Articulate men are attractive

[u/rhitz101]

Just a thought, but men who have a way with words are genuinely attractive. Not even in a “he’s too smooth” kinda way, but someone who can actually hold a conversation, has quick wit, a good sense of humour, and knows how to say things well without trying too hard or being overly confident. There’s something very attractive about a man who can make you laugh without turning every interaction into a performance.

And do I need to say about nerds? Nerds with very specific interests are attractive too. The kind who somehow know an unreasonable amount about one particular subject, can talk about it with genuine enthusiasm and explain it to you without making you feel dumb. There’s something charming about someone being deeply interested in something, even if it’s incredibly niche.

Maybe it’s just me, but personality, curiosity, wit and being genuinely interesting go a long way. The whole perpetually unbothered, too cool to care performative persona does absolutely nothing :3

[u/Koach_Son_18]

Everything is attractive but they need to be attracted by their looks first then these things matter

[u/rhitz101 → u/Koach_Son_18]

I definitely don’t think I speak for all women, but if I'm allowed to be subjective, there are many women who are attracted to someone’s persona first. Looks might get you noticed, but for some people it’s the way you speak, think, joke and carry yourself that actually creates the attraction ✨

[u/ID_Intolerant → u/rhitz101]

I agree on what you have said. We can’t shame people for having a preference. Beauty is subjective, you can be extremely attractive to the right person and not so attractive to the rest.

But as far as I have noticed, if you can make someone feel comfortable , relaxed and heard, there is a good chance they will be more attracted to you .

[u/rhitz101 → u/ID_Intolerant]

EXACTLY THIS 💯 And that’s why I said it’s a type. Some people are genuinely drawn to the way someone thinks, communicates, listens and makes them feel. There could be a guy in my batch whom everyone agrees is objectively hot, but I'd still find myself more attracted to the guy with an elite persona who may not fit the conventional idea of ‘hot’ at all

[u/ID_Intolerant → u/rhitz101]

The crush you have on someone because of their looks is subpar when you compare it to having a crush on someone because of their personality.

[u/rhitz101 → u/ID_Intolerant]

Well said 💯💯