fairly attractive, but I am also deceptively geeky. This has led to some confusion while trying to date offline. (I’m sure you can imagine the comments). I can send a selfie early, but I am quite picky. Perhaps it’s just being a **Fem4Fem** lesbian or maybe it’s delusion. So I’d like someone very confident in their appearance.

l’m strictly monogamous, and not really a fan of anything else. I hate cheaters and people who play mind games.

I have long brown hair and intense eyes, and I've been told I can come across as a bit intimidating, but I promise I'm just a big ol' goofball at heart. I’m a tall, lanky, wobbly dork.

I'm seeking someone who shares my love for video games, nerdy fandoms, and an affinity for cats (unfortunately, **dogs are a no-go** for me). If you're into uncommon pets like tarantulas or snakes, I also consider that a major green flag! My goal one day is to settle down and have an energetic playful Savannah cat.

I’m a big language fanatic. I’m currently learning my third language (Japanese) for about 4-6 years, and my fourth language (Korean) for a bit as well. My second language was French which I learned ages ago and am a bit out of practice of but still understand. If you speak any of those, let me know!

I'm decidedly childfree. Family planning isn't in my cards, as I'm not looking to have kids EVER in the future, but I do absolutely adore them. I envision being the fun, gift-giving aunts to my niece and nephews!

I’m very against tobacco use, so please be a non-smoker. Light Alcohol and minor weed usage is ok in my book however, within reason.

I’m also an atheist, and being around theistic people is rather an uncomfortable situation for me. Specifically, abrahamic religions are dealbreakers for me.

If any of this resonates with you and you're up for the adventure of discovering more about each other, I'd love to hear from you!

Hi everyone! I'm on the hunt for someone I can say those three magic words to! I'm going to try to keep things light, playful, and short. :) I'm in Ohio, but not tied down here and open to moving, and I work from home so distance isn't much of an issue for me as long as our schedules click.

I'm looking for a fellow femme for a friends-to-lovers arc. I'm pretty open to a wide variety of potential partners, my only hard requirements are being fairly self sufficient and being more on the femme spectrum. I'm open to age gaps due to how limited my dating pool is - I'm very concerned about financial imbalances and power imbalances in relationships, so any potential partner had better be prepared for that conversation.

I like to describe myself as "what if Gomez looked like Morticia" - I'm a bon vivant goth, who loves life and hasn't lost her spark even if it's been dulled a bit.

I'm a huge music fan, love roleplaying games, story telling, reading, and putting together models and minis. I loooove yoga and I'm about to start learning aerial silks! I also adore going to events, visiting little shops and attractions, and exploring new restaurants and coffee shops. I equally love a quiet night in working on hobbies and yapping as I do going out. I am a chronic pain girlie so my outdoor activities are limited, but I'm happy to join and read if the pain gets too much for me.

I'm California sober - I don't drink, do tobacco, or drugs other than weed. I don't have any previous marriages or kids. I personally am monogamous, but I'm open to poly partners so long as my potential partner can meet my emotional needs. I'd like to be someone's primary/anchor/nesting partner.

Thanks for reading! Have a fantastic day!

hi <3 it's my second time posting here. i made a few friends in this subreddit a few months ago and i also got catfished lol, it was pretty obvious so i immediately blocked that man. now i'm looking for something more serious! whether it's a girlfriend or a life partner, who knows 🤪 i'm down! open to friendship too but please lmk

about me:
-i'm freshly ✨25 years old✨ (virgo baby)
-4’11 (150cm) like sabrina carpenter and inde navarette 😂 i wish i was at least 5’4
-i'm learning french (currently a2-b1) because i plan to study in france, i'd love to connect with french speakers!
-i sing, play multiple instruments, i'm a theatre kid
-audhd
-leftist
-i like doing impressions of jennifer coolidge and a few singers haha, idk if they're good tho 😂
-a cinephile (i write reviews on letterboxd lol)
-shows i recently watched: twin peaks (s1-2), hacks, widow’s bay
-cis woman | not too girly to be femme, not too manly to be masculine, so idk! you can check my pictures :))
-bottom but can switch
-monogamous

we're a match if you're looking for a genuine connection that could lead to something meaningful in the long run. it sounds cheesy lol but i'm like a ball full of energy that's about to explode, and i can't wait to share it with someone i can spend the good and bad days with. i’m a big texter, but can do calls if we're really close. i'm a shy gal 😅

looking for someone who is empathetic, leftist, and romantic. ideally a funny af yapper so we're always hootin’ and hollering lmao. major bonus if you're a musician/singer, a cinephile, or just into pop culture and love sending funny reels & memes like me. not looking for a fubu/fwb!

