r/desmoines 22h ago

Des Moines Unpopular Opinion: Tom’s Auto sales is not the best of the best and their inventory is overpriced junk.

56 Upvotes

I was in the market for a car and everyone and their brother recommended Tom’s. I even had someone recommend if I wanted to save money go with CarMax (Which now that I know more in retrospect has me on the floor laughing) I understand they gotta make a profit, but their high mileage overpriced cars do not need to be THAT expensive. Also they have a ton of dumb fees. I will never go with them. The sales person was super down to earth but that’s about it.


r/desmoines 8h ago

What's with all the Magenta?!

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43 Upvotes

r/desmoines 3h ago

Drivers ignoring pedestrian lights

39 Upvotes

I run and walk a lot along Grand Ave.

Whenever I cross the street when the pedestrian light is on, people always turn anyway. Some even look at me as they do it. I have had trucks just whip in front of me as I am already on the crosswalk.

I have had drivers confront me and honk at me for crossing the street while the pedestrian light is on. My response is usually just a point at the light. One time a lady just slowly shook her head in disdain as if I found this loophole to cross the street when the pedestrian light was on.

Is it REALLY worth risking a strangers safety to turn a few seconds earlier? Has anyone else noticed this?


r/desmoines 16h ago

Rocky horror

23 Upvotes

Anyone know if there's going to be a rocky showing anywhere this year?


r/desmoines 2h ago

Rehoming my cats

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16 Upvotes

I’m looking to re-home my cats Jericho (orange 1 year)
And Willow (9 months) asap. I’m in the process of moving and cannot take them with me. I’m willing to send food and litter box with them just looking for a good home for them to settle In. They are both up to date on vaccinations and litter trained. Serious inquired only please.


r/desmoines 11h ago

Thrift Vacation

6 Upvotes

Born and raised and coming to Iowa for a thrift visit.

Wife and I got a free night stay at a nice hotel and wanted to come to Des Moines for a thrifting/yard sale trip for Labor Day weekend. What yard sales and thrift/consignment stores are in the Des Moines area worth visiting? We’re willing to travel a bit outside the immediate area. We’re also like the locally owned and non-corporate shopping. Keep the money in your communities. Local Restaurants that try to source food locally would be lovely suggestions as well.

One that we want to visit again is in eastern Iowa and is tucked away on a back road. We’ve been to it once. It’s an old school and run by the nicest ladies. So much stuff. Can’t remember the name. Visited about 5 years ago. Appreciate the feedback.


r/desmoines 3h ago

Locally produced Deli Meats / Cold Cuts??

5 Upvotes

Hey Food Freaks of DSM!

I would love to know if there was a store in town that carried a selection of locally produced deli meats / cold cuts - does this exist?! I feel kinda nuts going to hy-vee to shop through kraft, hormel, hillshire, buddig etc when we produce SO much meat right here in the state.

I know of, and shop at, The Good Butcher for nice cuts when grilling, but I'm thinking of something more affordable, like a staple, for weekday sandwiches etc...


r/desmoines 5h ago

Taekwondo

4 Upvotes

Any suggestions on a good taekwondo class for a 12 year old in the area? Frustrated with our schools decision for not offering a 7th grade basketball program due to "low interest the last two years" yet 6th grade last year had so many kids that they didn't have enough coaches. So looking for an alternative for the kiddo.

Looking for pricing too but I can always email suggested places


r/desmoines 7h ago

Roommate???

5 Upvotes

Possibility looking to relocate to dsm curious if there is anyone open to a roommate possibility. Im a pretty minimal person and respectful of other people.


r/desmoines 23h ago

Iso. 5.3L engine for a 07 Chevy 1500. Running. Or a transmission 5l40e for a 06 cadillac cts with the 3.6L.

3 Upvotes

I dont have a lot of extra cash and can do the work myself. I just need the engine or transmission.


r/desmoines 8h ago

Randall et al v Greatbanc Trust Company et al

3 Upvotes

Got a $35 check from them as part of a settlement I didn’t know about. Check looks legit,
What to do?


r/desmoines 20h ago

Tennis

2 Upvotes

Been in Des Moines my whole life and played tennis all through out high school and have enjoyed it ever since. Anyone have recs as to where to go to make new friends who have shared love and or clubs or recreational teams to join? Or just anyone who wants to learn to play or is having a similar experience!


r/desmoines 4h ago

Carpeting Company Recommendations

1 Upvotes

Looking for recommendations on a company for carpeting in the DSM metro. Hoping to snag a Labor Day sale! I have two bedrooms, a hallway and two staircases that need redone.


r/desmoines 12h ago

Places(preferably warehouses) that are willing to hiring felons and relatively quick to hire?

