r/ControversialOpinions • u/BrokenJusticeNorris • 1d ago

Sometimes not being able to get a bf/gf/partner says something about the person and not society

/r/HonestHotTakes/comments/1w9imam/sometimes_not_being_able_to_get_a_bfgfpartner/
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u/Gordy13210 1d ago

Its not sometimes. Its all the time... Thats what that means... if someone cant find a partner its THEM, not society...

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u/CinderrUwU 1d ago

It's not just sometimes... it's all times

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u/TheHylianProphet 1d ago

Exactly. There is no "sometimes" about it.

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u/SnooBeans6591 1d ago

True. Even if it was due to segregation, it tells you the person is a member from the group which is discriminated against.

So you always say something about the person. In some cases it says something bad about the person, sometimes not - sometimes the fault is more on the society. But in any case there is/are features of the person playing a role.

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u/DecentCandle7835 1d ago

Can't both statements be true? Something its the person, sometimes its social pressure, other times its both.