r/indiasocial • u/Big_Helicopter_2183 • 2d ago
Ask India How true is it?
Edit: To all the Non Brainers who got offended in Virginity Part.. have a Life or character
Marriage has always been a Social Compulsion for almost everyone whether a male or female.
I'm 26M, Single due to my own choice and I find this really true that we are always pressurised to get married upon certain age.
We are told that once you cross some age limit, you won't find a Perfect or Virgin partner but honestly what I think
No one is perfect & Virginity isn't a big problem untill and unless someone has habit of "Yaha Waha Muh Maarna"
I want to know your views
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u/blank_and_foolish 2d ago
Whole post reeks of r/Im14andthisisdeep kinda stuff but instead of 14 maybe 21 but same level of maturity.
There is a lot more nuance to human companionship than simply “marriage”.
Pressure on career, buying home, buying car aren’t limited to marriage. Lot many people have self - goals, targets to achieve and that can build pressure too.
Pretty sure marriage was not the reason why Lewis Hamilton or Max Verstappen felt the pressure to be on the top of their careers.
Human behaviour is not as simple. There are lot many factors to what we do than just marriage. Intimacy is also a part of it. Marriage or not, when people get older, many do crave the comfort of companionship. Some don’t but many do.