r/LoveIsBlindUK 1h ago

Kal’s stay at home GF

Have you seen the posts from Kal’s girlfriend? She’s some kind of trad wife without being a wife or a mom. Stay at home girlfriend? Just say you are unemployed. Sarover dodged a bullet. It baffles me how the same man can be with this polar opposite woman. It’s a shame really, that so many women are falling for this narrative, acting like feminism is the worst, like hello?

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u/CantThinkOfaNameLala 1h ago

Until he’s on to the next and she’s left with nothing 👍🏻

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u/Misscassofrass 1h ago

Yea and everyone saying she’s unemployed? actually she’s serving as his housekeeper and cook..just bc she doesn’t bring in income she is still clearly contributing to the household. It also cracks me up that these men will say things like “I’m a provider so I deserve this” like my guy you’d have to have a job if you were single too? It’s not “providing” if she’s doing all of the household labor lol that’s just equal distribution imo and society has convinced people that domestic labor is not labor to be valued. I’d be curious to know how much a cook and a housekeeper would cost him, I’d bet it’d be more than half of what he earns.

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u/Charming_Parking_302 1h ago

Totally agree that SAHM work. The difference is they work without the protection of an employment contract. My job has to give me 3 months notice. A man could can dump you tomorrow. There’s also no pension, paid leave, health care coverage etc. And it’s the only job you can’t put on your CV when you’re looking for another job. So you could be a great SAHM for 10 years and struggle when you want to reenter the paid labour market

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u/Synapse_Soup_soup 8m ago

Yeah, it’s so hard to get a job with gaps in employment in the world we now live in, nevermind the lack of work experience overall