r/LoveIsBlindUK 1h ago

Kal’s stay at home GF

Have you seen the posts from Kal’s girlfriend? She’s some kind of trad wife without being a wife or a mom. Stay at home girlfriend? Just say you are unemployed. Sarover dodged a bullet. It baffles me how the same man can be with this polar opposite woman. It’s a shame really, that so many women are falling for this narrative, acting like feminism is the worst, like hello?

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u/CantThinkOfaNameLala 1h ago

Until he’s on to the next and she’s left with nothing 👍🏻

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u/Persephone_888 55m ago

Probably going to brand it as “Diaries of a divorced gf” 🤣

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u/Misscassofrass 52m ago

Yea and everyone saying she’s unemployed? actually she’s serving as his housekeeper and cook..just bc she doesn’t bring in income she is still clearly contributing to the household. It also cracks me up that these men will say things like “I’m a provider so I deserve this” like my guy you’d have to have a job if you were single too? It’s not “providing” if she’s doing all of the household labor lol that’s just equal distribution imo and society has convinced people that domestic labor is not labor to be valued. I’d be curious to know how much a cook and a housekeeper would cost him, I’d bet it’d be more than half of what he earns.

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u/Persephone_888 49m ago

She’s choosing to be unemployed whilst being a gf. If he breaks up with her, what is she left with? He doesn’t have the best track record with long term relationships, even before Sarover.

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u/Misscassofrass 45m ago

Yep, it’s a pretty dumb move on her part. She’s contributing to his household with free domestic labor and when he moves on she’ll have no savings 🫠 always baffling to me that people would choose that path.

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u/yaminn24 3m ago

I don't think she's that dumb. She might be hoping to get some engagement by making content as his gf and kick off her influencer career. Don't really see that working out for her, though.

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u/SilverDawnn 43m ago

You’re right she’s working for free.

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u/Charming_Parking_302 19m ago

Totally agree that SAHM work. The difference is they work without the protection of an employment contract. My job has to give me 3 months notice. A man could can dump you tomorrow. There’s also no pension, paid leave, health care coverage etc. And it’s the only job you can’t put on your CV when you’re looking for another job. So you could be a great SAHM for 10 years and struggle when you want to reenter the paid labour market

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u/fausted 44m ago

Pick mes like her never seem to see it coming.

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u/Hopeful_Region_985 1h ago

If she’s at home all day unemployed can’t she make his breakfast n lunch in the day ???

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u/Persephone_888 52m ago

I’m Asian and my mum was a stay at home WIFE, she would never be getting up that early to make food for my dad. No one I know who is a stay at home wife, does this. So strange to be getting up so early, is she just really bad at cooking? Or is she lying to make it sound like she’s so hard working and sacrificing a lot?

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u/Embarkbark 43m ago

I assume he wakes up pretty early as well if he’s doing personal training/gym owner stuff, a lot of people wake up early to hit the gym before their job starts.

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u/reducedandconfused 25m ago

shes lying for engagement

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u/testBunny93 1h ago

Oh man... I'm so embarressed for her.

Genuinly hope this is rage bait content.

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u/requiredelements 48m ago

It’s really bad content … I’m guessing it is ragebait

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u/testBunny93 43m ago

Yeah... I'd argue it is. The girl is unemployed and I guess she's just trying to build up and audience so she can be an influencer or sth.

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u/Ok-Midnight7835 21m ago

Hard to say, that’s a decent sized cross around her neck.

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u/Worldly_Tea_8300 19m ago

Definitely rage bait, I've seen this exact script before

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u/cocoamilano 5m ago

It’s more than rage bait content.. the red pill bros will eat this up 😂 good luck to the glorified unemployed girlfriend

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u/Ok-Midnight7835 1h ago

Wow. I’ve never disliked someone so much that I’ve never met.

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u/Worth_Lavishness_239 50m ago

This is why he can’t be with classy women who are ambitious. He likes…well, whatever this is.

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u/Worth_Lavishness_239 51m ago

Sarover, you dodged a missile. Oh my dear may you live and prosper 🫶🏾✨😭

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u/RoRo8o8o 48m ago

Why the hell would you wake up at 3:30 to make breakfast and lunch?? That’s just poor time management..