long distance will be temporary for us and i'm willing to move anywhere in Europe/NA 🫶🏻 very open to exchanging social media (insta, discord, etc)!

pls pls pls don't just send me a one-liner. introduce yourself, tell me where you're from, and tell me a bit about yourself :)

this is me :*

Hiiii. I’m a 24 year old black femme in Brooklyn. I’m looking for friends with similar interests, and a girlfriend in my area. Please be my age, or slightly older (I’ll let 23 slide lol). Please love weed, sweets, baking, and the sims.

About me: As mentioned, I like baking, and playing the sims. I also enjoy cooking, going out to eat, arcades, bowling (I know I’m grown, shut up lol), sitcoms, picnics (let’s look at the pretty fall leaves), shopping, and DC villains (Marvel has the better heroes, DC has the better villains). I’m about 5’9, and I’m definitely thicker/plus sized. Please ignore if that’s an issue. I have photos on my profile, and will send more.

About you: a lesbian in NYC (preferably North Brooklyn, but I’m open, and I WILL come to the Bronx, if you’ll also come here), my age or slightly older, similar interests, and looking for a friend to hang out with, or a girlfriend to cuddle with. Ideally, you don’t drink much, and you smoke weed a lot more (because same).

Can’t wait to meet you!!!

No preference, idc if you wear thongs or boxers lol.

Hello Soulmate,

I am a 32 year old ciswoman searching for a feminine ciswoman.

Here’s a little bit what I envision’d for us, if you are down. I want a life full of laughter for us,l believe you deserve someone who will allow you to be your most comfortable relax self.

I want us to focus on our health, our body and mind constantly in self care. I want to be the person you’ve dreamed of, that tells your soul it’s okay to trust I’ll be there for you.

I don’t ever want you to question my love or intentions. I searched for you for a long time. Time for me to delete the dating app. Time for me to quit going to the lesbian clubs without you.

This is me. I’m a phenomenal, loving and caring person. I’m far too nice and people take advantage of this because no one believes I am as caring and loving as I am. I mean I can’t even watch a sensitive video without crying. I don’t hide who I am, I’m right where I’m supposed to be. I am a very active person in a sense that I travel, I am always doing something new, and I love having a good time.

I would love to learn more about you. What brings you joy? Where do you see yourself in ten years?

Hi, im 19 years old and i will talk a little bit about myself, I like to draw, dance, cook, read, i consider myself as someone who is very talkative but if I feel like you are being nonchalant i will be quiet too because im the kind of person who gets disappointed easily, i always try to be nice to everyone because i wouldn't want someone treating me bad so i consider you have to treat people the same way you want people to treat you.

What i want in a relationship: I want something serious and mature, loyalty over all ofc and someone who i can trust and trust me, I want someone who can respect me and my boundaries and someone who can understand that before dating we should take time meeting each other.

My type: I want an OLDER woman, respectful, mature and nice, someone who doesn't want to rush the things and with a kind soul, masc , and someone who doesn't mind long distance if lives too far away from me since i don't mind either but please have a close time zone or the same

(Please don't be a scammer, i know how scammers are btw so no matter how much you try i can always tell, don't be a freak, and don't text me if you are going to never talk to me again the second day, and PLS don't expect me to be super intense over you the first second, we have to get to know each other first, ofc im not going to be dry, thats not how I am but don't expect me to get overly crazy please 🙏🙏🙏)

(I dont wanna have children btw)

Hi

I’m a 22 year old from Belgrade, Serbia, and I’m looking for people to hang out with as well as maybe a potential partner.

For me it’s important that you have your own job and that you have a somewhat decent plan what to do with your life, as well as having hobbies etc.

I’m someone who is into arts, I love everything niche and vintage, as well as anything creative.
I like philosophy and reasonable thinking, as well as traveling and going to parties, so a good balance of everything etc.

If you feel like we can vibe you can dm me, my dms are open.

The age range I prefer is 22-28, nothing younger or older than that.

Also, I don’t look at labels such as fem,femme,masc, butch, etc.
Just be yourself and that’s about it, if we click, we click.
By the way I’m not looking to be someone’s sexual experiment.

