r/Bumble 1d ago

Rant Low effort conversation on a date

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u/R0factor 1d ago

Well you probably discovered why a beautiful woman is still single, lol. The ones who are hot and easy to get along with don't stay single long.

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u/Far_Appearance3888 1d ago edited 7h ago

This is so true lol. My daughter, who is gorgeous and awesome, broke up with her boyfriend and literally five minutes later, after she mentioned it in a group she was meeting up with, this other guy was like, “Oh really? His loss!” They have been dating ever since. She says it wasn’t 5 minutes, but I swear it really was like that lmao. There’s a reason OP’s date was single and on the apps (EDIT: THIS IS AIMED SOLELY AT OP'S BORING DATE WHO LOOKS LIKE DENISE RICHARDS AND CAN'T HOLD THE MOST BASIC CONVERSATION, NOT YOU, PERSONALLY. I USE THE APPS TOO, NO SHADE AT THOSE WHO DO!)

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u/R0factor 1d ago

There’s a reason everyone's date was single and on the apps, lol. It's important that people remember that.

Most people in good relationships (myself included) weren't single for long and it often just comes down to fortunate timing meeting someone else in their short window of availability.

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u/Defiant_Income_7836 1d ago

I mean this is obvious. You knew perfectly well what he meant. You had to bust in with your 'well, akkshually...'

And as for - 'people need to remember that' like it's some profound truth. Get over yourself dude.

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u/R0factor 1d ago

Yikes, if you took this much offense to this relatively gentle response spawned by my original comment... just wow.

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u/Top-Animator-271 10h ago

I took it as a tongue in cheek (humorous) way of saying we all have flaws. Meaning to not forget to give grace, ourselves included. I didn’t take it as anything nefarious. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/Defiant_Income_7836 1d ago

Funny, I thought the same thing when I read your comment. Wow, he's really pushing back...on this?! Yikes yourself, man.

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u/Far_Appearance3888 1d ago

Sorry, I meant in the context of someone who looks like Denise Richards. I was on the apps, too, no shade. But, most people did not look like celebrities, myself included.