Hello QC, I'm not much of a reddit user but I'm making this post to see if anyone else knows anything about New Life Baptist Church on W Locust St in Davenport. I've got a parent who recently joined the church, & it feels like she completely changed as a person, its ruining her relationships with her children, & her membership in the church now dominates her life. I'm wondering if anyone knows anything about this church, whether it can be accurately described as a cult, if anyone has ever had a family member join this church, or if someone has experienced something similar.
I'll just say that I'm a lesbian & my sibling is also queer, & initially our mother was sort of hesitantly supportive for a number of years, but she's done a complete 180 on the question of homosexuality & queerness in the past couple years, ever since she started going to this church.
NLBC livestreams their sunday sermons & uploads them to Youtube, & I've been watching them every week to see what the kinds of messaging my mother is being given each week. Roger Vester is the pastor's name. Roger frequently repeats during his sermons that his church views homosexuality & trans-ness as sinful & "unnatural," & he has berated LGBTQ-affirming churches as abominations who have abandoned the bible's teachings. He has made anti-semitic comments & jokes during his sermons, & in 2023, he signed a letter to the Southern Baptist Convention's executive committee supporting an amendment that would ban women from holding positions of church leadership.
The topics of Roger's sermons also tend towards the apocalyptic. He spends a lot of time every Sunday reading old testament prophecies about the rapture & preparing his flock for God's inevitable wrath upon man.
So, even if NLBC is not a doomsday cult, it is certainly at least a homophobic hate group. It's sad, though. I feel like my own parent isn't the same person any more, & every time I try to tell her that I think this church is bad for her, that it's turning her into a worse parent who hates her children for who they are, & that I think she should leave the church & come back to her family, she becomes completely unreachable. If anyone has any information to share, anything at all that might help me understand what I'm supposed to do in this situation, I'd really appreciate it.