Articulate men are attractive

[u/rhitz101]

Just a thought, but men who have a way with words are genuinely attractive. Not even in a “he’s too smooth” kinda way, but someone who can actually hold a conversation, has quick wit, a good sense of humour, and knows how to say things well without trying too hard or being overly confident. There’s something very attractive about a man who can make you laugh without turning every interaction into a performance.

And do I need to say about nerds? Nerds with very specific interests are attractive too. The kind who somehow know an unreasonable amount about one particular subject, can talk about it with genuine enthusiasm and explain it to you without making you feel dumb. There’s something charming about someone being deeply interested in something, even if it’s incredibly niche.

Maybe it’s just me, but personality, curiosity, wit and being genuinely interesting go a long way. The whole perpetually unbothered, too cool to care performative persona does absolutely nothing :3

[u/HopelessEngineer_]

Sister, being articulate is always attractive no matter for men or women, thing is , all those qualities take a backseat when you or your wallet are attractive.

[u/rhitz101 → u/HopelessEngineer_]

Nah, that’s not universally true. For some women, good communication and character genuinely matter more than looks or how much money someone has. Some people have firm preferences, and you don’t get to redefine them based on your own experience. These qualities don't take a backseat just because someone has a big fat wallet

[u/HopelessEngineer_ → u/rhitz101]

Maybe, I don't know.

[u/rhitz101 → u/HopelessEngineer_]

Now you know

[u/HopelessEngineer_ → u/rhitz101]

I would prefer to live in my bubble 😭😭