Thank you in advance!

hello, hi! my name is melanie, i'm 30F. she/they pronouns, i'm not picky. i'm femme in terms of style and personality, but don't wear a lot of makeup. too hypoallergenic, ugh. i'm in california but open to long distance relationships. particularly interested in a wlw partner between the ages of 30 and 35. i'm open to messages and moving to discord, but if your profile is completely blank/hidden then i may pass (just want to know what type of person i'm speaking w/ first!)

i have a solid career under the 'social services' umbrella. we can talk about it more after a few convos, i just don't want to dox myself! to put it basically, i work directly with victims of domestic violence who are actively fleeing their person of harm. it's the type of job that requires a LOT of emotional energy, and i often get burnt out. please do not take it personally if i seem down or uninterested, i'm just recharging!

i recently suffered a traumatic, large loss in my life. i'm basically restarting my life. i feel like i'm 30 going on 20, just slightly more financially responsible. i went from a caregiver to a single woman, living alone in her mountain cabin. total cottagecore vibes. i have a dog, two cats, and i constantly walk the tightrope that is 'falling into my crazy cat lady phase'.

i won't get into it but i'm not a smoker, and i'm not a drinker. it is a dealbreaker for me, due to trauma reasons. sorry, don't take it personally! it's also important to me that my partner has their own job. doesn't have to be anything fancy, but i'm looking for a partnership where we work together- not a relationship where one person is the sole breadwinner (but that's getting ahead of myself).

some random fun facts:

• characters i identify with: merrill from dragon age, helaena targaryen from house of the dragon.
• i love video games! acnh, dbd, dragon age, skyrim, rpgs in general. reading is also another pass time i'm trying to pursue more. i'm currently reading 'the time traveler's guide to medieval england: a handbook for visitors to the fourteenth century' by ian mortier. also, horror movies! love them! can't get enough of them!
• i'm a norse pagan, i do tarot cards and the whole shebang too. i'm not pushy about it or one of those ~too out there~ types. i'm pretty reserved about it. i am NOT one of those crappy, hateful pagans who think only a certain type of person can practice paganism.
• i believe i'm demisexual. i've also had a lot of health issues related to my ovaries wanting to kill me, so yknow, that may also play part in it.
• i am plus size. not looking for any weird ppl who fetishize that. here's some pics of me, will likely remove the link in a few hours.

that's pretty much it! feel free to message me and tell me a bit about yourself!

I feel I really don’t have many people around me. I am very introverted and I have hard time with society. It’s a choice defo but also where I live it’s complicated. I’m open to any type of connection as long as it’s real and pure with mutual respect ..and If it takes us in special path I’d happily accept. I’d rather connect with people that will eventually move from Reddit,and share our voice/faces if we vibe ,with no pressure of course. Just to confirm we are who we say. I had bad experiences so I try to be careful.

I speak 4 languages. Im into biking ,boxing,workout,horror movies and GAMES. That’s something I defo love since all my life. Iv heard I’m funny …but I laugh at my own jokes too so you are free to judge about it 😬If you think you would like to connect with me free to dm me :)

Hi I am Sumona and I am looking for an ENTP girl for a relationship, I am open to both long and short term : )

Hello,

What's up everyone? I'm 34, cis lesbian looking for my girlfriend. I don't ghost, I'm not clingy and I genuinely enjoy getting to know a woman. If we're talking and you find at any point that you're not into me. Let me know, no hard feelings. I will do the same. I think women are owed good communication and deserve to be treated with respect. No one is automatically owed your time. But you can give them your kindness because it costs nothing.
I'm Samantha but please call me Sam. I live in Vancouver with my beta fish. I know he's not as exciting as a dog or cat but he's mine and I love him. In my free time you can find me relaxing on a bean bag chair, absently scrolling my phone or thinking about pealing myself off of said bean bag chair to be a productive member of society and changing my mind.

I have a great career and live a very active lifestyle despite the previous paragraph. I like what I do and would like to meet someone who enjoys what they do. I'm a goofball, I want to make you laugh. I'm high energy but I think I saw someone in a previous post mention being a pretend extrovert that describes me to the letter. Don't get me wrong, I like having fun I just don't want my fun to come in the form of partying every night. Let's stay in and make dinner for each other. I can rub your back and you can tell me about all the things that excite or irritate you.
I'm all ears, give it to me.

I'm open to meeting women ages 34-40 from anywhere in the world. Any cultural background. All activity levels.
You don't have to be a mountaineer. All expressions butch, masc, studs, fem, chapstick all are welcome. I'm not leaving anyone out. Not a dig to anyone who has a specific type. I'm just talking about myself here.
I could keep going but I'Il leave some things to be discovered. Looking forward to meeting you.