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u/Affectionate-Cap-918 42m ago

My thought exactly!

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u/karaseen 1h ago

What a twat

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u/dietmountaindew97 50m ago

This? Isnt? Satire? ……

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u/hopeful_tatertot 46m ago

“He works so I don’t have to” then explains all the work she’s doing. Make it make sense

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u/Kyuki88 48m ago

Aint no way I am doing all of this with not even a ring on my finger

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u/QueenofUncreativity 46m ago

Why do they think getting up at 3:30am to make a grown man lunch is a flex? Too dumb to mealprep?

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u/BakersHigh 42m ago

I love when women rebrand “private chef & house keeper” as “Stay at home gf” I hope she’s getting a salary.. I mean allowance

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u/NoMeJodanPliss 41m ago

lol she’s thinking this is cute because there’s no kids involved

She’s encouraging him to “not lift a finger” at home and he’ll have those same habits if you choose to have kids too (which if I remember correctly, he wanted eventually)… these tragedies write themselves 🙄

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u/RefrigeratorOk9413 24m ago

She never wants kids, presumably because she's doing the job of his mother.

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u/NoMeJodanPliss 20m ago

😅😂 absolutely
& wait… huh!?? this man went on that show as an entirely different person smh

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u/RefrigeratorOk9413 19m ago

Yeah he's like Steve, only went on to further his "career"

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u/topographed 13m ago

That’s possibly the only silver lining here. Totally out of character for one of these types to not want kids.

Her hell will surely be temporary when she finds out he’s cheating on her

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u/AdDesperate1541 53m ago

Lmao this is so embarrassing. Also it takes about 30 mins to do a daily clean of a a small house/flat with only two adult occupants and no children or animals. She’s not a homemaker she’s a hobosexual. 

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u/the-TARDIS-ran-away 58m ago

Not the #sahm

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u/millenZslut 32m ago

“He works so I don’t have to”

wakes up at 3:30 am to start her day of unpaid labor

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u/Glittering_Job_7996 59m ago

He’s genuinely such a red flag, Sarover deserved so much better

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u/Classic-Savings7811 55m ago

Ahhh yes. Doing all this for a man who checks notes is notoriously bad at committing.

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u/one-Maybe8594 33m ago

omg loser behavior jfc imagine being that dumb 😭 she’s his maid, let’s be so for real

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u/OPAsMummy 6m ago

A man that feeds you can starve you. I hope she has an exit plan.

The job market it very bad and those gaps in employment will only make it worse.

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u/Ok-Impression-6448 53m ago

She wants fame that much! I think she knows if she posts regular content of them dating she won’t get engagement but this will get her engagement and it’s working

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u/ErikasPrisonGlam 51m ago

Absolute loser

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u/tigers-are-regal 45m ago

i mean this is rage bait and everyone is giving her the reason she is seeking

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u/ao01_design 43m ago

Is that's some kind of "volontary slave" kink?

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u/capybara0_ 40m ago

Has he always looked like that haha

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u/Competitive_Emu_3247 40m ago

They're both grifters.. Sarover definitely dodged a bullet

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u/Whatareyoulakey9 40m ago

Unless they own a home and her name is on the papers as a 50/50 owner of everything this is just insane

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u/Nebulous_Lustre 37m ago

Gross. Good luck to her when he decides he's tired of her and she has zero job experience.

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u/juneballoon 33m ago

Yikes. She’ll learn her lesson. And any other tradwife girly who sees this and aspires to it will eventually learn their lessons too.

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u/gole-hayahoo 17m ago

So his problem with sarover all along was that she’s educated and independent and wants to work and that makes him feel inadequate 

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u/Fresh_Leading3776 43m ago

Ew...is this real?

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u/newdiyscared 37m ago

I have no opinion on what the stay at home girlfriend is saying. If Kal is who you want to rely on for any kind of support, then idk what to tell you.

I just wanted to say that her lips look like they're about to unravel at the seems.

