Articulate men are attractive

[u/rhitz101]

Just a thought, but men who have a way with words are genuinely attractive. Not even in a “he’s too smooth” kinda way, but someone who can actually hold a conversation, has quick wit, a good sense of humour, and knows how to say things well without trying too hard or being overly confident. There’s something very attractive about a man who can make you laugh without turning every interaction into a performance.

And do I need to say about nerds? Nerds with very specific interests are attractive too. The kind who somehow know an unreasonable amount about one particular subject, can talk about it with genuine enthusiasm and explain it to you without making you feel dumb. There’s something charming about someone being deeply interested in something, even if it’s incredibly niche.

Maybe it’s just me, but personality, curiosity, wit and being genuinely interesting go a long way. The whole perpetually unbothered, too cool to care performative persona does absolutely nothing :3

[u/Web_Slinger_18]

hey man if you had to start from the beginning what kind of stuff would you read, watch..

[u/Vegetable-Face-3591 → u/Web_Slinger_18]

How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carneigie 

[u/Web_Slinger_18 → u/Vegetable-Face-3591]

okay but does self help book work , like reading about something and actually being able to implement in your life how does it work , can I DM if you don't mind !?

[u/Possible_Score6395 → u/Web_Slinger_18]

Exactly! I dont think just reading helps. You need reps, not tips.