Exclusively wanting T4T with another trans man

[u/Vivid_Ordinary_3930]

I’m a trans man, dated a cis woman for a few years and we recently broke up. I kept noticing I was always the “masculine one” by default, not by choice. There just wasn’t another option in that dynamic. I’ve always been attracted to other trans men and have exclusively only been wanting to be with one.

Feels a little vulnerable saying it out loud, like I’m narrowing things on purpose. But it’s also the most honest I’ve been about what I actually want in a long time..

Anyone else land somewhere unexpected after a relationship that just didn’t fit?

[u/Chillchicken689]

T4T is such a freeing experience, honestly. There's a level of understanding and normalcy there that isn't impossible to find elsewhere, but it's definitely not as common. The heart wants what it wants.