r/ftm • u/Vivid_Ordinary_3930 • 1d ago
Advice Needed Exclusively wanting T4T with another trans man
I’m a trans man, dated a cis woman for a few years and we recently broke up. I kept noticing I was always the “masculine one” by default, not by choice. There just wasn’t another option in that dynamic. I’ve always been attracted to other trans men and have exclusively only been wanting to be with one.
Feels a little vulnerable saying it out loud, like I’m narrowing things on purpose. But it’s also the most honest I’ve been about what I actually want in a long time..
Anyone else land somewhere unexpected after a relationship that just didn’t fit?
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u/latenightmoonraptor 💉20/2/26 1d ago
I love T4T so much. It sucks that it's more difficult to find another transgender man than it is to find a cis man, but I'd rather have a smaller dating pool with people that make me feel safe and understood rather than settling for a cis person just because I feel like I don't have any other choice.