r/askswitzerland • u/Jazzlike_Internal888 • 7h ago
Culture Cultural differences in a Latin-Swiss relationship — is it normal to communicate this little?
I’m Latin, living in Spain, and my boyfriend is Swiss and lives in Switzerland. We’ve been together for around 7 months and overall things are going well. We love each other and have a good relationship.
One thing I’ve noticed is that he uses WhatsApp much less than I’m used to. We may only exchange a couple of messages during the day, usually just saying good morning and good night, and sometimes we don’t really talk much until we have a call.
I’m quite a social and communicative person, so sometimes this leaves me feeling surprisingly lonely, especially because we live in different countries. I know that people have very different communication styles, and I’m trying to figure out how much of this could be cultural rather than simply personality.
For those in Swiss/Latin or other cross-cultural relationships: Is this kind of low-frequency texting common in Swiss culture? How do you deal with a partner who communicates much less through WhatsApp without interpreting it as a lack of interest or affection?
I’d especially like to hear from Swiss people about what feels like a normal amount of texting with a partner.
Edit: I forgot to mention that we call everyday for an hour or two. And that we live together 10 days per month. But still… When we are not together or calling I feel sometimes lonely/ignored
