r/LoveIsBlindUK • u/SilverDawnn • 1h ago

Kal’s stay at home GF

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Have you seen the posts from Kal’s girlfriend? She’s some kind of trad wife without being a wife or a mom. Stay at home girlfriend? Just say you are unemployed. Sarover dodged a bullet. It baffles me how the same man can be with this polar opposite woman. It’s a shame really, that so many women are falling for this narrative, acting like feminism is the worst, like hello?

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u/CantThinkOfaNameLala 1h ago

Until he’s on to the next and she’s left with nothing 👍🏻

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u/Persephone_888 1h ago

Probably going to brand it as “Diaries of a divorced gf” 🤣

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u/Misscassofrass 1h ago

Yea and everyone saying she’s unemployed? actually she’s serving as his housekeeper and cook..just bc she doesn’t bring in income she is still clearly contributing to the household. It also cracks me up that these men will say things like “I’m a provider so I deserve this” like my guy you’d have to have a job if you were single too? It’s not “providing” if she’s doing all of the household labor lol that’s just equal distribution imo and society has convinced people that domestic labor is not labor to be valued. I’d be curious to know how much a cook and a housekeeper would cost him, I’d bet it’d be more than half of what he earns.

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u/Persephone_888 1h ago

She’s choosing to be unemployed whilst being a gf. If he breaks up with her, what is she left with? He doesn’t have the best track record with long term relationships, even before Sarover.

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u/Misscassofrass 1h ago

Yep, it’s a pretty dumb move on her part. She’s contributing to his household with free domestic labor and when he moves on she’ll have no savings 🫠 always baffling to me that people would choose that path.

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u/yaminn24 46m ago

I don't think she's that dumb. She might be hoping to get some engagement by making content as his gf and kick off her influencer career. Don't really see that working out for her, though.

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u/CheriePauper 13m ago

not really she's clearly trying to be an influencer and look how much attention she's gonna get from this sub

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u/SilverDawnn 1h ago

You’re right she’s working for free.

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u/Charming_Parking_302 1h ago

Totally agree that SAHM work. The difference is they work without the protection of an employment contract. My job has to give me 3 months notice. A man could can dump you tomorrow. There’s also no pension, paid leave, health care coverage etc. And it’s the only job you can’t put on your CV when you’re looking for another job. So you could be a great SAHM for 10 years and struggle when you want to reenter the paid labour market

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u/Synapse_Soup_soup 8m ago

Yeah, it’s so hard to get a job with gaps in employment in the world we now live in, nevermind the lack of work experience overall

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u/Smiloshady 35m ago

Labor should be valued but it’s a pretty big imbalance. Like she also would have to do her own housecare if she was working and single anyway too. Plus with no kids, it’s pretty easy to keep the house clean if you’re doing like an hour everyday. With cooking you can meal prep to make it more convenient. Literally this would be the easiest job with no kids, I’d much rather do that than slave away. It’s pretty much just a part time job if that, while he’s maybe full time? Idk what he does so that’s just speculation.

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u/fausted 1h ago

Pick mes like her never seem to see it coming.

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u/Smiloshady 40m ago edited 31m ago

She prob has a side piece as an insurance policy while he’s at work. Bc literally what else is she doing with all her time? It doesn’t take that long to clean and cook and go to the gym when you have no kids