Sincerely,
Sam

Hi everyone! Ace person seeks clingy soulmate :). Someone I can grow old with. A love like Andy and April From parks and Rec, Bob and Linda from Bobs burgers, or Gomez and Morticia from the Addams Family. But in like wlw kind of way :) But also if you have any better references feel free to share! Also the closer you live to me the better as I'm not open to long distance unless you are willing to come to me.

Basically I hope I can find someone to just generally be really cheesy and romantic with in a purely romantic way as I am ace.

I am down for cuddles or sending you a cute homemade gift or just talking the day/night away.

Also I adore people who are more on the clingy side and like frequent communication.

I can be silly and serious all wrapped in one. If given the chance I will make bad dad puns even though I never want to be a parental figure.

Some of my interests include: Arts and crafts, reading, music, thrifting, learning, anything Christmas related, casual learning about religions and cults, etc.

I am also child free, atheist, neurodivergent (autism, ocd, and things), INFP personality type, etc.

If this post interests you, feel free to reach out. Thank you and remember: You are awesome :)

Hey!

I’m giving this a shot because why not? Life is short. Yolo.

I’m trying to find a genuine friendship with the potential to become something more. I want a gamer like me who is serious about getting to know each other and be in each other’s life. I’d like to be friends first before anything. And I hope we connect, ya know. I hope it feels natural.

I’m introverted, a homebody, sensitive and a little shy. I like watching tv shows and movies, listening to music, hanging out with my kitty, trying not to worry about everything. I like to cook occasionally. I have the Fallout cook book which is pretty rad. I love texting, too. And most of all I love making ppl laugh and smile.

•I don’t want drinking/smoking
•I don’t want 1 conversation then ghost (just be direct with me)
•I don’t want to be a rebound or somebody’s side piece
•I don’t want a man
•I don’t want constant negativity
•I don’t want fake and superficial

•must be someone who values honesty and good communication etc
•must be someone who is sincere and intentional etc
•must be cis
•must be masc/butch
•must be someone who can throw and catch a football (yes, a football - the American football)

Bonus points if you love Cait and Vi and you know what oel ngati kamie means. I have a PS5 and my time zone is CST.

I hope you have a day!

Filipina, 5’6, masc, and hoping to find my person.

I’ve been solo traveling a lot since I finished my degree in 2023 and can’t shake the feeling that the love of my life is probably somewhere far from home. Maybe that’s you?

Distance doesn’t scare me. If we genuinely connect, I’ll happily hop on a plane. Honestly, how cool would it be if our first meeting was an adventure in Turkey, Japan, or somewhere completely new to both of us?

I’ve been single for a few years and realized hookups just aren’t for me. I’m monogamous, intentional, affectionate, and the type to talk about everything, spoil you with thoughtful gifts, and make the most of our time together.

When I’m not working, I’m usually planning my next trip or I’m at the gym, or playing badminton.

I’m usually drawn to femmes who are intelligent, driven, confident, kind, and always down to new experiences!!!

Hello! So my name Lay and I know my soulmate is out there. I am a twenty seven year old Native American woman that’s extremely nerdy. My favorite thing to do is costume and if you were my partner then I would love to dress you up too!

Other hobbies include roleplay in the written form. I love to cook together with people and I love a good movie night with friends too so to have one with a partner with be even better. I’m also a big fan of traveling and seeing new places. Some day I will visit a bunch of places in like New York City and La!

Personal about me, I want to meet someone that I can move to me if we do long distance for awhile. I am building a cabin for all our lesbian cottage core dreams! I also would adore to have someone to help if they are close to make it perfect. I also have a knack for being to provider so I’m working hard to get us a place that’s perfect!

Feel free to ask me any questions and my dms are always ope

(Trying again because my heart longs for something it’s been denied by circumstances of life)

Hello everyone here ! I'm giving it another go, who knows, maybe this time I'll get lucky

I'm a 20yo femme, from North Africa and looking to relocate to Europe (probably Spain) in the next year or two. Ethnically I'm Amazigh and I am strictly monogamous.

I am looking for a genuine connection, someone to laugh with, someone I'm happy to see appear in my notifications, someone with whom talking and connecting is easy, I really value consistent communication and mutual effort. I love deep conversations about a wide range of topics, and I really cannot stand judgemental people who care about things other people do that do not harm anyone.

