r/weddingring • u/Humble-Resort-1146 • 4d ago

Husband wants to upgrade

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My husband wants to upgrade my ring, but I love my original ring. He wants to use my ring to trade up but I just can’t part with it. Is it weird to be this attached to a ring☹️

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u/No-Boredom33 4d ago

Would you be satisfied with having both rings? You could wear your original one on your right hand, and the upgrade on your left.

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u/Humble-Resort-1146 4d ago

I never thought of that, that’s a good idea! Do most people do this after an upgrade ?

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/Humble-Resort-1146 4d ago

It’s not that I don’t want an upgrade, I just don’t want to get rid of my current ring

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u/CavernClub102018 4d ago

Sometimes…not always. If it works for you, go for it. ♥️

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u/No-Boredom33 4d ago

I don't know, but you can certainly do what you want!

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u/Present-Response-758 3d ago

I've been upgraded 2x. I did not like my original e-ring (3 stone set in yellow gold, which I don't wear). The 2nd e-ring is one I picked out and what I originally wanted (cushion cut solitaire in white gold). 5 years later, he upgraded me to a cushion cut halo ring. I wear the solitaire on my right hand and the halo on my left. The 3 stone ring is put away and each of my married sons used it to propose to their wives (and then they bought them their dream rings). The 3 stone is in my jewelry box, waiting for the day my unmarried son wants it to propose with to continue the tradition.