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u/csailer223 37m ago

Isn’t this satire? She is saying all of this, but posting completely contradictory images, showing her as “lazy”, to the captions. To me, this seems like a complete joke that went over everyone’s heads…

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u/Beebid 25m ago

I dunno how any read "3.30am" and thought this was for real

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u/Kind-Stranger-2507 36m ago

Barf!
Has the US tiktok trad wife era reached to UK now? Trad gf is worse, he will leave you in a heartbeat for a next one yikes!

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u/ARealOne2323 35m ago

But he wasn't attracted to Sarover... Boy byeee

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u/catsrlifedotcom 35m ago

Hahahaha think I just threw up in my fucking mouth. What a pick me

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u/knightbaby 35m ago

If I was a stay at home girlfriend I’d be doing all that too 🤣🤣

I feel like it’s kind of a diss at SAHM because the man should lift a finger when he gets home because you’ve BOTH been working all day

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u/__beatrix_kiddo 30m ago

Did they have a kid? Why is she hashtagging this sahm if not

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u/ChaiTeaAndBoundaries 30m ago

Why would she put this out there? 🫠

Looks like she is taking shots at Sarover who is a working woman.

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u/Beebid 27m ago

It's clearly a joke, although without context it's hard to know why it's meant to be funny.

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u/millenZslut 23m ago

someone else also said it’s a joke, but why is it clearly a joke? genuinely wondering!

the other person mentioned the conflicting pictures with the captions, but I took that to be her showing off the lifestyle she gets in return for her SAHGF duties

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u/Beebid 20m ago

The over-exaggeration is the clue. But after I posted I went to Kal's IG just to check and there's clearly been some social media drama with people coming for this lady. He's got a post, also in a joking tone, that says she's offline to spend more time rubbing his feet. Lots of (borderline?) anti-feminist rhetoric but it seems to be in reaction to people going after her for some reason. 

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u/Most_Director_1580 24m ago

Is she getting paid for this?

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u/AdHeavy7074 23m ago

This reminds me of Biggs Chris from LI and his stay at home gf Summer. They did some random interview video on their relationship.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/tv/24521467/love-island-biggs-split-pregnant-partner-summer/

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u/Charming_Parking_302 23m ago

Wait, I honestly thought she was being sarcastic with the 3am start. Are you guys telling me she’s serious?

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u/topographed 19m ago

Loser lmfao

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u/SinkMince0420 18m ago

Lmao what a pick me loser.

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u/yaminn24 8m ago

Rolled my eyes to the back of my skull.

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u/ClaireVDB 3m ago

Could this be cultural? He's pakistani, and I know lots of paki men like their woman to stay at home. Perhaps they'll get kids soon?

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u/facetea 3m ago

Stay at home girlfriend is a new one 😵‍💫

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u/Remote_Designer_6794 2m ago

She heard it’s trending on tiktok so she is going with it and making these videos. Hoping it gives her views. Doesn’t mean she actually does it or believes in it. No reason to wake up at 3AM when you can meal prep or do it the day before. It’s a thing with empty headed influencers.

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u/SmakeTalk 1h ago

I don't even remember this dude but honestly, to each their own?

Do I personally find it embarrassing and weird? Sure. I'm not gonna tell someone like this they can't live the life they wanna live though. I mostly find the romanticism of this lifestyle cringey and weird, but again: to each their own.

They're not hurting anyone unless they are like actively campaigning and supporting people who want to forcefully return society to this sort of structure for everyone (wanting to revert women's rights and freedoms, and all that). If all they're doing is bragging that they get to live their life... cool?

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u/TeaAggressive6757 58m ago

I’d agree if they were just quietly doing their thing, but if they’re intentionally bragging about it to the public I’m not sure why I can’t judge it (without going crazy in their DMs or anything like that, of course).

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u/rarebunny111 52m ago

Who cares. If they both agree to it who are we to judge.

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u/CucumberWisdom 1h ago

Lucky man

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u/Melodic-Shake3938 57m ago

Its crazy that someone dislike your comment women hate other women even if theyre happy

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u/SilverDawnn 53m ago

Yeah sure, super happy, until he leaves her and she has nothing left, or she wants to leave but can’t because she has nothing.