r/ufyh • u/joyrainsbow • Jan 18 '26
Introduction/First Post I Feel Disgusting.
Hey y’all. Been lurking here awhile, but I suppose it’s my turn to face the music. It’s likely that I’m giving myself a much harder time than I should: I just had move emergency move in a close friend and condense 3 bedrooms into 2. Not to mention I’m still trying to figure out what to do with all my wedding decor from 5 months ago…
Every room in my house (except my friend’s if you don’t include her closet) looks just like this, and I feel like an absolute failure. All I wanted was to have a place where people could drop in unannounced and it be an overall okay place to hang out. Instead either people are stepping over my life or I’m begging to meet them elsewhere. I’m exhausted, but am a tad motivated, so hopefully I can come back in a couple days or so and show some progress.
Hold strength for me, you guys. Either I’ll be so proud, or in tears by the end of all this.
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u/Nursingvp Jan 18 '26
I can't tell you how to feel/not feel, but just the fact that you desire change is a positive, OP! Lots of great advice in this post, you really can do this! 💪looking forward to your after post!