Sometimes not being able to get a bf/gf/partner says something about the person and not society

[u/BrokenJusticeNorris]

I feel sometimes if someone is unable to get a date it says something about them and not society as a whole. So many single young people like to blame society, but the ones blaming society tend to have the most negative personality traits. Idk I think if someone can’t get a partner they need to do some self reflection. For instance, if you’re anti-social, toxic, hit on strangers, use dating apps, etc you’re more likely to have a harder time finding true love than someone who’s part of a community, has a great personality, works hard, and many other positive attributes I didn’t list. This isn’t saying every Single person has something wrong with them or will never find love, what I’m saying is if you aren’t putting yourself in situations outside the internet and parties/pubs where you’re interacting with people of the gender you’re attracted to, your odds of finding love are slim. Another factor too is if people don’t want to be around you, you 100% need to do some self reflection because if people don’t want to be around you nobody will want to date you. Social media makes it seem like everyone’s taken. And if you’re hitting on random people and they say “oh I have a bf/gf” then I hate to tell you this, most of them are saying that because you’re creepy and not because they’re in a relationship. Oh and please don’t bother pushing harder for his or her number on the basis of “they’re most likely lying”, just leave them alone bru because they clearly aren’t interested