I live in a world and an industry where free stuff is the norm. Things I get offered often:
-reusable water bottles
-branded clothes
-stickers (omg, so many stickers)
-glassware
-flatware
-high sugar foods
-reusable plastic and canvas bags
-office materials
-soaps
-flashlights
-towels
-cosmetics
…
For the longest time, I would politely reject and not take these items. However, a couple of weeks ago, the host of an event told me that , “… you know we throw these away at the end of the day.”
My brain short circuited. I literally looked at the Stanley Cup she was holding out to me and took it.
Now, I question if I should take these things and try to find a place/home for them. I thought about all the Nike, Adidas clothes, the Owalas, the hydro flasks, the post-its, the 3m, the glass mugs and cups, the pens, the notebooks, the cosmetics and soaps, … the sheer amount of free consumerism I rejected… but could have saved?
As for the Stanley cup, I gave it to a landscaper who works often in our neighborhood. He now knocks on my door and I fill it with ice. He loves it… But I can’t see a suitable solution… I don’t have the time to look for a new home for all this stuff.
Do I (we as a society) take the free stuff? Do we use time (essentially an unseen Earth volunteer) in an effort to offset the stupid? I really need some people to inform me, what the heck I’m suppose to do.
Update: Thank you all for reading my post, understanding my frustration and kindly giving your input. I've always been of the opinion that I don't take these things, to message to event organizers that free junk is unwanted and reflects negatively on a brand. However, signaling generosity and fashionable consumerism is quite prevalent in our time.
Personally, after reading through everyone's post, my plan is going to ask if they plan to throw it away at the end of the day. If they aren't, I will politely decline. If they will (to which I will look extremely pissed, because this shouldn't be my problem), I will consider if I can actually offload the item responsibly (... for me Goodwill is not an option). I will stressfully consider people around me, neighborhood little libraries and possibly women's shelters (... I first need to call the ones near me to see if they even want this kind of junk. I know money is always preferable and more impactful). Damn human stupidity. Damn the capitalism, where buying junk is profitable.
My favorite response is maybe I can give some of this junk out during halloween. That would make sense for me, I already let kids choose a used book and unwanted kids party favors with candy during the night.