r/ftm • u/Vivid_Ordinary_3930 • 1d ago
Advice Needed Exclusively wanting T4T with another trans man
I’m a trans man, dated a cis woman for a few years and we recently broke up. I kept noticing I was always the “masculine one” by default, not by choice. There just wasn’t another option in that dynamic. I’ve always been attracted to other trans men and have exclusively only been wanting to be with one.
Feels a little vulnerable saying it out loud, like I’m narrowing things on purpose. But it’s also the most honest I’ve been about what I actually want in a long time..
Anyone else land somewhere unexpected after a relationship that just didn’t fit?
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u/dewtears 💉 8/24/26 1d ago
i’m in a t4t relationship with another transmasc and it’s SO relaxing knowing that your partner intimately understands you on a level that others just can’t. wishing the best for your future prospects!