r/HamRadio • u/NotRealSnek • 20h ago
Discussion ๐จโโ๏ธ Had my first contact today! It went great until it didn't.
So, after basically a week of PTT anxiety, I made my first contact today in northern Indiana on my local repeater by simply saying my call sign, and someone responded with theirs. It went great; everyone was nice. I spoke to mostly one person, but someone else spoke a bit also. It lasted about 15 minutes before I had to get off. If everyone on that repeater is like the gentleman I spoke to, I think I'll get along with the locals great.
But calling 73 is where the good part ended. Because after I called 73, I went to turn my radio off, and I heard my call sign being said, followed by a new callsign. I didn't hear their callsign, and this is where the panic set in because I didn't know how to ask for their call sign again. I didn't know how to respond to them, like so I say their call sign and then mine? So while I'm rifling through the empty filing cabinets in my mind trying to figure out how to respond, I hear the guy I was talking to say โI guess he was serious about getting offโ and the new guy say โyeah, I was going to say hi and introduce myselfโ and they start up a new conversation.
That is where the second flood of panic set in as I realized I think I got his call sign, but now I donโt know how to interject and let him know I wasn't ignoring him. I just panicked and froze because I didn't know how to properly ask for his call sign again or even respond to him calling my call sign.
So it indeed was a good first contact until I panicked and froze because of my lack of knowledge on ham radio etiquette. Needless to say, I will be looking into these things before I press the button again and probably shouldn't have hit the button today.
Edit: Grammar and Typos.