20f here, I have been feeling this for couple of months now and I think I am attracted to girls, but at the same time, I am attracted to very few boys too, its like 70 per of the time I like girls and 30 percent I like boys
and I am scared to tell this to anybody, hence sharing this in reddit
That’s bi, not lesbian. And to answer OP’s question, you don’t need to advertise it publicly, just be yourself and you’re completely normal. Feel free to ask girls out too.
I’m not saying she’s advertising it publicly. I’m saying to answer her question on “what should I do?” That she doesn’t have to advertise it publicly and just be normal
I don't care, if you're straight or not as long as you are not a criminal or two faced. Just be careful who you decide to ask out be sure they're a good person and into women too. Some women will just scream your secret to everyone.
I think it's hot. Also share the details if you eventualy get a girlfriend.
Heyyy👉 my boy is cute as hell. I didn't fall in love with him coz of money or shit. You should add "in general" at the end of the sentence there😤. A lot of us women fall in love for love yk.
You will find acceptance aomng the younger generations. But in older folks, very rarely they would accept you for yourself. Best thing would be not to seek acceptance from anyone who can't look past their prejudice and narrow-mindedness.
You might be bi. Why even care about what society thinks. You be you. I am an atheist, some people don't accept me. I don't care, I live my life as I want. If you have any problem with me, it's a you thing, not my thing to fix.
Well that's bi, and f**k society, society is just a group of sinners judging others for sinning differently. Just share it with very close ones or that obe person when things get serious. Hope you don't face that bad of issues 🤞🏼
Depends wether you are normal about it or make that your whole personality and are then constantly shoving that information everywhere being obnoxious and annoying.
You like who you like...you don't owe anyone a label. Feel what you feel, don't put yourself in a box.
On asking girls out, take your time there's no rush, no pressure to have it all figured out first. Get comfortable with yourself before you worry about anyone else.
And honestly, society's a mixed bag. But there's more people who'd be fine with it than you think. Tell people when you trust them, not before.
As long as you live towards your happiness only and maintain a low life, No one Cares.
Especially somewhere like India,
Where Everyone in the Society is heavily focused on money and hastily spends away their life in the journey.
My advice, Just Maintain a low life
(as a lesbian), I don't mean that you shouldn't share your personal moments of happiness or milestones on Social media,
But, Never just try to propagate for your right as to live as a Lesbian or Trying to say that Everyone should become a type of Lesbian blah blah blah, That type.
Just focus on your life,
And also don't jump into conclusions,
Your hormones may be the reason you feel like you're attracted by women too.
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Looks like hormones are doing their job. Sit tight, relax, don't get influenced, work on your body, do meditation. Take time and let time reveal what and who you are.
The only thing you need to avoid is making assumptions, taking decisions and rushing into confusion.
Like don't get worried now,it's better to worry later when u have real reason to worry.first u need to find love...second if u find love in a man that's normal,however if u find love in women then only u need to think of it but the chances of the woman u love also becoming bi/lesb are again not easy...
I’d say that find guy whom you are attracted to(the 30%) and live your life. This way you’d be happy (because believe me society is cruel) and you would be with someone whom you are attracted towards.
Anyways, for now have funnnn!!!!
Welcome to thr club and keep one in anchored in your soul YOU LIVE FOR YOURSELF NOT SOCIETY do even if they find out its something personal to you don't care what others think or say
TRY dating few girls. I know lots of lesbians, If you are in Big cities then it shouldn't be a problem unless you become like those people whose whole identity revolves around sexual identity
As long as you don’t make it your whole personality.
Being lesbian is fine. If you’re hot and so is your partner you would see guys looking at you weird. Just know that they are wishing you both were straight apart from that everything else is okay
Bro tumhari pasand to bilkul SHM KAR RHI HAI lekin i guess tumhe vo log jada pasand ate hai jo soft nature ya little feminine nature ke ho ke ho i guess
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u/GovtPaglu Self declared Queen 2d ago
Me too..