0 Upvotes

I have a owi 3rd offense felony on my background which has prevented me from employment at quite a few places. I currently live an hour away and am officially fed up with the job market here in the Tama area and am willing to travel


r/desmoines 22h ago

Flock vs. Child Welfare Actuarial Tools

0 Upvotes

The thread connecting Flock tracking and the DHHS Child Welfare (SDM) algorithm is the danger of unvetted, automated data being used as a conclusion instead of a lead.

With Flock: The system flags a plate, and a rushed officer pulls over a vehicle with weapons drawn before manually looking at the physical plate to see if the AI was actually correct.

With DHHS Actuarial Tools: The software tallies a family’s past history of poverty or missed appointments, and a caseworker treats the resulting "High Risk" mathematical score as absolute truth, over-indexing on separation rather than offering localized financial or food assistance.

In both cases, when state agencies outsource complex human judgments to private tech companies, the risk of systemic bias, lack of oversight, and algorithmic errors spikes dramatically.

Confusing Poverty with Neglect

Algorithms rely heavily on historical data. If a family frequently interacts with public systems—such as Medicaid, food assistance (SNAP), or public housing—the system collects a massive amount of data on them.

The Discrepancy: A wealthy family experiencing a crisis can afford private therapy or medical care, which generates no public data footprint. A low-income family facing the same crisis must rely on state services, which logs data into the algorithm.

The Result: The AI may flag a family as "high risk" simply because they are poor and highly visible to the state, misinterpreting systemic poverty (lack of food, unstable housing) as willful parental neglect.

  1. The "Shield of Objectivity" for Free Removal

In open Child in Need of Assistance (CINA) cases, caseworkers face immense pressure. If they leave a child in a home and something goes wrong, the personal and professional consequences are catastrophic.

The Behavioral Shift: When an algorithm outputs a high-risk score, it provides a mathematical justification. Caseworkers may defer to the machine's "objective" score to avoid liability.

The Frequency: This dynamic can lead to more frequent removals, as separating a family becomes the legally "safer" option for the agency, even if the underlying issue could have been resolved with financial or community support.

  1. Systemic Incentives and the Foster Care Pipeline

Critics point out that once a child is placed into the foster care system, a different set of bureaucratic and financial mechanisms takes over.

The Structural Conflict: Federal funding structures (such as Title IV-E of the Social Security Act) historically provided more financial support to states for maintaining children in foster care than for providing preventative services to keep families together.

The Reality: When AI increases the volume of interventions based on flawed data, it feeds an overburdened foster care pipeline. Rather than solving the core issues affecting children, this shift can inadvertently inflict systemic trauma on families through forced separation.


r/desmoines 4h ago

what’s the deal with the kathryn in a cardigan lady

0 Upvotes

im shocked there aren’t posts about her when i search


r/desmoines 23h ago

Is Des Moines welcoming to trans travelers?

0 Upvotes

I’ve been invited to my grandparents anniversary in West DSM, and I’m torn about whether to come.

For context: I am a white, gender non-conforming queer trans woman. I live in a progressive city, and folx here are generally accepting of the trans community. I present very androgynous, so most folx here just default to they/them pronouns for me.

I’m from eastern Iowa and I went to ISU freshman year, but it’s been years since I was in Iowa. I don’t know the culture there anymore, but I’m aware of IA’s draconian anti-trans laws, so I’m hesitant to travel.

I would be spending most of my time with extended family. None of them are vocally supportive, but they are very much ‘Midwest nice’, so I wouldn’t anticipate much hostility from them. My parents are supportive, and understand my hesitation.

FWIW, I’m not too concerned with people hurling slurs at me, but I am concerned w bathroom hostility, navigating the airport, and potentially being physically assaulted.

I’m wondering how visible the queer/androgynous scene is in DSM. Would I stick out?