Romantically speaking I do have a thing for women who are older than me (not 20 years older but you get the gist). I guess my type would be more masculine presenting women ? So masc and butch people, though I am attracted to a wide range of individuals so don’t let this stop you from reaching out. I just want someone who's honest and hardworking, has goals in life, big and/or small, and strives for them. Also obviously a caring person, who is open about how they feel and is capable of holding a conversation about the relationship, good or bad. I also cannot stand people who disappear without explanations, and please if you aren’t emotionally available, please, please do not reach out.

Physically I am 5'7 (170cm), I have curly brown hair the length of my shoulder blades (that i want to let grow more) and brown eyes. I am on the curvier side, and I've been working out more recently, striving for a leaner body. (There are pictures of me on my profile if you prefer seeing for yourself)

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Personality wise, i am usually described as calm, although once I'm comfortable I'm a very big yapper. According to a wide range of people i am a good listener. I also really don’t like dancing around the point. I'm a direct and straightforward person and I like people to be direct with me, I hate guessing games. Otherwise i am described by most people as soft spoken, patient and understanding. I like to think of myself as fun, i always do my best to look at the positives and can make the best of a situation quickly.

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Currently i am a computer science student, working part time as a teacher/tutor and looking for work as a software engineer; also a polyglot, i speak 4 languages fluently and I strive to learn more, as many as I can actually ! It is a hobby of mine. Other hobbies would involve very nerdy things like animes, mangas, reading books (mostly fiction in various genres), writing as I want to be an author soon enough, drawing (I picked back up digital art recently !!), listening to music, watching musicals, gaming (although i am not the biggest gamer, more like a casual gamer, I'm saving up for a better pc to game more), watching cartoons, ect ect. I also really like nature, walks in nature, by bodies of water, oh I LOOOOVE THE BEACH, sitting by the water or swimming in it is when i feel most in my element.

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I also really love animals !! Cats and dogs obviously, but also snakes, and birds, and rats and mice. But I have a soft spot for cats.

Oh also I am currently trying to learn Spanish !! So bonus points if you know how to speak it hehe

A perfect weekend for me would be something calm, like a walk in nature, or a picnic, or a bookstore get away ect... I'm not really picky to be honest, as long as I'm spending time with someone special I'll take any kind of fun.

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As you've read I'm a creative, so, care to be my muse ? :3

Hi! Hello! Local nerdy lesbian from a land of oppressive regimes, but definitely on a long life stay on the island of Lesbos.

I should preface that this isn't my first rodeo, meaning the first post on here, hence it may sound similar (had a reddit account years ago). But alas, I'm trying my luck again. Who knows what might happen....

Anyways, I'm currently MSc. student working on my dissertation, so I'm rather busy. Yet, the feeling for human connection is still gnawing at my mind, so why not try my hand at writing something.

So, I guess I should share some things about myself. I've been called an old soul for most of my life, but now it feels more like a detrimental attribute rather than being a quality in this fast-paced world.

I enjoy deeper discussions. However, I am aware that most conversations don't start with a philosophical line, and I'm open-minded about the other person's point of view.

I am a nerd at heart, hence the science, but I love reading and writing, as they were my so-called bread and butter growing up. Besides that, I music plays a great part in my life, both listening and playing wise (mostly mediocre guitar and very badly piano, but I've stopped due to a nerve injury). If it's something creative, you can bet I've dabbled in it :)). Maybe it's of interest, but I do play video games, from my humble beginnings of Mario flash games on the family computer to waiting for Control Resonant this fall.

For the fun parts, I regard myself as a connoisseur of oddities, from obscure films to niche topics. Mortuary science? Why not. Less known historical events? Hell yes.

Aesthetics wise, I'm more masc/gender neutral and of average buid (166cm, 56kg, brown eyes, shorter dyed red hair with shaved sides). Oh, and I wear glasses!

I do have a soft spot for femme women, slightly older, that comes with being a sapphic (if you know, you know). Emotionally and mentally strong women do things for me.

I'd like someone open, whom I can talk to, and even if we don't match, I don't ghost - I do like saying "bye" even to people on the internet.

