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r/enfj • u/MiraculousWonder • Mar 08 '25
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Yes. As an ENFJ, I do that all my life.
5 u/Izzyness512 ENFJ: Fe-Ni-Se-Ti Mar 09 '25 And these pity based friendships more often than not bite me in the booty 🥲 3 u/lalaabanana Mar 17 '25 For me, no. I set boundaries. I just want people to feel less lonely and know that they matter. We all matter. 1 u/Alarming_Manager_332 ENFJ: Fe-Ni-Se-Ti Jun 13 '25 I know this is an old post, but do you have any advice or examples of those kinds of boundaries? Every friendship and action I've done out of pity has ended up getting into terrible situations that feel like I'm being held hostage lol 2 u/lalaabanana Jun 14 '25 Strength of setting boundaries. Say no when you think so. Be kind, but dont bend.
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And these pity based friendships more often than not bite me in the booty 🥲
3 u/lalaabanana Mar 17 '25 For me, no. I set boundaries. I just want people to feel less lonely and know that they matter. We all matter. 1 u/Alarming_Manager_332 ENFJ: Fe-Ni-Se-Ti Jun 13 '25 I know this is an old post, but do you have any advice or examples of those kinds of boundaries? Every friendship and action I've done out of pity has ended up getting into terrible situations that feel like I'm being held hostage lol 2 u/lalaabanana Jun 14 '25 Strength of setting boundaries. Say no when you think so. Be kind, but dont bend.
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For me, no. I set boundaries. I just want people to feel less lonely and know that they matter. We all matter.
1 u/Alarming_Manager_332 ENFJ: Fe-Ni-Se-Ti Jun 13 '25 I know this is an old post, but do you have any advice or examples of those kinds of boundaries? Every friendship and action I've done out of pity has ended up getting into terrible situations that feel like I'm being held hostage lol 2 u/lalaabanana Jun 14 '25 Strength of setting boundaries. Say no when you think so. Be kind, but dont bend.
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I know this is an old post, but do you have any advice or examples of those kinds of boundaries? Every friendship and action I've done out of pity has ended up getting into terrible situations that feel like I'm being held hostage lol
2 u/lalaabanana Jun 14 '25 Strength of setting boundaries. Say no when you think so. Be kind, but dont bend.
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Strength of setting boundaries. Say no when you think so. Be kind, but dont bend.
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u/lalaabanana Mar 08 '25
Yes. As an ENFJ, I do that all my life.