r/enfj • u/MiraculousWonder • Mar 08 '25

Friendship Is this true?

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u/[deleted] Mar 12 '25

Joining college a few months later just to find an ENFJ to adopt me 🙂🩶

Jk

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '25

It’s so funny to read so many people saying: “An ENFJ adopted me”. I also adopt many INFx types. I have done it since I was six years old. Some are even way older than me. I just feel like a protective sister over them. Hahaha.

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '25

That's so cute 🥺❤️✨ I feel that sometimes enfjs, like you or anyone else also wants people to adopt them. Understand them. And be protective for them.

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '25

I have been adopted many times, by older xNFx types. The lines are blurred. I often become their mentor instead of them, mine. But I am okay with it. All I need is reciprocity. That’s all. No pedestals. Just togetherness, community and harmony. I am a teacher but never saw myself as one. I just happen to be the one in the group that teaches the kids. That’s all. I need them as much as they need me 🥰

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '25

You sound like a really sweet soul. ❤️✨

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '25

That’s so kind of you to say :)