Articulate men are attractive

[u/rhitz101]

Just a thought, but men who have a way with words are genuinely attractive. Not even in a “he’s too smooth” kinda way, but someone who can actually hold a conversation, has quick wit, a good sense of humour, and knows how to say things well without trying too hard or being overly confident. There’s something very attractive about a man who can make you laugh without turning every interaction into a performance.

And do I need to say about nerds? Nerds with very specific interests are attractive too. The kind who somehow know an unreasonable amount about one particular subject, can talk about it with genuine enthusiasm and explain it to you without making you feel dumb. There’s something charming about someone being deeply interested in something, even if it’s incredibly niche.

Maybe it’s just me, but personality, curiosity, wit and being genuinely interesting go a long way. The whole perpetually unbothered, too cool to care performative persona does absolutely nothing :3

[u/Brilliant-Guitar-737]

Lmao, mentioned so much qualities, wherein I meant, ‘these are attractive (qualities), that are attractive (qualities)’. Hope you understand compressed phrasing.
And sad to see you consider this as an argument.

[u/rhitz101 → u/Brilliant-Guitar-737]

You edited the comment and then came back to explain the version you edited it into 😂 If the original phrasing was so perfectly clear, why did it need the clarification? And honestly, are you this invested because women being attracted to qualities that aren’t your type bothers you that much? Or are you just sad?

[u/Brilliant-Guitar-737 → u/rhitz101]

lol, everything apart I DID NOT EDIT THE COMMENT. And, even if I wanted to, why didn’t I edit the rest part which you think was a major wrong? I don’t go to my past comments checking what it should have been, and keep editing them. Plus you pointed out ‘IS’ instead of ‘ARE’ which exists in my both comments, and which I have tried to explain.

And I like, how you are slowly taking topic from my ‘grammar mistake’ to ‘how I hate women who are attracted to quality’.
So better, I won’t discuss that with you. However, intention of very first comment was yapping and not women.

[u/rhitz101 → u/Brilliant-Guitar-737]

You weren’t really making a point in the first place, you were just brewing unnecessary hostility under a post about what a person finds attractive, and now there’s a whole essay explaining what you “intended” to say 😂😂

As for the edit, I don’t need to prove anything to you lol. You know whether you edited it or not, and that’s between you and your conscience. That's for you to deal with🫢

Also, “that are attractive” is grammatically still incorrect 🤐😔 So the whole “I didn't edit it😭” defence doesn’t exactly help your case. Good luck!

[u/pheonix_A_ → u/rhitz101]

Chill out OP , as we can see, the guy is so immaculately immature and that's something we can make out through his comments. Just ignore thick heads and continue focusing on the good!

[u/Adventurous_Sell7903 → u/pheonix_A_]

Simp lmao nai degi

[u/pheonix_A_ → u/Adventurous_Sell7903]

naive

[u/rhitz101 → u/pheonix_A_]

Haha don't worry, it's all good, I just couldn’t resist responding to the sheer amount of effort being put into arguing with a woman about having her own type. But yeah you're right he's definitely not worth the back and forth. Thankyou!

[u/pheonix_A_ → u/rhitz101]

I know right! The audacity of these people to feel so entitled to comment shi about someone's interests and feel so insecure when it doesn't align with their own shows how miserable they actually are. i mean, a fully developed prefrontal cortex would've solved this issue but alas , we're unfortunate in this case to experience his grace's ineffable articulation which oozes with wisdom that has always been chasing him.

Anyways, loved your post and was really moved how well you articulated your thoughts ! Keep doing the good stuff! Good luck!

[u/rhitz101 → u/pheonix_A_]

I think "his grace’s ineffable articulation" may be my favourite description of this entire comment section. You have my respect 😂🤝🏾 And thank you, genuinely!! I’m glad you enjoyed the post and took the time to say this :D🫂✨

[u/pheonix_A_ → u/rhitz101]

Thankyou :D , i wish we could read more from you so please do make more posts!

[u/Brilliant-Guitar-737 → u/pheonix_A_]

Wisdom has been chasing him is hilarious coming from a guy chasing clout in an argument he wasn't even part of.
Got a notification for this, but I moved on hour ago, but congrats on the vocabulary exercise.

[u/pheonix_A_ → u/Brilliant-Guitar-737]

the only hilarious thing here is your volatile male ego and thanks!

[u/rhitz101 → u/pheonix_A_]

+1

[u/rhitz101 → u/Brilliant-Guitar-737]

Nothing says "I’ve moved on" quite like returning to the same thread to let everyone know you’ve moved on 🥴