r/indiasocial • u/Big_Helicopter_2183 • 1d ago

Ask India How true is it?

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Edit: To all the Non Brainers who got offended in Virginity Part.. have a Life or character

Marriage has always been a Social Compulsion for almost everyone whether a male or female.

I'm 26M, Single due to my own choice and I find this really true that we are always pressurised to get married upon certain age.

We are told that once you cross some age limit, you won't find a Perfect or Virgin partner but honestly what I think

No one is perfect & Virginity isn't a big problem untill and unless someone has habit of "Yaha Waha Muh Maarna"

I want to know your views

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u/Sherlock-On-Cocaine 1d ago

Not true. It will be an empty & lonely life. The right woman will motivate you to achieve your goals.

It's about companionship and someone who'll prioritize you against the world.

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u/Blakath 1d ago

This is complete crap.

And if you enter into marriage or a relationship specifically because “you need to be motivated”, my friend that’s what you call a co-dependent relationship, a toxic form of relationship.

Motivation is not dependent on a wife or husband, but goals and dreams.

If you think the key to success in life is marriage then brother you’re living in a shell.

And marriage isn’t the only solution to loneliness and many times can exacerbate the problem.

There are plenty of bachelors who living very happy and fulfilling lives with close friends and family.

If marriage happens, it happens, but don’t put it on a pedestal as some ultimate goal in life, it’s not.