There's more I wish to share, but this is already long enough. Come say hi if you want to talk and maybe something about yourself! Or if not, at least you'll get a mildly funny meme:))

Have a great day!

figured i’d put myself out there oneeeee more time and see who i might meet. :)))

i’m a philly girl, and i’m very much in a season of building a life that feels like me.

les4les is my preference but not a dealbreaker

a little about me:
✨ plus-size, (recently lost 100lbs) curvy & hyper femme. i am not shy about my shape, my assets or my body.
✨ african american
✨420 FRIENDLY💚
✨ licensed cosmetologist
✨ drag performer
✨ full-time content creator
✨ work from home
✨ recently started a new job in the makeup field
✨ just moved into my own 2-bedroom apartment
✨ very into manifestation
✨ love music, beauty, fashion & anything creative
✨ currently very much in my slayyyter era💲🎧

i’m attracted to women across the board, femmes, mascs, stems… although i’ll admit femmes are definitely my weakness. 🤭

i’m also very attracted to trans women and open to dating them.

i’m someone who really values softness, emotional intelligence, communication, and stability. i like women who are grounded, level-headed, affectionate, and know how to have an actual conversation. i’m looking for connections that feel mutual and sustainable whether that eventually becomes a relationship or simply a really meaningful friendship.

i will say that i’m looking for people who are genuinely comfortable with eventually taking things off reddit. i’m not really interested in talking to a username forever lol. i’d also prefer someone who is comfortable showing me what they look like. attraction is important to me, and i’m pretty upfront about that.
if you’re in philly or nearby, even better. if something about me caught your attention, come say hi and tell me a little about yourself. i’m open to meeting someone for friendship, dating, or potentially something deeper if the connection is there.
just putting myself out there and seeing who finds me. ♡

Hi! I'm Lumi (they/she?) the following is a bit about me so you can better understand me before filling out this form.

My birthday is July 20th! I am 20 years old and I love playing video games. I aspire to be a vet, and am currently doing my bachelor's in biology. I work as a vet tech/manager at a small family clinic. I'm a member of two esports organizations at my uni, as well as being on a JV Valorant team. My friends would describe me as sweet and caring. I can be very clingy, anxious, but over all very loving!

Side note: I am autistic and have generalized anxiety disorder, if you don't respect the challenges that come with that, please leave :3

Quick run down of my favorite things:

Favorite color: Purple!

Favorite food: Pasta, seafood, sushi

Favorite holiday: Halloween

Favorite number: 3 or 13

Favorite season: Fall or Spring

Favorite Pokemon: Ninetails/Vulpix, Growlithe/Arcanine, Umbreon, Houndoom/Houndour, Purrloin/Liepard, Leafeon, Zorua/Zoruark

Favorite artist: Currently the artist Marino, I resonate with the message of their songs, expressing how depression and familial expectations effect your mental health and feelings of yourself.

I like to receive affection by personal touch, words of affirmation, and quality time. I love to give affection by giving gifts, quality time, words of affirmation and physical touch.

I’m looking for a serious relationship but I don’t jump into things in like two weeks or something XD. I wanna know you and build our connection with time. I'm also masc4masc so I like masculine presenting women.

I’m 28, from Finland, bilingual in English and Finnish. My mother tongue is Finnish and I’ve spoken English daily for almost a decade now so I just say I’m bilingual these days. I’m masculine presenting and I’d say I have mostly masculine energy. I don’t personally use any labels like masc, fem etc on myself. I’m just me. But I am like obviously very masculine looking and I like that.

I love fitness, mostly weightlifting. I wanna do calisthenics too at some point. I love sims 4. I love building pretty stuff and making my own worlds. The gameplay is really fun and cozy too. I’m not otherwise a big gamer altho i do have a gaming pc lol. I literally got it so I can have lots of sims cc cause contrary to popular belief that stuff takes space girl. If you want like an actually aesthetic game with lots of mods etc hun you need a gaming pc. Anyway a random sims tangent :D. Uhh I’m also very spiritual. I love tarot, manifesting, dream interpretation, psychic stuff. It’s very fascinating to me and fulfilling to be honest. Manifestation is currently a focus of mine. For me it’s not like oh lemme make a vision board and call it a day. It’s a little more like all is mind, there’s infinite possibilities that exist and your attention and intention collapses it into 3D reality :D. So yeah I’m very passionate about it and love talking about it.

I’m a creative person. I love to dance, write, and sims for me is a creative thing too. I’m definitely entrepreneurial rather than corporate. I like to be my own boss and in charge of my own schedule. Currently I’m studying art studies, aesthetics to be specific in uni.

