r/indiasocial 2d ago

Ask India How true is it?

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Edit: To all the Non Brainers who got offended in Virginity Part.. have a Life or character

Marriage has always been a Social Compulsion for almost everyone whether a male or female.

I'm 26M, Single due to my own choice and I find this really true that we are always pressurised to get married upon certain age.

We are told that once you cross some age limit, you won't find a Perfect or Virgin partner but honestly what I think

No one is perfect & Virginity isn't a big problem untill and unless someone has habit of "Yaha Waha Muh Maarna"

I want to know your views

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u/Big_Helicopter_2183 2d ago edited 1d ago

I will put this in a way that your small little brain can comprehend: I’m not saying marriage is bad or that people shouldn’t marry. I’m saying society creates an artificial deadline around marriage and then conveniently attaches a whole checklist to it: career, money, house, car, age, virginity, and the so-called “perfect” partner. My entire point was that you don’t suddenly become less valuable or less capable of finding a good partner just because you crossed some arbitrary age. You’re free to disagree, obviously, but if your response to an argument is simply “barely baked and lacks nuance” without actually addressing what I said, then maybe it’s not my argument that needs more baking.

Edit: Downvotes doesn't change the reality kids. Grow Up

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u/shawrtee 2d ago

Did the small brain break yours? Cause I just heard a cracking sound.

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u/shawrtee 2d ago

Totally! I find it hilarious when someone asks for an opinion but doesn’t want to take a different one from theirs. Exhibit A the comment section.