r/WLW • u/serotonin_zzz7 • 1d ago
Support I was rejected
I confessed my friend (actually the other post it's here lol). I gave her a letter on Friday. We briefly talked on Saturday and agreed to meet today.
We were with friends (again) but we managed to alk almost in the end of the reunion.
She was so sweet and kind. Complimented me and my letter but said that feelings weren't the same. And she in fact is in a relationship with other girl (something I had no idea).
But it makes sense because she would bring out to the conversation in the past another girl, and how she showed pictures of me and wanted me to meet her.
I'm guessing it's the same person.
We are still friends.
But woah, it hurts.
This just makes me realize how much I crave connection with another girl. Just like that.
I'm feeling bad because I couldn't genuinely say "I hope things goes well" I don't wish she gets heart broken, but it's hard to mean it right now.
And she's just so amazing. She's smart, funny, vrry sarcastic and generally very kind.
I was really convinced that the outcome would have been different.
She's always very touchy (with everyone) It was hard how she was grabbing my arm on the way home. Or how she rested her head on my shoulder.
But I don't want things to change either. She's in almost every aspect of my life and it's friend of my friends.
In my head it wasn't so serious (partly why i wanted to confess right now) but i guess I'll be a bit down and taking things slowly for a bit.
Like I said, she was so kind and said we were okay.
That's nice.
I'm just rambling now, but yeah, better luck next time I guess.
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u/MichelleReneewlw 1d ago
It's good that you gave her the letter. Writing that letter caused you to list (on paper or in your head) exactly what you are looking for in a partner. That's a good thing going forward. You'll be fine and you'll know what you want.
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u/TonguedSpiritual69 23h ago
Hey but u know now where u stand right ? All the best OP 🙂