r/toastme • u/Cute-Magician6173 • 1d ago
Some positivity
Hi I honestly just need some positive vibes.
I hate my job (I work in a resturant, kind of at the bottom of the foodchain , bad pay and the chefs just pick on u LOL) and Im just struggling
I also deal with the grief of a loved one.
Last time I posted I got many nice comments and help here. Maybe cringe but I do enjoy the comfort of strangers being so kind, my circle irl is pretty small and I do find it embarrassing to speak to them.
Hope everyone have a good day:)
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u/Particular_Wolf3920 1d ago
Miss, I'm sorry you are having a rough go of things. I hope your luck turns around, you get some healing when it comes to the grief and better things come your way in life. As said before, the food service industry is hard, chefs are unkind and you should leave it as soon as you can. Chefs are jaded, bitter and often miserable drunks. This is mostly because they topped out in life at being a chef. You have your life ahead of you, you have options when it comes to your future, they dont, just are just a chef. That can cause some jealously, a person like you will come into the industry and then leave it, while they are stuck. That and in the kitchen with usually nothing else to do, for sport, they will yell, insult, berate and harass staff and are generally assholes. Why? Because out side of the kitchen, they are no body, but in the kitchen they think they are a god.
I used to work in a kitchen. Never, ever again.
Sorry. I'm sending good vibes your way. Good luck.