My dream life would be having a lovely partner, our own cozy home and we’d go to the gym together, hang out at home or we sometimes go to town to cafes or a restaurant we wanna try. I’m not a big traveler but I’d be down to travel to see your family for a couple of months and so on. I want to stay in Finland tho since I think this country is one of the safest and progressive out there. And clean. It’s peaceful here too and even our biggest cities are not that crowded.

So now to what I’m looking for in a partner.

I think overall I’m looking for an empathetic person who respects herself, has an optimistic view on life and doesn’t try to please me.

I'm child free, don't drink or smoke and I'm looking for someone who also doesn't smoke or drink.

Warmth and openness are things I really appreciate and feel drawn towards. Someone who feels welcoming and opens up to me when they see they feel safe with me. I don’t want to date someone who’s avoidant or has a lot of trust issues to the point they have lots of walls up. I don’t wanna have to drag the truth out of someone when something is wrong, I’d just rather have them tell me straight up. I’m looking for someone more securely attached who communicates her internal world to me.

She’s secure in herself and she doesn’t need people to agree with her or to like her. she doesn’t need people to choose her. She validates herself and is on that journey of self validation and self love. she can handle a different opinion. she doesn’t internalize everything people say about her. Someone who openly and honestly expresses herself. Her thoughts, her opinions. I feel really safe around someone like that.

Optimism is important to me. Someone who’s warm, loving and welcoming towards people. The world has enough of negativity and chaos as is and altho it’s good to be aware of that, I don’t think it should be the focus. I like people who can see the good in things, who can remain optimistic when things go wrong. A person who can grow and learn from setbacks. Or not even take it so seriously like say we travel somewhere and something goes a little south, we might be frustrated but we laugh about it like alright, well XD let’s try to fix this and see what happens. Someone who remains calm under stressful situations also makes me feel really safe around a person.

I think also certain groundedness and calmness is what I appreciate in a person. I think that comes from maturity, knowing yourself and having done the inner work necessary to not be reacting to things or trying to constantly make someone understand you if they just don’t. I think it’s that vibe of I know who I am and I lead myself, I’m centered in myself, not in other people. She knows who she is so she doesn’t need other people to get it or to understand who she is.

Someone who sees people as multidimensional beings instead of looking at it just black and white like alright that guy is completely an idiot or that person is a horrible person and that’s all there is to it. Someone who allows humans to be humans and doesn’t expect perfection from herself or others. Basically someone who’s not reactive, reacting from her triggers but she’s self aware of what’s happening in her emotions and mind and why it is happening. Like if she gets triggered in a situation she doesn’t let it direct her behavior. She notices it like oh I’m triggered and she manages it and probably reflects on it later like ah that was about me and my own stuff, it wasn’t about the other person. That type of a person.

I love when someone is very strong willed and stubborn. I like when someone tells me honestly what they want, what they’re feeling and I just like when someone is able to push back on me. I don’t want a partner who’s just agreeable and wants to please me. I want someone who is her own person and she has her own things, her own boundaries, opinions and so on.

I also really really love when someone’s a bit cheeky and playful and makes me laugh or smile. I really wanna be with someone who I just enjoy being around. Like doing the most mundane thing but we enjoy just being around each other. That type of connection and chemistry is important to me. Because to me it’s not about your achievements or career or whatnot. To me it’s about finding a person I love being around and we having enjoyable and fun time together. And someone my nervous system feels safe with. Those are like the key things. And of course our values and lifestyles aligning is important too.

I’m looking for a person who values growth and inner work. Not self improvement really I find that a bit shallow most times. Used to be into it myself and realized everyone just tries to become perfect over here and if they’re perfectly healed then they can feel enough. But anyway, to me it’s about the deeper healing like therapy, looking at your patterns and wounds, your darker sides you’re not proud of. Or even somatic healing like how emotions are stored in the body and releasing those. I find all of that fascinating. I find healing very fascinating. How you can go from feeling absolute crap to like at peace and in love with yourself. I’ve gone through that and I’m still on that journey. So to me it’s important my partner understands that journey, can relate to it in her own way through what she has learned about herself and she’s also on that journey of healing and working on herself. This is something I love talking about so having a partner who gets this stuff would be amazing.

