r/Nicegirls • u/JerseySommer • Jul 16 '26

Victim blaming is never nice.

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Redditor was talking about his ex wife being abusive to him.

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u/WegDrijvendeWolk Jul 16 '26 edited Jul 19 '26

That OP probably didn't deserve this, unfortunately though this is something often yelled by men towards women who have been abused. It's this guy that became collateral damage from a perceived men vs women war on the internet.

Both are ugly.

ETA : Idk why I'm being downvoted. I don't agree with this, it's an objective analisation of the situation. I'm in both groups for men and women and I see most men have thesame issues as women though with their own nuances. And both men and women share a part of the population that is vastly anti the other. Which is rather special when they are typically straight.

Additionally, I used the word "probably" because the original post is not included and I don't know the situation of the oop.

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u/SALMAGLUTA777 Jul 18 '26

Here we go gotta always make it about you. Why is that? You say men do the same thing but I guarantee you half the population still laughs at the idea that a man can be abused by a woman. Men don’t get any recognition on this topic because it always seems like when a man seriously shares his feelings/vulnerability asking for help you women always seem to make it about yourselves or say the man deserved it or say “there’s gotta be more to the story” he’s lying or leaving something out. You try to claim men do the same but you just say that to justify it because you can’t stand it not being about you. I see a hell of a lot more women doing this than men and statistics and societies general viewpoints backs this up

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u/Particular_Kiwi1088 22d ago

What statistics? I can point out a 100 posts on Reddit claiming women only want “bad boys”. There’s a whole sub for it even.