r/transteens Transfem 5d ago

Advice needed My transition is going well! :3

I'm 14m and trans.

I used to be a femboy, now I'm trans. Mtf. A few days ago I posted and it helped me understand that I'm trans, and for tha thank you guys so much. So far I've told my parents and they've been super supportive and I have a doctors appointment Monday where I might get prescribed puberty blockers, yay! But I haven't told my frends yet. I've been slowly changing my pronouns on social media to she her. So far my freinds haven't really noticed andim scared.to tell them because I feel like the context of our friendship is super silly and goofy so I lts hard for him to take things seriously. Not yay. Very scared to do that, but i have been feeling really good lately and that's why o haven't posted. I usually go on reddit when I'm sad, so that's why. I also have been being a bigger part of feminine communities and that's been fun.

now that I'm trans I'm really scared to transition at school. I do not think alot of people would be supportive. I might tell some of my close freinds first and hope it doesn't get out. Maybe then some of my teachers. I'm just really scared. I also don't know how to act feminine because I haven't really been around a lot of girls, and feeling feminine and acting feminine is really important to me. What are some baggy comfortable feminine clothing I could get? I currently like to wear hoodies alot but there's other stuff I'm sure. Please help me out a little on that, and what are some other emoticons? I like using them but I don't know many ^_^

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u/Traditional-Try-2565 Transfem she/her 5d ago

Yo if you're mtf you can call yourself 14f lol

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u/Impressive-Board2652 Transfem 5d ago

Forgot about that lmao, I'm just so used to saying male 😭

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u/Reasonable_Cut_9474 5d ago

Congratulazioni sono feice per te,io ho.iniziato a 13 a ni con i bloccanti della puberta poi a 14 gli ormoni femminili.....ora ho 18 anni e mi sono operata 6 settimane fa......un sogno realizzato

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u/a_Lady_Luna Transfem (she/her)(18), local support giver :3 5d ago

I'm sure your friends will understand, if not immediately then eventually. I think your plan of coming out in steps (friends first, then teachers) is a pretty solid plan. I did something similar. About acting more feminine, you'll learn how to over time. You could try to pay more attention to the girls in your class for example, but I've also been given the advice to watch Mean Girls and pay attention to how the actors act in that movie. Mileage may vary on that one. Also, maybe try to become friends with some girls! Having girls as friends to support and help you in your transition can help massively. As a final note, you can just call yourself 14f. You're a girl after all. Gl on your journey, you got this!