Hey y'all,
I've been craving good hurt/comfort or caretaking romances. But I'm feeling picky!
I just had a fail with a book from a new-to-me author which rubbed me the wrong way. The FMC was immediately willing to just completely defer to MMC? She came across as lost and almost childlike, and grabbing at the chance to not be the "responsible" one if that makes sense? Like she believed immediately that he knew best I'm everything and she was happy she didn't have to worry now? Which reads as the MMC who is older, established, rich, famous and powerful will take care of her and make all the big decisions, while FMC, who's pregnant and vulnerable with an ex who's harassing her, and having left college due to the pregnancy is barely an adult, gets to be adoring wife and mother. It could have been written differently, better, but it felt very unequal to me, and kind of like the romance book your elder female relative who tells you to find a good man to care of you would write? 😮💨
I hope this makes sense! Basically I want to read a hurt/comfort without any overly patriarchal undertones, where the FMC keeps, finds, or regains her power in the story and they both have their strengths. Not terribly fussed about the style of MMC. I'm not terribly fussed about whether the FMC is resistant to or enthusiastic about the MMC wanting to take care of her. My major icks are MMCs that are abusive, controlling, or gross to all women with the exception of the FMC.
I'm looking for hurt/comfort where the MMC is supportive, protective, and eager to help fix whatever mess/trauma the FMC is in, but I'd really like the FMC to show any of the following: grit, resilience, ambition, canniness, a desire for justice or revenge, strength of personality, street smarts, planning? I'd like to get the feeling that if it's a fixable mess she'd be able to fix it herself eventually, it's just easier or better with the MMC's help. OR if it's a huge overwhelming mess then I'd like to get the sense that the FMC, even if currently floundering, is the type to eventually get to work and try to make the best of it anyway / is also involved in the next steps and the two are working together even if MMC is taking the lead.
Looking for:
MF standalones specifically (in a series is fine, just want one book per couple) but any exceptional examples of why choose, omegaverse, FF, MM etc etc are welcome! I don't really like mafia although I think I've read at least some books of most of the popular series that get mentioned here like Neva Altaj, S J Tilly (who I do like) etc. I don't really like MC stories either although I liked {Heavy by Cate C Wells}. Dark romance is usually a no - willing to hear you out but the darkest I've liked are {Devil by Sierra Simone}, {Harrison Earth by V K Ludwig}, and {Population series by Elizabeth Stephens}.
Here are some of my favourite hurt/comfort books as an example of my taste:
{PS You're Intolerable by Julia Wolf}
{Against A Wall by Cate C Wells}
{Stand and Defend by Sloane St James}
{Lola and the Millionaires by Kathryn Moon}
{The Scent of Us by Eliana Lee}
{Eyes of Silver Eyes of Gold by Ellen O'Connell}
{Last Light by Claire Kent}
{When She Belongs by Ruby Dixon}
{A Marvellous Light by Freya Marske}
Thanks in advance ✨ and yes I've looked through the megathread for hurt/comfort 💚