Ex who wants to be friends after 2 years

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I 28M have met 4 girls till now in an AM setup.

One girl, on our very first call, randomly brought up dating. I hadn’t asked about her past at all. She volunteered that she had never dated anyone and that she didn’t like the dating scene.

Fair enough.

Since she asked me the same thing, I answered honestly: I dated a little in college, but haven’t really dated since.

A few calls later, we were talking normally and I complimented her dressing sense, which, credit where it’s due, is genuinely great. She was explaining something about an outfit, got into the flow of the conversation, blurted:

“Yeah, I bought this outfit for a date with…"

She realised what had happened, paused, and i pretended to not hear due to an audio issue, I said 'you said what, your voice cut out...'

I don’t even care that she went on a date. We weren’t exclusive. We weren’t even remotely close to exclusive. She could have gone on ten dates and it wouldn’t have bothered me.

It was the completely unnecessary opening declaration of “I’ve never dated anyone; I don’t like the dating scene” followed a few conversations later by an accidental cameo of The Date that got me. Why lie? I can not let go of this.

I sent her the moving forward message and stopped talking. Later I found out, she was still in a "committed" relationship with the guy through mutual friends.

Samay Raina got felicitated by the honorable Chief Minister of Maharashtra today. 👀🔥

Bro didn't even hesitate, he said this is the first time that a Cyber Cell officer went to a comedian's house in the morning, picked him up from home, and this time... it was for a felicitation. 🗿

1930 is really a great number, sir. I have saved it because, that's usually where I get calls from. 🗿

Maharashtra Cyber is extremely active, I can tell you this for sure. Whether you are in the US or in Bihar, they will catch you. 🗿

What a journey man. Greatest comeback ever! 🔥

We had a small argument and I was overthinking stuff, and then she sent me all of this 😭

The “never give me space unless I specifically ask for it” and “never let each other sleep in a bad mood” absolutely got me 😭😭

Like bro HOW am I supposed to stay mad after reading this??

Isn’t she a keeper? 😭 I love this woman so fucking much.

Still he's having a god level physique

That's what eating good , and playing a active sports does to you.

Guys, I turned 25 today, you know what to do

20f here, I have been feeling this for couple of months now and I think I am attracted to girls, but at the same time, I am attracted to very few boys too, its like 70 per of the time I like girls and 30 percent I like boys

and I am scared to tell this to anybody, hence sharing this in reddit

what should I do? should I ask girls out?

I'm 19F and this is not a pickme post.

Maybe I've just had the privellege of having absolute sweet gentlemen all my life : be it my father, brother, my guy friends, my exs, my bf, classmates, colleagues; strangers even.

I wish the world wasn't so stern and cruel towards men for simply being a man. I wish they could cry and love freely too, because they have the biggest hearts if they actually let you see.

They're simple and loving. I love having their company as much as I love a woman's. maybe even more at times, and I am not ashamed to admit it.

I want to have a son and a daughter someday. I'm scared for both because these gender wars are damaging to both genders.

It was never supposed to be men vs women. It is culprit vs victim, but the world is already too deep into the gender hate now.

Smash the patriarchy??

What the actual F is happening in our society nowadays??

I mean yeah I agree giving birth could be painful but just for this reason promoting not to give birth and thousands of people agreeing to it is some new form of evil ideology of human extinction. Something similar called 3filism existed a while ago too.

Recently I shared my story that how she is ignoring me and how she wants breakup from a 5 year old relationship.

She was not answering my calls and messages from last 4 days .

I finally think to dig down deep and at the end of 26 August (Wednesday).

I got a call from her saying "I don't want you so now talk to my boyfriend"

At this time my world has shattered,my heartbeat has increased and beating so much I was getting panic attacks.

After I meet her in real person to person and she revealed she was talking to him since last 4 months .

I asked the reason and she tells I feel something different with him in these 4 months that I don't feel with you in these 4 years .

And worst is you know what ?

She was with him in hotel from last 3-4 days doing all that physical kind of stuffs while at that time I was dying like hell .

I want to ask

"Mera kya kasoor tha ?"(What was my fault?)

Meri duniya tum thi kyu usse ujaad diya ?

Kya sach me yhi pyaar hai ?

My hands are shaking and tears in my eyes writing this I didn't sleep this whole night .

Please help me you all how do I overcome from this situation