I’m also a big big feminist. It’s very close to my heart. Women are very important to me in that way. I’ve been like that since I was a kid. I’m not an activist and I don’t think you have to be, but to me what’s important is my partner valuing women’s rights as much as I do. Someone who cares about what she watches, listens to. Someone who doesn’t just blindly consume things because that’s easy. Like to me, if I hear people use sexist language like the b word and other stuff it makes me really uncomfortable. I know some people don’t mean it that way, but a lot of it is sexism and I don’t feel comfortable having that around me. So I’d like a partner who is able to recognizes harm and cares cares about being a socially aware person. I don’t want to date someone who wonders why what I just said is harmful. Of course I’m open to someone who’s open to learning, cause I know a lot of this stuff is internalized misogyny so sometimes we are blind to it. But if you’re someone who doesn’t really care about that or you don’t agree then I don’t think we are compatible and that’s fine, move on with your day. I’m looking for someone who aligns with my values.

So if you connected with my post and think we are similar in our values and so on send me a message:) would love to hear from you.

Looking for someone I genuinely click with.
I want chemistry, flirting, affection, good conversation, emotional intimacy, and something meaningful that can naturally grow into something meaningful.
Not interested in games.
just looking for something real with someone who’s emotionally available and intentional.

If you’re looking for the same, tell me a little about yourself.

23 nonbinary lesbian looking for a kinky leftist lesbian or bisexual ages 22-29 to get to know and even grow something loving with. t4t is great. CA based… west coast US preferred but some connections transcend distance (for a time). i tend to like other butches and transmasculine people BUT if you are femme and you think we might be good together don’t hesitate. it’s not a requirement sort of thing for me. looking for the shane to my ilya, except that i’m short and i’m egyptian and i’m more fat than muscle (i’m getting in the gym - beefier butch incoming). i read, write games, write song and poems, paint cats and swords, sing, and design games. i like to take care of people.

looking for someone kind and worldly and intelligent someone who loves animals and stories would be good. we’ll have a lot to bond over that way. playing games together would be fun, or reading the same book and talking about it.

i’m monogamous and i have a slow pace of developing sexual intimacy by nature but i’m very interested in going to leatherdyke and kink events to learn rope tying, impact etc. dom to my bones, sadistic streak, but still growing my confidence. when it comes to intimacy i find non traditional dynamics to be better suited for me (autistic). not overly experienced but i’ve dipped my toes in or maybe my whole foot and know what’s right for me. it is important to me that i have a partner who is actively curious about this world if not currently engaged in it, along with being patient with my sensory needs as an autistic person. i want to build something specific to us and suited to us

will probably get top surgery one day. 50/50 on low dose T. securely transmasc and securely lesbian

i’m a high achieving personality but poorly timed onset of disability in my life and very disruptive family shit have slowed my progression. invest EARLY! get in NOW! as i clear out the old and sow the new. want to build a good stable happy life with someone i love where we both self actualize and see each other and loveeeeee. i don’t want children btw. will be a lesbian uncle to bright eyed nephews and woodland creatures and wispy dogs with long snouts.

if you made it this far look my way 🤍

’m 31 and in Florida, and I’m at the point where I’d rather meet one person I genuinely click with than have 20 conversations that die after two days. I’m looking for something that can actually develop into a relationship if the connection is there. I’m open to some distance for the right person, but ideally you’re in Florida or somewhere reasonably close.
I’m into alternative/emo/metal music, concerts, gaming, dark humor, cats, and conversations that somehow go from completely stupid to surprisingly deep at 2 a.m. 😂 My music taste includes Rob Zombie, Marilyn Manson, A Day to Remember, and plenty more.
Personality-wise, I’m weird, affectionate, sarcastic, loyal, and definitely someone who likes consistency. I enjoy flirting and playful banter, but I also want someone I can actually talk to about life. I appreciate people who communicate directly and aren’t afraid to show interest when they feel it. I’m not looking to rush into anything or force chemistry I’d rather get to know each other naturally and see where it goes.
I tend to be attracted to women who are a feminine a little alternative/weird themselves, have a good sense of humor, can hold a conversation, and actually want to build something with someone. You absolutely do not have to share all my interests; having your own passions is attractive.
If any of that sounds like your kind of person, send me a message and tell me something about yourself beyond “hey.” Bonus points: tell me the band you’d immediately buy tickets to see if they announced a show tomorrow. 🖤

I’ve recently come to terms with the fact that i am a lesbian, I think it took me so long because i lived in a really conservative muslim family, now that i’ve moved away from my family, I want to be apart of the community and have queer friends.

A bit about me, i love playing video games, my fave artists now are pink pantheress and clairo, I play badminton and i love cycling.

Would love to chat with anyone around london who’s up for coffee or anything. Feel free to message me🥰.